Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 , a, our list owner and lead moderator, has created an excellent site where the answers to your questions about RA and the drugs used to treat it can be found: http://rheumatoid.arthritis.freehosting.net If you're wondering about your diagnosis, perhaps you could seek another opinion from a second rheumatologist. If both agree that you have RA, and if you decide after learning about the disease that the diagnosis makes sense, beginning treatment immediately is in your best interest. The risks of untreated RA far outweigh the risks of DMARD therapy. Methotrexate has been used for decades and, in terms of effectiveness, safety, and cost, is one of the best DMARDs available. I'll tell you where to go! Mayo Clinic in Rochester http://www.mayoclinic.org/rochester s Hopkins Medicine http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org [ ] Thank you for the welcome > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > meds. They claim they are too expensive. > > Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > > Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > > I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > any sort of medication. > > As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > > I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > > Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > tests all the time? > > This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 , First of all, seek a second opinion on your diagnosis if you are not convinced of the RA or have doubts about your rheumatologist. An accurate diagnosis of RA is not easy because there is no one test. There are many different things in your blood that can point to RA, but the rheumy must also observe symptoms over a period of time and see how your symptoms react to typical RA drugs. My diagnosis took 9 months although we all knew from the get go it was 99% RA. Here is the Jennie-low-down on the drugs: Drugs for treatment of RA are critical. If left untreated, RA in most cases will lead to joint destruction, deformity and permenant disability, although it does depend on the severity of your disease. Some people can go into remission, but that is the case for the majority of us. The drugs we have today are amazing in that they give an RA patient the chance at a normal life. Most consider Enbrel and other biologicals (Remicade and Humira) to be miracle drugs - as close as we have to a cure. That is because they slow the progression of this disesase and work really well without many side effects. Prednisone - the side effects of this drug depend on the amount you take and how long you plan to be on it. Yes, it can lead to bone loss. But there are things you can do to counteract that. Yes, it can increase your appetite and make you gain weight, but it did not do that for me. I am on a very low dose. How much did your rheumy prescribe? Methotrexate - this is a very well tolerated drug for most people. The side effects are not severe, although your doctor does have to monitor your liver function, that does not mean your liver will be affected. I have had no side effects of this drug, other than my hair thinning a little. But again, there are things you can do to counteract the side effects like taking prescription strength folic acid. Biologicals - these are recent drugs and they block our bodies from making too much of a certain protein (TNF) because people with RA over produce that protein. The name brands are Enbrel, Remicade and Humira. I take Humira and have no side effects from it at all. I know it's effectiveness is helped by the fact I also take mtx. Overall - the decision to take these drugs should be made jointly by you and your doctor. The risks and possible side effects should be weighed against what you will suffer with if you don't take them. There are many more risks, in my opinion, to leaving RA untreated. RA is different in everyone, but I can tell you if I was not on my RA drugs I would not be out of bed before noon on any day. My whole body just freezes up. It wasn't like that in the beginning, but this is a progressive disease and it gets worse over time, sometimes even with the drugs. It does require consisent monitoring because of the progressiveness, because you have to change medications or dosages as the disease changes it's course. I may be dependant on these drugs, I don't care because it means I can function every day, take care of my daughter, go to work and live my life. If your rheumy is prescribing something and you are not going to take it, you have to tell him. He cannot properly manage your illness if you are not communicating to him your concerns and telling him you have not decided to take this drug or that. For example, if he prescribes Enbrel and methotrexate, and you take the Enbrel but not the mtx, you should both expect the Enbrel to be less effective in treating the RA. If he doesn't know you didn't take the mtx, and the Enbrel doesn't work as well, he won't know the lack of mtx could be a reason. Most insurance does pay for these drugs, but only after a diagnosis of RA. Talk to your doctor about your insurance. He will have experience with getting these drugs covered. I don't think mtx is that expensive, but I take Humira and it's $1200 per month (my insurance co-pay is $20 per month). Lastly, this is a complicated disease, especially for someone who has never heard of it before. My advice is to get a second opinion and be comfortable that you do in fact have RA. Next, you must educate yourself about RA if you have it. Doing so will turn the mumbo jumbo you are hearing from your doctor into knowledge that will help ensure you get the best possible treatment for this - and most importantly that you are comfortable with the treatment you receive. We are all here to help you make sense of this. Please keep asking us questions, the men and women on this board have lots of advice and perspective to share about this disease. Jennie > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > meds. They claim they are too expensive. > > Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > > Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > > I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > any sort of medication. > > As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > > I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > > Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > tests all the time? > > This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 , Well, yours is an easy name to remember, and you spell it the right way too! I'm not a big poster, more of a reader, but your post struck a cord. I completely understand where you are coming from with the fear of the medications and the frustration wit your doctors visits. I am 29, very active with sports (played soccer from age 6 up until last September), have a very stressful career that requires a lot of my time and energy, was just about to start a family with my husband and HATE taking medications and seeing doctors. When I first experienced the joint pain it was one joint at a time, intense pain for one or two days and then gone. A few days later it would hurt somewhere else. I could always explain the pain because of some soccer injury but then one night they all hurt at the same time and I couldn't move from the couch and was very scared. I began to see my family doctor who put me on a dos-pak of steroids (a high dose on day one that tapers down to nothing after a week). That made the pain go away but after the third day, when the dose was pretty low, the pain came back. She switched me to 40mg of the prednisone and started doing LOTs of testing on me. Nothing was conclusive and my pain continued so she sent me to a rheumatologist. That's when the big frustrations began. The problem with autoimmune diseases, especially RA, is that they still don't understand exactly where they come from or how to diagnose them. There is something called an RA factor that can help with the diagnosis if it is above a certain number. Mine was still low so they couldn't peg it from the beginning. It took five months and multiple trips to the rheumatologist to finally diagnose me. During those months I was extremely frustrated because it seemed like every time I went to the rheumy, he asked the same questions, didn't have much of an explanation for me and my condition wasn't getting any better. The thing is, they just have to watch you for multiple months before they can really know what you have. The whole time I was on a high dose of the prednisone and I did have some issues with the side effects. I wasn't crazy moody or hungry but I did get puffy and gain a lot of weight which was almost more frustrating to me than the disease itself. The good news is that it was helping with my pain and making me functional again. Also, once they officially diagnosed me they were able to put me on one of the older drugs, Sulfasalazine, and gradually lower my prednisone. After three to six months the sulfasalazine started working and I have been able to lower my prednisone dose to 7mg a day (down from 40). My face and body are no longer puffy, I have lost about 10 lbs. (all of the weight I gained) and after almost a year of all of this I am coming to terms with what I have and the fact that I will be able to live a somewhat normal life, even with all my meds (yuck!) and my doctors appointments. I am not yet playing soccer again but I am at least able to walk daily and before my latest flare with my headaches I was jogging a little on the treadmill (used to run 5 miles 4 x week). The important thing that I wanted to tell you is that apparently, with RA a lot of the joint damage can be done in the first two years of the disease. So eventhough you don't like taking medications or going to the doctor and having your blood drawn, the decision to not pursue these options may be one that you regret for the rest of your life. Also, taking blood and running tests is one of their only weapons to find out what is going on with you. The Xrays help them look for joint damage and also help with the diagnosis. Open communication with your doctor is important too. THey can't know everything that is happening inside our heads or our bodies if you don't tell them and can't find a solution that works with your lifestyle if you don't communicate your feelings about the meds. All of these things are frustrating but essential. If I new how much better I could feel today I wouldn't have been so frustrated 11 months ago when I was going through the same thing you are doig now. That being said, everyone is different and I'm not a doctor and definitely not a medical research expert on this subject yet like a and so I don't know if you do have RA but I do think you should get a second opinion if you are not comfortable with what your current doctor. Hope this helps a little. If you want, feel free to email me directly. Good luck. Cat > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > medications. ...> This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 Cat, Do you have side effects from the sulphur drug? I think I would rather try that first before any of the harder drugs e.g. mtx, enbrel. I am taking antibiotics now and they work well most of the time. I've had a flare-up and thought I should switch to something or add something. Thanks, ette > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 Thank you for the website. I went to it. Tons of info. Very overwhelming. I have something that will last forvever like AIDS!!!! Oh my I am not happy about this. I do not want this. I hope this doctor is wrong. what is DMARDS? Is that the name of a drug? I have never heard of that. The doc called and ordered the Methotrexate. I told him I was not taking it until he knew for sure RA is what I have. He was not happy. Said I needed to talk to nurse to schedule an appnt immediately for another consult with him. I told him I would think about it and get back to him. I also called he pharmacy and my insurance will not pay for it anyway. Plus he prescribed some other medications as well which I have no clue why? He said once I pick them up to call the office so the nurse can teach me to give the shots. NO way am I giving myself shots. His nurse has been calling all day, my house, cell phone and my job. I am refusing her calls until I make a decision. I just send it all to voice mail. She keeps saying its so " urgent " . I think these people just want me to waste a bunch of money!!!! The methotrexate has some nasty warnings about liver failure, and a bunch of nasty side effects of taking chemotherapy. Even says I can get cancer!!!! No way am I taking this stuff. This is some super strong poison. My grandmother had cancer and was on chemotherapy and it was horrible!!!! NO WAY!!! This is not for me. I don't know how you guys let your docs make you take this stuff. This is some bad stuff!!! My husband says NO WAY, this doc has to know for sure before he wants me taking this poison. <Matsumura_Clan@...> wrote: , a, our list owner and lead moderator, has created an excellent site where the answers to your questions about RA and the drugs used to treat it can be found: http://rheumatoid.arthritis.freehosting.net If you're wondering about your diagnosis, perhaps you could seek another opinion from a second rheumatologist. If both agree that you have RA, and if you decide after learning about the disease that the diagnosis makes sense, beginning treatment immediately is in your best interest. The risks of untreated RA far outweigh the risks of DMARD therapy. Methotrexate has been used for decades and, in terms of effectiveness, safety, and cost, is one of the best DMARDs available. I'll tell you where to go! Mayo Clinic in Rochester http://www.mayoclinic.org/rochester s Hopkins Medicine http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org [ ] Thank you for the welcome > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > meds. They claim they are too expensive. > > Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > > Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > > I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > any sort of medication. > > As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > > I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > > Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > tests all the time? > > This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 Jennie G <xponder70@...> wrote: , First of all, seek a second opinion on your diagnosis if you are not convinced of the RA or have doubts about your rheumatologist. An accurate diagnosis of RA is not easy because there is no one test. There are many different things in your blood that can point to RA, but the rheumy must also observe symptoms over a period of time and see how your symptoms react to typical RA drugs. My diagnosis took 9 months although we all knew from the get go it was 99% RA. Here is the Jennie-low-down on the drugs: Drugs for treatment of RA are critical. If left untreated, RA in most cases will lead to joint destruction, deformity and permenant disability, although it does depend on the severity of your disease. Some people can go into remission, but that is the case for the majority of us. The drugs we have today are amazing in that they give an RA patient the chance at a normal life. Most consider Enbrel and other biologicals (Remicade and Humira) to be miracle drugs - as close as we have to a cure. That is because they slow the progression of this disesase and work really well without many side effects. I am hoping my doctor is wrong or I go into remission or it just goes away completely. I looked at the drug enbrel. My insurance does not pay for injectable drugs at all. They will pay for insulin and that is it. So that is not an option for me. Plus the thought of sticking myself grosses me out so this is not an option that I would even consider. As far as being normal I am normal!!! I had a bit of a fall and a wrist that seemed to take forever to heal. then they claim they found something funny in my bloodwork and sent me to a specialist that claims I have RA. I think they are all wrong..they are just out for money. I have some pain but nothing bad. More like old age pain as someone put it to me. Prednisone - the side effects of this drug depend on the amount you take and how long you plan to be on it. Yes, it can lead to bone loss. But there are things you can do to counteract that. Yes, it can increase your appetite and make you gain weight, but it did not do that for me. I am on a very low dose. How much did your rheumy prescribe? I don't really know because I never picked it up from the pharmacy. I am NOT taking it. Don't want to get fat! He did say it was a package that I would take so many pills one day and less the next. Methotrexate - this is a very well tolerated drug for most people. The side effects are not severe, although your doctor does have to monitor your liver function, that does not mean your liver will be affected. I have had no side effects of this drug, other than my hair thinning a little. But again, there are things you can do to counteract the side effects like taking prescription strength folic acid. Oh great!!! Now my hair is going to fall out!! NO way I am taking this!!!! Arrrgghhh....I am so pissed at this doctor for prescribing this garbage to me and not even telling me this stuff is poison!! Biologicals - these are recent drugs and they block our bodies from making too much of a certain protein (TNF) because people with RA over produce that protein. The name brands are Enbrel, Remicade and Humira. I take Humira and have no side effects from it at all. I know it's effectiveness is helped by the fact I also take mtx. Overall - the decision to take these drugs should be made jointly by you and your doctor. The risks and possible side effects should be weighed against what you will suffer with if you don't take them. There are many more risks, in my opinion, to leaving RA untreated. RA is different in everyone, but I can tell you if I was not on my RA drugs I would not be out of bed before noon on any day. My whole body just freezes up. It wasn't like that in the beginning, but this is a progressive disease and it gets worse over time, sometimes even with the drugs. It does require consisent monitoring because of the progressiveness, because you have to change medications or dosages as the disease changes it's course. I may be dependant on these drugs, I don't care because it means I can function every day, take care of my daughter, go to work and live my life. If your rheumy is prescribing something and you are not going to take it, you have to tell him. He cannot properly manage your illness if you are not communicating to him your concerns and telling him you have not decided to take this drug or that. For example, if he prescribes Enbrel and methotrexate, and you take the Enbrel but not the mtx, you should both expect the Enbrel to be less effective in treating the RA. If he doesn't know you didn't take the mtx, and the Enbrel doesn't work as well, he won't know the lack of mtx could be a reason. Most insurance does pay for these drugs, but only after a diagnosis of RA. Talk to your doctor about your insurance. He will have experience with getting these drugs covered. I don't think mtx is that expensive, but I take Humira and it's $1200 per month (my insurance co-pay is $20 per month). Lastly, this is a complicated disease, especially for someone who has never heard of it before. My advice is to get a second opinion and be comfortable that you do in fact have RA. Next, you must educate yourself about RA if you have it. Doing so will turn the mumbo jumbo you are hearing from your doctor into knowledge that will help ensure you get the best possible treatment for this - and most importantly that you are comfortable with the treatment you receive. We are all here to help you make sense of this. Please keep asking us questions, the men and women on this board have lots of advice and perspective to share about this disease. Jennie Thanks but I have decided. This is not for me. I am not taking these horrible meds. I am doing great. Normal. Just had some wrist pain and swelling. Its finally gone and my wrist is better. I have always had bad knees from a teenager when I ran track and injuried them. This is too scarey for me. I will try and hang around and learn the lingo. but the more you guys talk the more turned off I get. > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > meds. They claim they are too expensive. > > Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > > Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > > I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > any sort of medication. > > As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > > I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > > Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > tests all the time? > > This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 , Please seek an opinion from a second rheumatologist. Your rheumy should to be forcing anything on you when you are not accepting of the diagnosis yet and you don't feel comfortable with the medications. Before you make any medication decisions, you have to figure out if you think you really have RA. You obviously don't trust your rheumatologist and you are skeptical of the diagnosis. So deciding about meds right now is irrelevant. I just want to clarify my hair is not falling out! It's a little more than would be in my hair brush normally, but it is not and will not all fall out. My mom was on mtx for 10 years and she was always loosing hair, but not enough that anyone could ever tell, not even me. It is not anything like being on chemotherapy, but mtx is also used to treat certain types of cancers well. The drug label might have warnings for side effects you could experience if you were taking much much higher doses of mtx. RA patients take a very low dose and that is why side effects are much less. This drug is very safe. But don't take my word for it. Just take a step back and let's find out if you really even have RA first. To answer the question in your other post, a DMARD is a disease modifying anti rheumatic drug. MTX is a DMARD as are several other RA drugs. They are very important to be taking if you do in fact have RA. But again, don't worry about this yet. Stick around and gather information and let it sink in. > , > > First of all, seek a second opinion on your diagnosis if you are not > convinced of the RA or have doubts about your rheumatologist. An > accurate diagnosis of RA is not easy because there is no one test. > There are many different things in your blood that can point to RA, > but the rheumy must also observe symptoms over a period of time and > see how your symptoms react to typical RA drugs. My diagnosis took 9 > months although we all knew from the get go it was 99% RA. > > Here is the Jennie-low-down on the drugs: > > Drugs for treatment of RA are critical. If left untreated, RA in > most cases will lead to joint destruction, deformity and permenant > disability, although it does depend on the severity of your disease. > Some people can go into remission, but that is the case for the > majority of us. The drugs we have today are amazing in that they give > an RA patient the chance at a normal life. Most consider Enbrel and > other biologicals (Remicade and Humira) to be miracle drugs - as > close as we have to a cure. That is because they slow the > progression of this disesase and work really well without many side > effects. > > I am hoping my doctor is wrong or I go into remission or it just goes away completely. I looked at the drug enbrel. My insurance does not pay for injectable drugs at all. They will pay for insulin and that is it. So that is not an option for me. Plus the thought of sticking myself grosses me out so this is not an option that I would even consider. > > As far as being normal I am normal!!! I had a bit of a fall and a wrist that seemed to take forever to heal. then they claim they found something funny in my bloodwork and sent me to a specialist that claims I have RA. I think they are all wrong..they are just out for money. I have some pain but nothing bad. More like old age pain as someone put it to me. > > Prednisone - the side effects of this drug depend on the amount you > take and how long you plan to be on it. Yes, it can lead to bone > loss. But there are things you can do to counteract that. Yes, it > can increase your appetite and make you gain weight, but it did not > do that for me. I am on a very low dose. How much did your rheumy > prescribe? > I don't really know because I never picked it up from the pharmacy. I am NOT taking it. Don't want to get fat! He did say it was a package that I would take so many pills one day and less the next. > Methotrexate - this is a very well tolerated drug for most people. > The side effects are not severe, although your doctor does have to > monitor your liver function, that does not mean your liver will be > affected. I have had no side effects of this drug, other than my > hair thinning a little. But again, there are things you can do to > counteract the side effects like taking prescription strength folic > acid. > Oh great!!! Now my hair is going to fall out!! NO way I am taking this!!!! Arrrgghhh....I am so pissed at this doctor for prescribing this garbage to me and not even telling me this stuff is poison!! > Biologicals - these are recent drugs and they block our bodies from > making too much of a certain protein (TNF) because people with RA > over produce that protein. The name brands are Enbrel, Remicade and > Humira. I take Humira and have no side effects from it at all. I > know it's effectiveness is helped by the fact I also take mtx. > > Overall - the decision to take these drugs should be made jointly by > you and your doctor. The risks and possible side effects should be > weighed against what you will suffer with if you don't take them. > There are many more risks, in my opinion, to leaving RA untreated. > RA is different in everyone, but I can tell you if I was not on my RA > drugs I would not be out of bed before noon on any day. My whole > body just freezes up. It wasn't like that in the beginning, but this > is a progressive disease and it gets worse over time, sometimes even > with the drugs. It does require consisent monitoring because of the > progressiveness, because you have to change medications or dosages as > the disease changes it's course. I may be dependant on these drugs, > I don't care because it means I can function every day, take care of > my daughter, go to work and live my life. > > If your rheumy is prescribing something and you are not going to take > it, you have to tell him. He cannot properly manage your illness if > you are not communicating to him your concerns and telling him you > have not decided to take this drug or that. For example, if he > prescribes Enbrel and methotrexate, and you take the Enbrel but not > the mtx, you should both expect the Enbrel to be less effective in > treating the RA. If he doesn't know you didn't take the mtx, and the > Enbrel doesn't work as well, he won't know the lack of mtx could be a > reason. Most insurance does pay for these drugs, but only after a > diagnosis of RA. Talk to your doctor about your insurance. He will > have experience with getting these drugs covered. I don't think mtx > is that expensive, but I take Humira and it's $1200 per month (my > insurance co-pay is $20 per month). > > Lastly, this is a complicated disease, especially for someone who has > never heard of it before. My advice is to get a second opinion and > be comfortable that you do in fact have RA. Next, you must educate > yourself about RA if you have it. Doing so will turn the mumbo jumbo > you are hearing from your doctor into knowledge that will help ensure > you get the best possible treatment for this - and most importantly > that you are comfortable with the treatment you receive. > > We are all here to help you make sense of this. Please keep asking > us questions, the men and women on this board have lots of advice and > perspective to share about this disease. > > Jennie > > Thanks but I have decided. This is not for me. I am not taking these horrible meds. I am doing great. Normal. Just had some wrist pain and swelling. Its finally gone and my wrist is better. I have always had bad knees from a teenager when I ran track and injuried them. > > This is too scarey for me. I will try and hang around and learn the lingo. but the more you guys talk the more turned off I get. > > > > > > > Thank you for the website. I went to it. Tons of info. Very overwhelming. I have something that will last forvever like AIDS!!!! Oh my I am not happy about this. I do not want this. I hope this doctor is wrong. what is DMARDS? Is that the name of a drug? I have never heard of that. The doc called and ordered the Methotrexate. I told him I was not taking it until he knew for sure RA is what I have. He was not happy. Said I needed to talk to nurse to schedule an appnt immediately for another consult with him. I told him I would think about it and get back to him. I also called he pharmacy and my insurance will not pay for it anyway. Plus he prescribed some other medications as well which I have no clue why? He said once I pick them up to call the office so the nurse can teach me to give the shots. NO way am I giving myself shots. His nurse has been calling all day, my house, cell phone and my job. I am refusing her calls until I make a decision. I just send it all to voice mail. She keeps saying its so " urgent " . I think these people just want me to waste a bunch of money!!!! The methotrexate has some nasty warnings about liver failure, and a bunch of nasty side effects of taking chemotherapy. Even says I can get cancer!!!! No way am I taking this stuff. This is some super strong poison. My grandmother had cancer and was on chemotherapy and it was horrible!!!! NO WAY!!! This is not for me. I don't know how you guys let your docs make you take this stuff. This is some bad stuff!!! My husband says NO WAY, this doc has to know for sure before he wants me taking this poison. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get enough relief. It depends on your perspective. Dennis [ ] Thank you for the welcome > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > meds. They claim they are too expensive. > > Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > > Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > > I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > any sort of medication. > > As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > > I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > > Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > tests all the time? > > This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 I tend to agree with Dennis. I am not fond of docs, nor meds, and I had no insurance and could NOT afford treatment for quite awhile. I would have literally sold my life for relief. It is wise to weigh out the pros and cons of all meds a doc gives you- discuss options and choices, sure. That is a good thing to do---BUT- while I did not like the potential side effects of mtx- I was NOT living without it. I was a screaming crying blob in my bed for 2 years. I literally could NOT leave my bed, never stopped screaming- and would literally wet myself etc cuz I could NOT handle the pain to get to the bathroom. I prayed to die. SInce beginning mtx, I have been on a vacation to the ocean (and I did ALL the driving), toured DC and NYC and am able to once again live. I no longer wish to die. My children once again have a mother. The blood tests are to make sure the meds are not doing damage and to monitor what is going on in your body. The XRays are to check your bones and joints for damage from the illness. From my XRays they found me full of bone loss in many joints and tips of bones, and also full of calcium deposits in other joints. The choice to medicate is an individual one, you do have the right to refuse treatment but I would suppose if you choose not to medicate, then your doc might wonder why you came in for help? The doc seems to be offering you typical help. Sure, I am only 45 years old, and NO I do not like having these meds or using a scooter to take my kids to the zoo or feeling this crummy all the time. I do not like the negative side effects, but---it sure beats how I was living. It was AWFUL to look my 9 year old in the face with tears running down my cheeks and tell him NO sorry dude, I can't take you to the park, I cannot even get out of bed, but hey little guy since you are here, would you hold that glass of water to my mouth cuz my wrists are too painful for me to do it myself. It was so horrible to have to ask my 13 year old to help me pull up my pants and underwear when I did make it to th ebathroom cuz the movement made me scream and nearly pass out. I am GLAD to have the mtx, even with its possible negative side effects. - In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote: > , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're > jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you > don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can > 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was > from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, > you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even > attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only > area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get > enough relief. It depends on your perspective. > > Dennis > > [ ] Thank you for the welcome > > > > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > > medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > > taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > > start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > > heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > > take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > > medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > > meds. They claim they are too expensive. > > > > Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > > good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > > diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > > started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > > cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > > swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > > > > Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > > prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > > ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > > want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > > > > I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > > any sort of medication. > > > > As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > > Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > > become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > > the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > > > > I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > > > > Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > > have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > > something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > > glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > > tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > > get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > > thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > > tests all the time? > > > > This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 Dennis, I agree with you. If the pain is unbearable, those possible side effects of the medications such as methotrexate don't seem as bad in comparison. And one person is not going to get ALL of the side effects; in fact, you might not get any of them. But if you do, you can be switched to another one. I know that I was desperate; I would have tried arsenic if I had thought it would help, LOL. Now that I'm on Enbrel, my RA is under control. My inflammation and pain are virtually gone. I'm just thankful that there are medications for the ailments that I have, and that they are working so well. So what if I'm one of those little old ladies who has to go to the drugstore a lot to pick up prescriptions? I don't mind a bit. I'm also thankful for good doctors and insurance that helps me pay for it all. Sue On Friday, August 20, 2004, at 05:53 PM, Dennis W wrote: > > , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think > you're > jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that > you > don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you > can > 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of > it was > from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, > you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine > even > attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The > only > area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get > enough relief. It depends on your perspective. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 For me, one of the most eye-opening parts of having RA was learning about the seemingly HUGE amount of drugs that most RA sufferers take every day. I had never been much of a pill-taker in my life. Never even took anything for a headache---not because I liked " suffering in silence, " but because I just never thought to do that. Didn't get too many headaches anyway. After I got RA, it seemed like my doctor was prescribing at least two new meds at every appointment, and that required a HUGE adjustment for me. What helped me most was educating myself, and learning about sound RA treatment. Namely...1. There's no one magic pill that works for everyone. Sometimes a lot of trial and error is involved, and 2. many of these drugs work best in combination with others. Once I got that education -- and this group has been a big part of that -- I realized that my doctor was making aggressive yet cautious choices about which medications are right for me. In my case, they've paid off great, because I'm managing very well with the meds I'm on (MTX and Plaquenil, mainly) with no side effects. I thought Dreamer wrote a very powerful note about why she chooses to take the medication in spite of the possible side effects, and I agree completely. Given a choice between my kids growing up with a mom who can't really participate in their lives because she can't get out of bed or a mom who CAN because she takes these drugs in a very controlled situation, I will take the medication. > > > > , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think > > you're > > jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that > > you > > don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you > > can > > 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of > > it was > > from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, > > you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine > > even > > attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The > > only > > area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get > > enough relief. It depends on your perspective. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 I wish I could see another specialist, but this is the only one that my insurance will pay for. He has a funky attitude. Like he knows it all and I am stupid and should just do as he says. He don't know if I do come back to see him my husband is going with me. I want to see him act like that with hubby present. If he does there will be a confrontation and doc might end up with his butt whipped! LOL So the whole thing is pretty irrelavent cause I am not planning to go back there. And I am so sure he is wrong. I am not taking this poison he is trying to ram down my throat. I have very thin hair as is and can't afford to loose anything. I really would be bald. Another reason this methotrexate sounds like bad stuff. The fact that its chemotherapy drug is enough to make me run the other way. The doc said I have to have the injections cause my history of stomach problems and surgery. He thinks the pills will make me real sick. I went by the pharmacy today after work and talked to the pharmacist. He did not have anything promising to say about the drug. He also gave me the prices for the other drug my doc wants to start if I go back. Its $1500 for a one month supply!!!! No way I can afford that. The pharmacist checked and my insurance does not pay for it. Plus there is other stuff you need to be on these drugs. I am going to try to hang around a while. My husband says I should not come here cause there are too many weirdos on the internet. I will give it some time. Jennie G <xponder70@...> wrote: , Please seek an opinion from a second rheumatologist. Your rheumy should to be forcing anything on you when you are not accepting of the diagnosis yet and you don't feel comfortable with the medications. Before you make any medication decisions, you have to figure out if you think you really have RA. You obviously don't trust your rheumatologist and you are skeptical of the diagnosis. So deciding about meds right now is irrelevant. I just want to clarify my hair is not falling out! It's a little more than would be in my hair brush normally, but it is not and will not all fall out. My mom was on mtx for 10 years and she was always loosing hair, but not enough that anyone could ever tell, not even me. It is not anything like being on chemotherapy, but mtx is also used to treat certain types of cancers well. The drug label might have warnings for side effects you could experience if you were taking much much higher doses of mtx. RA patients take a very low dose and that is why side effects are much less. This drug is very safe. But don't take my word for it. Just take a step back and let's find out if you really even have RA first. To answer the question in your other post, a DMARD is a disease modifying anti rheumatic drug. MTX is a DMARD as are several other RA drugs. They are very important to be taking if you do in fact have RA. But again, don't worry about this yet. Stick around and gather information and let it sink in. > , > > First of all, seek a second opinion on your diagnosis if you are not > convinced of the RA or have doubts about your rheumatologist. An > accurate diagnosis of RA is not easy because there is no one test. > There are many different things in your blood that can point to RA, > but the rheumy must also observe symptoms over a period of time and > see how your symptoms react to typical RA drugs. My diagnosis took 9 > months although we all knew from the get go it was 99% RA. > > Here is the Jennie-low-down on the drugs: > > Drugs for treatment of RA are critical. If left untreated, RA in > most cases will lead to joint destruction, deformity and permenant > disability, although it does depend on the severity of your disease. > Some people can go into remission, but that is the case for the > majority of us. The drugs we have today are amazing in that they give > an RA patient the chance at a normal life. Most consider Enbrel and > other biologicals (Remicade and Humira) to be miracle drugs - as > close as we have to a cure. That is because they slow the > progression of this disesase and work really well without many side > effects. > > I am hoping my doctor is wrong or I go into remission or it just goes away completely. I looked at the drug enbrel. My insurance does not pay for injectable drugs at all. They will pay for insulin and that is it. So that is not an option for me. Plus the thought of sticking myself grosses me out so this is not an option that I would even consider. > > As far as being normal I am normal!!! I had a bit of a fall and a wrist that seemed to take forever to heal. then they claim they found something funny in my bloodwork and sent me to a specialist that claims I have RA. I think they are all wrong..they are just out for money. I have some pain but nothing bad. More like old age pain as someone put it to me. > > Prednisone - the side effects of this drug depend on the amount you > take and how long you plan to be on it. Yes, it can lead to bone > loss. But there are things you can do to counteract that. Yes, it > can increase your appetite and make you gain weight, but it did not > do that for me. I am on a very low dose. How much did your rheumy > prescribe? > I don't really know because I never picked it up from the pharmacy. I am NOT taking it. Don't want to get fat! He did say it was a package that I would take so many pills one day and less the next. > Methotrexate - this is a very well tolerated drug for most people. > The side effects are not severe, although your doctor does have to > monitor your liver function, that does not mean your liver will be > affected. I have had no side effects of this drug, other than my > hair thinning a little. But again, there are things you can do to > counteract the side effects like taking prescription strength folic > acid. > Oh great!!! Now my hair is going to fall out!! NO way I am taking this!!!! Arrrgghhh....I am so pissed at this doctor for prescribing this garbage to me and not even telling me this stuff is poison!! > Biologicals - these are recent drugs and they block our bodies from > making too much of a certain protein (TNF) because people with RA > over produce that protein. The name brands are Enbrel, Remicade and > Humira. I take Humira and have no side effects from it at all. I > know it's effectiveness is helped by the fact I also take mtx. > > Overall - the decision to take these drugs should be made jointly by > you and your doctor. The risks and possible side effects should be > weighed against what you will suffer with if you don't take them. > There are many more risks, in my opinion, to leaving RA untreated. > RA is different in everyone, but I can tell you if I was not on my RA > drugs I would not be out of bed before noon on any day. My whole > body just freezes up. It wasn't like that in the beginning, but this > is a progressive disease and it gets worse over time, sometimes even > with the drugs. It does require consisent monitoring because of the > progressiveness, because you have to change medications or dosages as > the disease changes it's course. I may be dependant on these drugs, > I don't care because it means I can function every day, take care of > my daughter, go to work and live my life. > > If your rheumy is prescribing something and you are not going to take > it, you have to tell him. He cannot properly manage your illness if > you are not communicating to him your concerns and telling him you > have not decided to take this drug or that. For example, if he > prescribes Enbrel and methotrexate, and you take the Enbrel but not > the mtx, you should both expect the Enbrel to be less effective in > treating the RA. If he doesn't know you didn't take the mtx, and the > Enbrel doesn't work as well, he won't know the lack of mtx could be a > reason. Most insurance does pay for these drugs, but only after a > diagnosis of RA. Talk to your doctor about your insurance. He will > have experience with getting these drugs covered. I don't think mtx > is that expensive, but I take Humira and it's $1200 per month (my > insurance co-pay is $20 per month). > > Lastly, this is a complicated disease, especially for someone who has > never heard of it before. My advice is to get a second opinion and > be comfortable that you do in fact have RA. Next, you must educate > yourself about RA if you have it. Doing so will turn the mumbo jumbo > you are hearing from your doctor into knowledge that will help ensure > you get the best possible treatment for this - and most importantly > that you are comfortable with the treatment you receive. > > We are all here to help you make sense of this. Please keep asking > us questions, the men and women on this board have lots of advice and > perspective to share about this disease. > > Jennie > > Thanks but I have decided. This is not for me. I am not taking these horrible meds. I am doing great. Normal. Just had some wrist pain and swelling. Its finally gone and my wrist is better. I have always had bad knees from a teenager when I ran track and injuried them. > > This is too scarey for me. I will try and hang around and learn the lingo. but the more you guys talk the more turned off I get. > > > > > > > Thank you for the website. I went to it. Tons of info. Very overwhelming. I have something that will last forvever like AIDS!!!! Oh my I am not happy about this. I do not want this. I hope this doctor is wrong. what is DMARDS? Is that the name of a drug? I have never heard of that. The doc called and ordered the Methotrexate. I told him I was not taking it until he knew for sure RA is what I have. He was not happy. Said I needed to talk to nurse to schedule an appnt immediately for another consult with him. I told him I would think about it and get back to him. I also called he pharmacy and my insurance will not pay for it anyway. Plus he prescribed some other medications as well which I have no clue why? He said once I pick them up to call the office so the nurse can teach me to give the shots. NO way am I giving myself shots. His nurse has been calling all day, my house, cell phone and my job. I am refusing her calls until I make a decision. I just send it all to voice mail. She keeps saying its so " urgent " . I think these people just want me to waste a bunch of money!!!! The methotrexate has some nasty warnings about liver failure, and a bunch of nasty side effects of taking chemotherapy. Even says I can get cancer!!!! No way am I taking this stuff. This is some super strong poison. My grandmother had cancer and was on chemotherapy and it was horrible!!!! NO WAY!!! This is not for me. I don't know how you guys let your docs make you take this stuff. This is some bad stuff!!! My husband says NO WAY, this doc has to know for sure before he wants me taking this poison. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 --- In , " " <dumbblondejogger@y...> wrote: Given a choice between my kids growing up with a mom who > can't really participate in their lives because she can't get out of > bed or a mom who CAN because she takes these drugs in a very > controlled situation, I will take the medication. > > > , That is perfect statement one why I never hesitated to take medication for RA. I was the little girl who's mom could not get out of bed. Only my mom didn't have a choice, the medications were not there for her. I saw the difference in her ability to live life after she started on mtx several years into the disease, and even more so when she first started Enbrel. I never took medication for headaches or minor illness. When I had my wisdom teeth out I was knocked out but afterword refused the pain medication. But I know I without mtx and Humira I would be in bed a lot and I know exactly how my little girl would feel if I was. Jennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 , I'm very surprised at your pharmacist. Methotrexate is one of the oldest drugs used for RA and one of the most effective. It is also considered one of the safest because it has endured the tests of time and we know what side effects are possible. The newer drugs have no long term safety data. It is a good idea to take your husband with you so he understands both the disease and the treatment. Many times when we are in a doctor's office we don't remember all that is said and having someone with you can help. I hope the doctor is wrong and you don't have RA. Before you make any decisions, please read about the disease so that you can make an educated decision as far as treatment. The most damage is done in the first few years, and left untreated, you could suffer from a lot of joint erosion. It is your body and you have the right to treat or not to treat. When I was on mtx, I had no hair loss. Just because a side effect is listed, it doesn't mean you will get it. They have to by law, list all side effects no matter how rare they are. I was afraid of mtx too, but after weighing the pros and cons, I decided the joint erosion was more of a concern that possible side effects. I had both knees replaced at age 42. I need 2 ankles and they aren't so good at those replacements. Soon I will need an elbow and a shoulder. These are the things I consider when I decide on my treatment. I hope you can get an answer about your diagnosis so that you can decide what is best for you. a > > I wish I could see another specialist, but this is the only one that my > insurance will pay for. He has a funky attitude. Like he knows it all and I > am stupid and should just do as he says. He don't know if I do come back to > see him my husband is going with me. I want to see him act like that with > hubby present. If he does there will be a confrontation and doc might end up > with his butt whipped! LOL > > So the whole thing is pretty irrelavent cause I am not planning to go back > there. And I am so sure he is wrong. I am not taking this poison he is > trying to ram down my throat. > > I have very thin hair as is and can't afford to loose anything. I really > would be bald. Another reason this methotrexate sounds like bad stuff. The > fact that its chemotherapy drug is enough to make me run the other way. > > The doc said I have to have the injections cause my history of stomach > problems and surgery. He thinks the pills will make me real sick. I went by > the pharmacy today after work and talked to the pharmacist. He did not have > anything promising to say about the drug. He also gave me the prices for the > other drug my doc wants to start if I go back. Its $1500 for a one month > supply!!!! No way I can afford that. The pharmacist checked and my insurance > does not pay for it. Plus there is other stuff you need to be on these drugs. > > I am going to try to hang around a while. My husband says I should not come > here cause there are too many weirdos on the internet. I will give it some > time. > > > > Jennie G <xponder70@...> wrote: > , > > Please seek an opinion from a second rheumatologist. Your rheumy > should to be forcing anything on you when you are not accepting of > the diagnosis yet and you don't feel comfortable with the medications. > > Before you make any medication decisions, you have to figure out if > you think you really have RA. You obviously don't trust your > rheumatologist and you are skeptical of the diagnosis. So deciding > about meds right now is irrelevant. > > I just want to clarify my hair is not falling out! It's a little > more than would be in my hair brush normally, but it is not and will > not all fall out. My mom was on mtx for 10 years and she was always > loosing hair, but not enough that anyone could ever tell, not even > me. It is not anything like being on chemotherapy, but mtx is also > used to treat certain types of cancers well. The drug label might > have warnings for side effects you could experience if you were > taking much much higher doses of mtx. RA patients take a very low > dose and that is why side effects are much less. This drug is very > safe. But don't take my word for it. Just take a step back and > let's find out if you really even have RA first. > > To answer the question in your other post, a DMARD is a disease > modifying anti rheumatic drug. MTX is a DMARD as are several other > RA drugs. They are very important to be taking if you do in fact > have RA. But again, don't worry about this yet. Stick around and > gather information and let it sink in. > > >> , >> >> First of all, seek a second opinion on your diagnosis if you are > not >> convinced of the RA or have doubts about your rheumatologist. An >> accurate diagnosis of RA is not easy because there is no one test. >> There are many different things in your blood that can point to RA, >> but the rheumy must also observe symptoms over a period of time and >> see how your symptoms react to typical RA drugs. My diagnosis took > 9 >> months although we all knew from the get go it was 99% RA. >> >> Here is the Jennie-low-down on the drugs: >> >> Drugs for treatment of RA are critical. If left untreated, RA in >> most cases will lead to joint destruction, deformity and permenant >> disability, although it does depend on the severity of your > disease. >> Some people can go into remission, but that is the case for the >> majority of us. The drugs we have today are amazing in that they > give >> an RA patient the chance at a normal life. Most consider Enbrel > and >> other biologicals (Remicade and Humira) to be miracle drugs - as >> close as we have to a cure. That is because they slow the >> progression of this disesase and work really well without many side >> effects. >> >> I am hoping my doctor is wrong or I go into remission or it just > goes away completely. I looked at the drug enbrel. My insurance > does not pay for injectable drugs at all. They will pay for insulin > and that is it. So that is not an option for me. Plus the thought > of sticking myself grosses me out so this is not an option that I > would even consider. >> >> As far as being normal I am normal!!! I had a bit of a fall and a > wrist that seemed to take forever to heal. then they claim they > found something funny in my bloodwork and sent me to a specialist > that claims I have RA. I think they are all wrong..they are just out > for money. I have some pain but nothing bad. More like old age pain > as someone put it to me. >> >> Prednisone - the side effects of this drug depend on the amount you >> take and how long you plan to be on it. Yes, it can lead to bone >> loss. But there are things you can do to counteract that. Yes, it >> can increase your appetite and make you gain weight, but it did not >> do that for me. I am on a very low dose. How much did your rheumy >> prescribe? >> I don't really know because I never picked it up from the > pharmacy. I am NOT taking it. Don't want to get fat! He did say it > was a package that I would take so many pills one day and less the > next. >> Methotrexate - this is a very well tolerated drug for most people. >> The side effects are not severe, although your doctor does have to >> monitor your liver function, that does not mean your liver will be >> affected. I have had no side effects of this drug, other than my >> hair thinning a little. But again, there are things you can do to >> counteract the side effects like taking prescription strength folic >> acid. >> Oh great!!! Now my hair is going to fall out!! NO way I am taking > this!!!! Arrrgghhh....I am so pissed at this doctor for prescribing > this garbage to me and not even telling me this stuff is poison!! >> Biologicals - these are recent drugs and they block our bodies from >> making too much of a certain protein (TNF) because people with RA >> over produce that protein. The name brands are Enbrel, Remicade > and >> Humira. I take Humira and have no side effects from it at all. I >> know it's effectiveness is helped by the fact I also take mtx. >> >> Overall - the decision to take these drugs should be made jointly > by >> you and your doctor. The risks and possible side effects should be >> weighed against what you will suffer with if you don't take them. >> There are many more risks, in my opinion, to leaving RA untreated. >> RA is different in everyone, but I can tell you if I was not on my > RA >> drugs I would not be out of bed before noon on any day. My whole >> body just freezes up. It wasn't like that in the beginning, but > this >> is a progressive disease and it gets worse over time, sometimes > even >> with the drugs. It does require consisent monitoring because of > the >> progressiveness, because you have to change medications or dosages > as >> the disease changes it's course. I may be dependant on these > drugs, >> I don't care because it means I can function every day, take care > of >> my daughter, go to work and live my life. >> >> If your rheumy is prescribing something and you are not going to > take >> it, you have to tell him. He cannot properly manage your illness > if >> you are not communicating to him your concerns and telling him you >> have not decided to take this drug or that. For example, if he >> prescribes Enbrel and methotrexate, and you take the Enbrel but not >> the mtx, you should both expect the Enbrel to be less effective in >> treating the RA. If he doesn't know you didn't take the mtx, and > the >> Enbrel doesn't work as well, he won't know the lack of mtx could be > a >> reason. Most insurance does pay for these drugs, but only after a >> diagnosis of RA. Talk to your doctor about your insurance. He > will >> have experience with getting these drugs covered. I don't think > mtx >> is that expensive, but I take Humira and it's $1200 per month (my >> insurance co-pay is $20 per month). >> >> Lastly, this is a complicated disease, especially for someone who > has >> never heard of it before. My advice is to get a second opinion and >> be comfortable that you do in fact have RA. Next, you must educate >> yourself about RA if you have it. Doing so will turn the mumbo > jumbo >> you are hearing from your doctor into knowledge that will help > ensure >> you get the best possible treatment for this - and most importantly >> that you are comfortable with the treatment you receive. >> >> We are all here to help you make sense of this. Please keep asking >> us questions, the men and women on this board have lots of advice > and >> perspective to share about this disease. >> >> Jennie >> >> Thanks but I have decided. This is not for me. I am not taking > these horrible meds. I am doing great. Normal. Just had some wrist > pain and swelling. Its finally gone and my wrist is better. I have > always had bad knees from a teenager when I ran track and injuried > them. >> >> This is too scarey for me. I will try and hang around and learn > the lingo. but the more you guys talk the more turned off I get. >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > Thank you for the website. I went to it. Tons of info. Very > overwhelming. I > have something that will last forvever like AIDS!!!! Oh my I am not > happy about > this. I do not want this. I hope this doctor is wrong. > > what is DMARDS? Is that the name of a drug? I have never heard of > that. The > doc called and ordered the Methotrexate. I told him I was not taking > it until > he knew for sure RA is what I have. He was not happy. Said I needed > to talk to > nurse to schedule an appnt immediately for another consult with him. > I told him > I would think about it and get back to him. I also called he pharmacy > and my > insurance will not pay for it anyway. Plus he prescribed some other > medications > as well which I have no clue why? He said once I pick them up to call > the > office so the nurse can teach me to give the shots. NO way am I > giving myself > shots. > > His nurse has been calling all day, my house, cell phone and my job. > I am > refusing her calls until I make a decision. I just send it all to > voice mail. > She keeps saying its so " urgent " . I think these people just want me > to waste a > bunch of money!!!! > > The methotrexate has some nasty warnings about liver failure, and a > bunch of > nasty side effects of taking chemotherapy. Even says I can get > cancer!!!! No > way am I taking this stuff. This is some super strong poison. My > grandmother > had cancer and was on chemotherapy and it was horrible!!!! NO WAY!!! > This is > not for me. > > I don't know how you guys let your docs make you take this stuff. > This is some > bad stuff!!! My husband says NO WAY, this doc has to know for sure > before he > wants me taking this poison. > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 Wow I had no idea this disease caused such suffering. I have not experienced any bad pain or anything like that. Its more annoying than anything else. its amazing as I read this post that people are really this sick. Wow this group is full of some really sick people!!! I feel really sorry for all of you suffering from this. I have not had any problems with doing anything I want. It was a fall and wrist injury that sent me to the doctor cause it seem to never heal, staying red, swollen, stiff and tender. My doc gave me some pills like aleve but strong that was suppose to help and it didn't. finally after a few weeks it went away on its own. Its been feeling great now. That is why I don't understand the doctors reaction to put me on this butt load of drugs! I am not one that is good about taking drugs daily. I can't even get through a thw hole bottle of antibiotics when I had a lung infection. My doc whines..I tell him I hate taking drugs. I have been healthy for the most part all my life so no real need. I feel so sorry for you with small children. I can't even imagine what you are going through. dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@...> wrote: I tend to agree with Dennis. I am not fond of docs, nor meds, and I had no insurance and could NOT afford treatment for quite awhile. I would have literally sold my life for relief. It is wise to weigh out the pros and cons of all meds a doc gives you- discuss options and choices, sure. That is a good thing to do---BUT- while I did not like the potential side effects of mtx- I was NOT living without it. I was a screaming crying blob in my bed for 2 years. I literally could NOT leave my bed, never stopped screaming- and would literally wet myself etc cuz I could NOT handle the pain to get to the bathroom. I prayed to die. SInce beginning mtx, I have been on a vacation to the ocean (and I did ALL the driving), toured DC and NYC and am able to once again live. I no longer wish to die. My children once again have a mother. The blood tests are to make sure the meds are not doing damage and to monitor what is going on in your body. The XRays are to check your bones and joints for damage from the illness. From my XRays they found me full of bone loss in many joints and tips of bones, and also full of calcium deposits in other joints. The choice to medicate is an individual one, you do have the right to refuse treatment but I would suppose if you choose not to medicate, then your doc might wonder why you came in for help? The doc seems to be offering you typical help. Sure, I am only 45 years old, and NO I do not like having these meds or using a scooter to take my kids to the zoo or feeling this crummy all the time. I do not like the negative side effects, but---it sure beats how I was living. It was AWFUL to look my 9 year old in the face with tears running down my cheeks and tell him NO sorry dude, I can't take you to the park, I cannot even get out of bed, but hey little guy since you are here, would you hold that glass of water to my mouth cuz my wrists are too painful for me to do it myself. It was so horrible to have to ask my 13 year old to help me pull up my pants and underwear when I did make it to th ebathroom cuz the movement made me scream and nearly pass out. I am GLAD to have the mtx, even with its possible negative side effects. - In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote: > , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're > jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you > don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can > 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was > from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, > you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even > attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only > area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get > enough relief. It depends on your perspective. > > Dennis > > [ ] Thank you for the welcome > > > > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > > medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > > taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > > start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > > heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > > take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > > medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > > meds. They claim they are too expensive. > > > > Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > > good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > > diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > > started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > > cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > > swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > > > > Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > > prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > > ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > > want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > > > > I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > > any sort of medication. > > > > As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > > Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > > become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > > the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > > > > I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > > > > Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > > have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > > something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > > glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > > tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > > get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > > thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > > tests all the time? > > > > This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 If your problem is from an injury that has healed and you no longer have any problems, how did your doctor diagnose you with RA? Did he do blood tests and do you have copies of them? Do any other joints hurt? a > Wow I had no idea this disease caused such suffering. I have not experienced > any bad pain or anything like that. Its more annoying than anything else. > its amazing as I read this post that people are really this sick. Wow this > group is full of some really sick people!!! I feel really sorry for all of > you suffering from this. > > I have not had any problems with doing anything I want. It was a fall and > wrist injury that sent me to the doctor cause it seem to never heal, staying > red, swollen, stiff and tender. My doc gave me some pills like aleve but > strong that was suppose to help and it didn't. finally after a few weeks it > went away on its own. Its been feeling great now. That is why I don't > understand the doctors reaction to put me on this butt load of drugs! > > I am not one that is good about taking drugs daily. I can't even get through > a thw hole bottle of antibiotics when I had a lung infection. My doc > whines..I tell him I hate taking drugs. I have been healthy for the most part > all my life so no real need. > > I feel so sorry for you with small children. I can't even imagine what you > are going through. > > > > dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@...> wrote: > I tend to agree with Dennis. I am not fond of docs, nor meds, and I had no > insurance and could NOT afford treatment for quite awhile. I would have > literally sold my life for relief. > It is wise to weigh out the pros and cons of all meds a doc gives you- discuss > options and choices, sure. That is a good thing to do---BUT- while I did not > like the potential side effects of mtx- I was NOT living without it. I was a > screaming crying blob in my bed for 2 years. I literally could NOT leave my > bed, never stopped screaming- and would literally wet myself etc cuz I could > NOT handle the pain to get to the bathroom. I prayed to die. > SInce beginning mtx, I have been on a vacation to the ocean (and I did ALL the > driving), toured DC and NYC and am able to once again live. I no longer wish > to die. My children once again have a mother. > The blood tests are to make sure the meds are not doing damage and to monitor > what is going on in your body. The XRays are to check your bones and joints > for damage from the illness. From my XRays they found me full of bone loss in > many joints and tips of bones, and also full of calcium deposits in other > joints. > The choice to medicate is an individual one, you do have the right to refuse > treatment but I would suppose if you choose not to medicate, then your doc > might wonder why you came in for help? The doc seems to be offering you > typical help. > Sure, I am only 45 years old, and NO I do not like having these meds or using > a scooter to take my kids to the zoo or feeling this crummy all the time. I > do not like the negative side effects, but---it sure beats how I was living. > It was AWFUL to look my 9 year old in the face with tears running down my > cheeks and tell him NO sorry dude, I can't take you to the park, I cannot even > get out of bed, but hey little guy since you are here, would you hold that > glass of water to my mouth cuz my wrists are too painful for me to do it > myself. It was so horrible to have to ask my 13 year old to help me pull up > my pants and underwear when I did make it to th ebathroom cuz the movement > made me scream and nearly pass out. I am GLAD to have the mtx, even with its > possible negative side effects. > > > - In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote: >> , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're >> jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you >> don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can >> 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was >> from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, >> you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even >> attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only >> area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get >> enough relief. It depends on your perspective. >> >> Dennis >> >> [ ] Thank you for the welcome >> >> >>> Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the >>> medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is >>> taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to >>> start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not >>> heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will >>> take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these >>> medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these >>> meds. They claim they are too expensive. >>> >>> Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have >>> good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my >>> diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it >>> started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA >>> cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with >>> swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. >>> >>> Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and >>> prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will >>> ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not >>> want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! >>> >>> I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking >>> any sort of medication. >>> >>> As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. >>> Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to >>> become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at >>> the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! >>> >>> I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! >>> >>> Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I >>> have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see >>> something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start >>> glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood >>> tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to >>> get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and >>> thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood >>> tests all the time? >>> >>> This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the >>> doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just >>> don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs >>> he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and >>> see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. >>> >>> > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 ette, I don't have any side affects from the Sulfasalazine that I can tell. It is an older drug and not thought to be as effective as methotrexate or some of the biologicals. However, my rheumy put me on it because my hubby and I want to start a family and it is the only one that is safe throughout most of the pregnancy (though not suggested during breast feeding). It does help my pain when combined with a lower dose of the prednisone and celebrex and my rheumy seems to think that it is preventing the joint damage. It never hurts to ask but I would do the research and see what your doctor thinks. Best of luck, hope you feel better soon! Cat --- In , " Warren Portnoy " <wport@c...> wrote: > Cat, > > Do you have side effects from the sulphur drug? I think I would rather try > that first before any of the harder drugs e.g. mtx, enbrel. I am taking > antibiotics now and they work well most of the time. I've had a flare-up > and thought I should switch to something or add something. > > Thanks, > ette > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 Just my wrist was hurt. When it took nearly six months to get better the doc got worried cause he said it should not be swelling and turning red like that. So he did some blood tests and said some values were off. I do not have copies. I never thought to ask for them. I started taking aleve, even though I am not suppose to cause of my stomach problems history and that seem to help. My doc gave me some drug like aleve but stronger and it really didn't help much. It finally went away on its own. Then he asked me if I had any other joint problems. Well my knees have always been bad. Swelling and painful from time to time. He said that was not normal. Well since its been that way since I was a teenager I really didn't think much of it. I have injuried my knees falling and twisting them in the past. So after all the blood work he called me and said I needed to see the specialist right away and got me an appointment. I went and I was not impressed. I more like terrified and very upset with this doctor. a54 <a54@...> wrote: If your problem is from an injury that has healed and you no longer have any problems, how did your doctor diagnose you with RA? Did he do blood tests and do you have copies of them? Do any other joints hurt? a > Wow I had no idea this disease caused such suffering. I have not experienced > any bad pain or anything like that. Its more annoying than anything else. > its amazing as I read this post that people are really this sick. Wow this > group is full of some really sick people!!! I feel really sorry for all of > you suffering from this. > > I have not had any problems with doing anything I want. It was a fall and > wrist injury that sent me to the doctor cause it seem to never heal, staying > red, swollen, stiff and tender. My doc gave me some pills like aleve but > strong that was suppose to help and it didn't. finally after a few weeks it > went away on its own. Its been feeling great now. That is why I don't > understand the doctors reaction to put me on this butt load of drugs! > > I am not one that is good about taking drugs daily. I can't even get through > a thw hole bottle of antibiotics when I had a lung infection. My doc > whines..I tell him I hate taking drugs. I have been healthy for the most part > all my life so no real need. > > I feel so sorry for you with small children. I can't even imagine what you > are going through. > > > > dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@...> wrote: > I tend to agree with Dennis. I am not fond of docs, nor meds, and I had no > insurance and could NOT afford treatment for quite awhile. I would have > literally sold my life for relief. > It is wise to weigh out the pros and cons of all meds a doc gives you- discuss > options and choices, sure. That is a good thing to do---BUT- while I did not > like the potential side effects of mtx- I was NOT living without it. I was a > screaming crying blob in my bed for 2 years. I literally could NOT leave my > bed, never stopped screaming- and would literally wet myself etc cuz I could > NOT handle the pain to get to the bathroom. I prayed to die. > SInce beginning mtx, I have been on a vacation to the ocean (and I did ALL the > driving), toured DC and NYC and am able to once again live. I no longer wish > to die. My children once again have a mother. > The blood tests are to make sure the meds are not doing damage and to monitor > what is going on in your body. The XRays are to check your bones and joints > for damage from the illness. From my XRays they found me full of bone loss in > many joints and tips of bones, and also full of calcium deposits in other > joints. > The choice to medicate is an individual one, you do have the right to refuse > treatment but I would suppose if you choose not to medicate, then your doc > might wonder why you came in for help? The doc seems to be offering you > typical help. > Sure, I am only 45 years old, and NO I do not like having these meds or using > a scooter to take my kids to the zoo or feeling this crummy all the time. I > do not like the negative side effects, but---it sure beats how I was living. > It was AWFUL to look my 9 year old in the face with tears running down my > cheeks and tell him NO sorry dude, I can't take you to the park, I cannot even > get out of bed, but hey little guy since you are here, would you hold that > glass of water to my mouth cuz my wrists are too painful for me to do it > myself. It was so horrible to have to ask my 13 year old to help me pull up > my pants and underwear when I did make it to th ebathroom cuz the movement > made me scream and nearly pass out. I am GLAD to have the mtx, even with its > possible negative side effects. > > > - In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote: >> , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're >> jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you >> don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can >> 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was >> from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, >> you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even >> attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only >> area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get >> enough relief. It depends on your perspective. >> >> Dennis >> >> [ ] Thank you for the welcome >> >> >>> Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the >>> medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is >>> taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to >>> start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not >>> heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will >>> take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these >>> medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these >>> meds. They claim they are too expensive. >>> >>> Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have >>> good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my >>> diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it >>> started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA >>> cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with >>> swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. >>> >>> Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and >>> prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will >>> ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not >>> want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! >>> >>> I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking >>> any sort of medication. >>> >>> As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. >>> Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to >>> become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at >>> the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! >>> >>> I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! >>> >>> Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I >>> have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see >>> something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start >>> glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood >>> tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to >>> get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and >>> thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood >>> tests all the time? >>> >>> This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the >>> doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just >>> don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs >>> he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and >>> see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. >>> >>> > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2004 Report Share Posted August 20, 2004 , You can request a copy of your blood tests and find out exactly what is off and what it means. You said that the test he was concerned about was the test for inflammation. That test can be off for many reasons. RA cannot be diagnosed with just blood tests. What were the results of your x-rays? Was there any erosion of bone? a > Just my wrist was hurt. When it took nearly six months to get better the doc > got worried cause he said it should not be swelling and turning red like that. > So he did some blood tests and said some values were off. I do not have > copies. I never thought to ask for them. I started taking aleve, even though > I am not suppose to cause of my stomach problems history and that seem to > help. My doc gave me some drug like aleve but stronger and it really didn't > help much. It finally went away on its own. > > Then he asked me if I had any other joint problems. Well my knees have always > been bad. Swelling and painful from time to time. He said that was not > normal. Well since its been that way since I was a teenager I really didn't > think much of it. I have injuried my knees falling and twisting them in the > past. > > So after all the blood work he called me and said I needed to see the > specialist right away and got me an appointment. I went and I was not > impressed. I more like terrified and very upset with this doctor. > > > > a54 <a54@...> wrote: > If your problem is from an injury that has healed and you no longer have any > problems, how did your doctor diagnose you with RA? Did he do blood tests > and do you have copies of them? Do any other joints hurt? > a > > >> Wow I had no idea this disease caused such suffering. I have not experienced >> any bad pain or anything like that. Its more annoying than anything else. >> its amazing as I read this post that people are really this sick. Wow this >> group is full of some really sick people!!! I feel really sorry for all of >> you suffering from this. >> >> I have not had any problems with doing anything I want. It was a fall and >> wrist injury that sent me to the doctor cause it seem to never heal, staying >> red, swollen, stiff and tender. My doc gave me some pills like aleve but >> strong that was suppose to help and it didn't. finally after a few weeks it >> went away on its own. Its been feeling great now. That is why I don't >> understand the doctors reaction to put me on this butt load of drugs! >> >> I am not one that is good about taking drugs daily. I can't even get through >> a thw hole bottle of antibiotics when I had a lung infection. My doc >> whines..I tell him I hate taking drugs. I have been healthy for the most >> part >> all my life so no real need. >> >> I feel so sorry for you with small children. I can't even imagine what you >> are going through. >> >> >> >> dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@...> wrote: >> I tend to agree with Dennis. I am not fond of docs, nor meds, and I had no >> insurance and could NOT afford treatment for quite awhile. I would have >> literally sold my life for relief. >> It is wise to weigh out the pros and cons of all meds a doc gives you- >> discuss >> options and choices, sure. That is a good thing to do---BUT- while I did not >> like the potential side effects of mtx- I was NOT living without it. I was a >> screaming crying blob in my bed for 2 years. I literally could NOT leave my >> bed, never stopped screaming- and would literally wet myself etc cuz I could >> NOT handle the pain to get to the bathroom. I prayed to die. >> SInce beginning mtx, I have been on a vacation to the ocean (and I did ALL >> the >> driving), toured DC and NYC and am able to once again live. I no longer wish >> to die. My children once again have a mother. >> The blood tests are to make sure the meds are not doing damage and to monitor >> what is going on in your body. The XRays are to check your bones and joints >> for damage from the illness. From my XRays they found me full of bone loss >> in >> many joints and tips of bones, and also full of calcium deposits in other >> joints. >> The choice to medicate is an individual one, you do have the right to refuse >> treatment but I would suppose if you choose not to medicate, then your doc >> might wonder why you came in for help? The doc seems to be offering you >> typical help. >> Sure, I am only 45 years old, and NO I do not like having these meds or using >> a scooter to take my kids to the zoo or feeling this crummy all the time. I >> do not like the negative side effects, but---it sure beats how I was living. >> It was AWFUL to look my 9 year old in the face with tears running down my >> cheeks and tell him NO sorry dude, I can't take you to the park, I cannot >> even >> get out of bed, but hey little guy since you are here, would you hold that >> glass of water to my mouth cuz my wrists are too painful for me to do it >> myself. It was so horrible to have to ask my 13 year old to help me pull up >> my pants and underwear when I did make it to th ebathroom cuz the movement >> made me scream and nearly pass out. I am GLAD to have the mtx, even with its >> possible negative side effects. >> >> >> - In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote: >>> , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're >>> jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you >>> don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can >>> 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was >>> from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, >>> you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even >>> attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only >>> area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get >>> enough relief. It depends on your perspective. >>> >>> Dennis >>> >>> [ ] Thank you for the welcome >>> >>> >>>> Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the >>>> medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is >>>> taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to >>>> start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not >>>> heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will >>>> take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these >>>> medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these >>>> meds. They claim they are too expensive. >>>> >>>> Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have >>>> good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my >>>> diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it >>>> started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA >>>> cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with >>>> swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. >>>> >>>> Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and >>>> prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will >>>> ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not >>>> want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! >>>> >>>> I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking >>>> any sort of medication. >>>> >>>> As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. >>>> Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to >>>> become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at >>>> the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! >>>> >>>> I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! >>>> >>>> Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I >>>> have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see >>>> something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start >>>> glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood >>>> tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to >>>> get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and >>>> thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood >>>> tests all the time? >>>> >>>> This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the >>>> doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just >>>> don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs >>>> he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and >>>> see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. >>>> >>>> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2004 Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 Um, well, uh, I have not had any lung infections in my life- nor have I ever had any stomach trouble. I had 14 miscarriages- maybe from Lupus or RA related problems before I was diagnosed- or maybe from my husbands Agent Orange exposure- who knows? I had one surgery- on my knee, when I was 20. I had ONE pain shot - before I woke from the anesthetic. I was back waitressing inside of 3 weeks, in spite of an 8 inch incision. I birthed my 3 kids with NO pain help- none at all. I have not needed an antibiotic in well over 20 years. I am not a pill taker, either. Better still, I am not a shot taker- BUT were I to be diagnosed tomorrow with diabetes, I sure would change my mind FAST. I do hope you DON " T have RA. I really do. I am a nurse and my heart breaks when people are diagnosed with illness. It would be to your advantage to pay out of pocket for a 2nd opinion, isn't your health and life worth it? RA can have SERIOUS complications. It is not common, but it IS possible. The sad truth is doctors spend YEARS upon years learning traditional western medicine, not all have faith or trust in alternatives, and many just do not have the time to pursue alternatives. As for antibiotics, well, as a nurse they are my biggest pet peeve. If you are not going to finish them, then do not even start them. WHen you do that you contribute to the mutation of bacteria causing antibiotic resistant strains of illness, which can be a very serious public health problem for EVERYONE. (not just yourself) Yes there are a few docs out there who are not great persons. But no doc can help anyone if they are not open honest and truthful with them.... and NO doc can FORCE you to accept treatment. Please stop making it sound like all of us are stupid idiots for taking MTX. We did our research and made our informed decision. I highly doubt any doc strong armed us into taking this med. Your doc MIGHT be wrong and maybe you DON " T have RA. That would be wonderful. He is NOT going to throw a flying dart of MTX at you if you go into his office. As for it being poison and harmful, LOTS of things are. Tyenol is a very dangerous drug. Over the counter things have the potential to be dangerous. Milk, coffee, pop, tea, MANY things have the potential to be dangerous. Insulin SAVES many lives every day. BUT in the wrong hands, insulin can kill. Ordinary childrens vitamins are not " safe " More toddlers die from over the counter chewable childrens vitamins than you would ever want to know about. Getting in your car to go to the grocery store is not " safe " We are here- trying to find a balance to enhance our quality of life. I have a very potentially serious possibly life threatening illness and without this " poison " I would have suicided. I could not have asked my children one more time to hear me scream primal screams all nite long. I could not have asked them to wash my urine soaked privates one more time. I could not ask them one more time to spoon feed me cuz my wrists and fingers could not handle silverware. I have not had one single negative side effect from MTX- but- I would GLADLY give all my hair on my entire body for what MTX gave back to me. ANd truth is I WOULD trade in dying now from some rare side effect. I could NOT continue to live that way anymore. This morning I joked to my kids and husband before I came here that I might stop the MTX cuz it made me tired. My whole family panicked. ALl day every 2-3 minutes one of the kids or my husband made a scream sound- reminding me how awful it was before. They followed me into the bathroom reminding me look mom you can do this yourself, are you gonna give this up? Maybe MTX isn't right for you- but discuss it with a doctor, do your research. Know the enemy. RA is not " just an inconvenience " - In , catherine p <painpaingoaway2@y...> wrote: > Wow I had no idea this disease caused such suffering. I have not experienced any bad pain or anything like that. Its more annoying than anything else. its amazing as I read this post that people are really this sick. Wow this group is full of some really sick people!!! I feel really sorry for all of you suffering from this. > > I have not had any problems with doing anything I want. It was a fall and wrist injury that sent me to the doctor cause it seem to never heal, staying red, swollen, stiff and tender. My doc gave me some pills like aleve but strong that was suppose to help and it didn't. finally after a few weeks it went away on its own. Its been feeling great now. That is why I don't understand the doctors reaction to put me on this butt load of drugs! > > I am not one that is good about taking drugs daily. I can't even get through a thw hole bottle of antibiotics when I had a lung infection. My doc whines..I tell him I hate taking drugs. I have been healthy for the most part all my life so no real need. > > I feel so sorry for you with small children. I can't even imagine what you are going through. > > > > dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@w...> wrote: > I tend to agree with Dennis. I am not fond of docs, nor meds, and I had no insurance and could NOT afford treatment for quite awhile. I would have literally sold my life for relief. > It is wise to weigh out the pros and cons of all meds a doc gives you- discuss options and choices, sure. That is a good thing to do---BUT- while I did not like the potential side effects of mtx- I was NOT living without it. I was a screaming crying blob in my bed for 2 years. I literally could NOT leave my bed, never stopped screaming- and would literally wet myself etc cuz I could NOT handle the pain to get to the bathroom. I prayed to die. > SInce beginning mtx, I have been on a vacation to the ocean (and I did ALL the driving), toured DC and NYC and am able to once again live. I no longer wish to die. My children once again have a mother. > The blood tests are to make sure the meds are not doing damage and to monitor what is going on in your body. The XRays are to check your bones and joints for damage from the illness. From my XRays they found me full of bone loss in many joints and tips of bones, and also full of calcium deposits in other joints. > The choice to medicate is an individual one, you do have the right to refuse treatment but I would suppose if you choose not to medicate, then your doc might wonder why you came in for help? The doc seems to be offering you typical help. > Sure, I am only 45 years old, and NO I do not like having these meds or using a scooter to take my kids to the zoo or feeling this crummy all the time. I do not like the negative side effects, but---it sure beats how I was living. It was AWFUL to look my 9 year old in the face with tears running down my cheeks and tell him NO sorry dude, I can't take you to the park, I cannot even get out of bed, but hey little guy since you are here, would you hold that glass of water to my mouth cuz my wrists are too painful for me to do it myself. It was so horrible to have to ask my 13 year old to help me pull up my pants and underwear when I did make it to th ebathroom cuz the movement made me scream and nearly pass out. I am GLAD to have the mtx, even with its possible negative side effects. > > > - In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote: > > , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're > > jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you > > don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can > > 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was > > from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, > > you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even > > attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only > > area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get > > enough relief. It depends on your perspective. > > > > Dennis > > > > [ ] Thank you for the welcome > > > > > > > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > > > medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > > > taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > > > start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > > > heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > > > take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > > > medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > > > meds. They claim they are too expensive. > > > > > > Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > > > good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > > > diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > > > started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > > > cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > > > swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > > > > > > Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > > > prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > > > ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > > > want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > > > > > > I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > > > any sort of medication. > > > > > > As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > > > Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > > > become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > > > the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > > > > > > I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > > > > > > Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > > > have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > > > something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > > > glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > > > tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > > > get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > > > thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > > > tests all the time? > > > > > > This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > > > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > > > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > > > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > > > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2004 Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 I will have to reach the nurse. I called the clinic today as they have weekend sick hours. I asked the nurse that took my call. She stated I needed to come in and sign some paperwork and they would forward the results to the doctor of my choice but they would not give me a copy of my chart. So I told her I was told I was entitled to a copy of my chart. She told me I would have to pay a $1 a page if I " really " wanted it. He didn't really discuss the x-rays. He just said there was nothing broken in my wrist. We didn't discuss my feet. Which I have no clue why he x-rayed my feet when there is nothing wrong with them. As far as bone erosion he did not say anything like that. Can you please explain more about what this is? Sorry I am not up or familiar with all this medical stuff. Thanks a54 <a54@...> wrote: , You can request a copy of your blood tests and find out exactly what is off and what it means. You said that the test he was concerned about was the test for inflammation. That test can be off for many reasons. RA cannot be diagnosed with just blood tests. What were the results of your x-rays? Was there any erosion of bone? a > Just my wrist was hurt. When it took nearly six months to get better the doc > got worried cause he said it should not be swelling and turning red like that. > So he did some blood tests and said some values were off. I do not have > copies. I never thought to ask for them. I started taking aleve, even though > I am not suppose to cause of my stomach problems history and that seem to > help. My doc gave me some drug like aleve but stronger and it really didn't > help much. It finally went away on its own. > > Then he asked me if I had any other joint problems. Well my knees have always > been bad. Swelling and painful from time to time. He said that was not > normal. Well since its been that way since I was a teenager I really didn't > think much of it. I have injuried my knees falling and twisting them in the > past. > > So after all the blood work he called me and said I needed to see the > specialist right away and got me an appointment. I went and I was not > impressed. I more like terrified and very upset with this doctor. > > > > a54 <a54@...> wrote: > If your problem is from an injury that has healed and you no longer have any > problems, how did your doctor diagnose you with RA? Did he do blood tests > and do you have copies of them? Do any other joints hurt? > a > > >> Wow I had no idea this disease caused such suffering. I have not experienced >> any bad pain or anything like that. Its more annoying than anything else. >> its amazing as I read this post that people are really this sick. Wow this >> group is full of some really sick people!!! I feel really sorry for all of >> you suffering from this. >> >> I have not had any problems with doing anything I want. It was a fall and >> wrist injury that sent me to the doctor cause it seem to never heal, staying >> red, swollen, stiff and tender. My doc gave me some pills like aleve but >> strong that was suppose to help and it didn't. finally after a few weeks it >> went away on its own. Its been feeling great now. That is why I don't >> understand the doctors reaction to put me on this butt load of drugs! >> >> I am not one that is good about taking drugs daily. I can't even get through >> a thw hole bottle of antibiotics when I had a lung infection. My doc >> whines..I tell him I hate taking drugs. I have been healthy for the most >> part >> all my life so no real need. >> >> I feel so sorry for you with small children. I can't even imagine what you >> are going through. >> >> >> >> dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@...> wrote: >> I tend to agree with Dennis. I am not fond of docs, nor meds, and I had no >> insurance and could NOT afford treatment for quite awhile. I would have >> literally sold my life for relief. >> It is wise to weigh out the pros and cons of all meds a doc gives you- >> discuss >> options and choices, sure. That is a good thing to do---BUT- while I did not >> like the potential side effects of mtx- I was NOT living without it. I was a >> screaming crying blob in my bed for 2 years. I literally could NOT leave my >> bed, never stopped screaming- and would literally wet myself etc cuz I could >> NOT handle the pain to get to the bathroom. I prayed to die. >> SInce beginning mtx, I have been on a vacation to the ocean (and I did ALL >> the >> driving), toured DC and NYC and am able to once again live. I no longer wish >> to die. My children once again have a mother. >> The blood tests are to make sure the meds are not doing damage and to monitor >> what is going on in your body. The XRays are to check your bones and joints >> for damage from the illness. From my XRays they found me full of bone loss >> in >> many joints and tips of bones, and also full of calcium deposits in other >> joints. >> The choice to medicate is an individual one, you do have the right to refuse >> treatment but I would suppose if you choose not to medicate, then your doc >> might wonder why you came in for help? The doc seems to be offering you >> typical help. >> Sure, I am only 45 years old, and NO I do not like having these meds or using >> a scooter to take my kids to the zoo or feeling this crummy all the time. I >> do not like the negative side effects, but---it sure beats how I was living. >> It was AWFUL to look my 9 year old in the face with tears running down my >> cheeks and tell him NO sorry dude, I can't take you to the park, I cannot >> even >> get out of bed, but hey little guy since you are here, would you hold that >> glass of water to my mouth cuz my wrists are too painful for me to do it >> myself. It was so horrible to have to ask my 13 year old to help me pull up >> my pants and underwear when I did make it to th ebathroom cuz the movement >> made me scream and nearly pass out. I am GLAD to have the mtx, even with its >> possible negative side effects. >> >> >> - In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote: >>> , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're >>> jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you >>> don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can >>> 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was >>> from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, >>> you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even >>> attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only >>> area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get >>> enough relief. It depends on your perspective. >>> >>> Dennis >>> >>> [ ] Thank you for the welcome >>> >>> >>>> Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the >>>> medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is >>>> taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to >>>> start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not >>>> heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will >>>> take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these >>>> medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these >>>> meds. They claim they are too expensive. >>>> >>>> Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have >>>> good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my >>>> diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it >>>> started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA >>>> cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with >>>> swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. >>>> >>>> Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and >>>> prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will >>>> ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not >>>> want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! >>>> >>>> I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking >>>> any sort of medication. >>>> >>>> As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. >>>> Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to >>>> become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at >>>> the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! >>>> >>>> I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! >>>> >>>> Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I >>>> have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see >>>> something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start >>>> glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood >>>> tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to >>>> get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and >>>> thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood >>>> tests all the time? >>>> >>>> This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the >>>> doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just >>>> don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs >>>> he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and >>>> see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. >>>> >>>> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2004 Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 I am so sorry to hear about your pain and suffering. Beyond my grandmother who had cancer I know no one that is sick like this. Sorry, if I upset you. But I have no experience with this so I guess I am the stupid one here. This is just so scarey and serious with all these drugs. I also have pretty limited resources so there is not much room to waste anything. Since I am terrible at taking stuff if I started it and it had bad side effects, I know myself and I would just stop it. It just amazes me how you go to the doctor and walk out with a bunch of prescriptions for a sack of pills. My co-worker was commenting on how she goes to the doc and gets a bunch of stuff each time. She was also commenting on how much she spends on medicine a month. All of this is just so overwhelming. the longer I am here the more I hear and the scarier it gets. You story alone has left me terrified. Is this what I am facing if I do have RA. If so, someone get a gun....shoot me and put me out of my suffering. (just kidding) dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@...> wrote: Um, well, uh, I have not had any lung infections in my life- nor have I ever had any stomach trouble. I had 14 miscarriages- maybe from Lupus or RA related problems before I was diagnosed- or maybe from my husbands Agent Orange exposure- who knows? I had one surgery- on my knee, when I was 20. I had ONE pain shot - before I woke from the anesthetic. I was back waitressing inside of 3 weeks, in spite of an 8 inch incision. I birthed my 3 kids with NO pain help- none at all. I have not needed an antibiotic in well over 20 years. I am not a pill taker, either. Better still, I am not a shot taker- BUT were I to be diagnosed tomorrow with diabetes, I sure would change my mind FAST. I do hope you DON " T have RA. I really do. I am a nurse and my heart breaks when people are diagnosed with illness. It would be to your advantage to pay out of pocket for a 2nd opinion, isn't your health and life worth it? RA can have SERIOUS complications. It is not common, but it IS possible. The sad truth is doctors spend YEARS upon years learning traditional western medicine, not all have faith or trust in alternatives, and many just do not have the time to pursue alternatives. As for antibiotics, well, as a nurse they are my biggest pet peeve. If you are not going to finish them, then do not even start them. WHen you do that you contribute to the mutation of bacteria causing antibiotic resistant strains of illness, which can be a very serious public health problem for EVERYONE. (not just yourself) Yes there are a few docs out there who are not great persons. But no doc can help anyone if they are not open honest and truthful with them.... and NO doc can FORCE you to accept treatment. Please stop making it sound like all of us are stupid idiots for taking MTX. We did our research and made our informed decision. I highly doubt any doc strong armed us into taking this med. Your doc MIGHT be wrong and maybe you DON " T have RA. That would be wonderful. He is NOT going to throw a flying dart of MTX at you if you go into his office. As for it being poison and harmful, LOTS of things are. Tyenol is a very dangerous drug. Over the counter things have the potential to be dangerous. Milk, coffee, pop, tea, MANY things have the potential to be dangerous. Insulin SAVES many lives every day. BUT in the wrong hands, insulin can kill. Ordinary childrens vitamins are not " safe " More toddlers die from over the counter chewable childrens vitamins than you would ever want to know about. Getting in your car to go to the grocery store is not " safe " We are here- trying to find a balance to enhance our quality of life. I have a very potentially serious possibly life threatening illness and without this " poison " I would have suicided. I could not have asked my children one more time to hear me scream primal screams all nite long. I could not have asked them to wash my urine soaked privates one more time. I could not ask them one more time to spoon feed me cuz my wrists and fingers could not handle silverware. I have not had one single negative side effect from MTX- but- I would GLADLY give all my hair on my entire body for what MTX gave back to me. ANd truth is I WOULD trade in dying now from some rare side effect. I could NOT continue to live that way anymore. This morning I joked to my kids and husband before I came here that I might stop the MTX cuz it made me tired. My whole family panicked. ALl day every 2-3 minutes one of the kids or my husband made a scream sound- reminding me how awful it was before. They followed me into the bathroom reminding me look mom you can do this yourself, are you gonna give this up? Maybe MTX isn't right for you- but discuss it with a doctor, do your research. Know the enemy. RA is not " just an inconvenience " - In , catherine p <painpaingoaway2@y...> wrote: > Wow I had no idea this disease caused such suffering. I have not experienced any bad pain or anything like that. Its more annoying than anything else. its amazing as I read this post that people are really this sick. Wow this group is full of some really sick people!!! I feel really sorry for all of you suffering from this. > > I have not had any problems with doing anything I want. It was a fall and wrist injury that sent me to the doctor cause it seem to never heal, staying red, swollen, stiff and tender. My doc gave me some pills like aleve but strong that was suppose to help and it didn't. finally after a few weeks it went away on its own. Its been feeling great now. That is why I don't understand the doctors reaction to put me on this butt load of drugs! > > I am not one that is good about taking drugs daily. I can't even get through a thw hole bottle of antibiotics when I had a lung infection. My doc whines..I tell him I hate taking drugs. I have been healthy for the most part all my life so no real need. > > I feel so sorry for you with small children. I can't even imagine what you are going through. > > > > dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@w...> wrote: > I tend to agree with Dennis. I am not fond of docs, nor meds, and I had no insurance and could NOT afford treatment for quite awhile. I would have literally sold my life for relief. > It is wise to weigh out the pros and cons of all meds a doc gives you- discuss options and choices, sure. That is a good thing to do---BUT- while I did not like the potential side effects of mtx- I was NOT living without it. I was a screaming crying blob in my bed for 2 years. I literally could NOT leave my bed, never stopped screaming- and would literally wet myself etc cuz I could NOT handle the pain to get to the bathroom. I prayed to die. > SInce beginning mtx, I have been on a vacation to the ocean (and I did ALL the driving), toured DC and NYC and am able to once again live. I no longer wish to die. My children once again have a mother. > The blood tests are to make sure the meds are not doing damage and to monitor what is going on in your body. The XRays are to check your bones and joints for damage from the illness. From my XRays they found me full of bone loss in many joints and tips of bones, and also full of calcium deposits in other joints. > The choice to medicate is an individual one, you do have the right to refuse treatment but I would suppose if you choose not to medicate, then your doc might wonder why you came in for help? The doc seems to be offering you typical help. > Sure, I am only 45 years old, and NO I do not like having these meds or using a scooter to take my kids to the zoo or feeling this crummy all the time. I do not like the negative side effects, but---it sure beats how I was living. It was AWFUL to look my 9 year old in the face with tears running down my cheeks and tell him NO sorry dude, I can't take you to the park, I cannot even get out of bed, but hey little guy since you are here, would you hold that glass of water to my mouth cuz my wrists are too painful for me to do it myself. It was so horrible to have to ask my 13 year old to help me pull up my pants and underwear when I did make it to th ebathroom cuz the movement made me scream and nearly pass out. I am GLAD to have the mtx, even with its possible negative side effects. > > > - In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote: > > , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're > > jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you > > don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can > > 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was > > from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, > > you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even > > attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only > > area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get > > enough relief. It depends on your perspective. > > > > Dennis > > > > [ ] Thank you for the welcome > > > > > > > Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > > > medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > > > taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > > > start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > > > heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > > > take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > > > medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > > > meds. They claim they are too expensive. > > > > > > Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > > > good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > > > diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > > > started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > > > cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > > > swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > > > > > > Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > > > prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > > > ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > > > want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > > > > > > I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > > > any sort of medication. > > > > > > As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > > > Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > > > become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > > > the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > > > > > > I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > > > > > > Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > > > have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > > > something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > > > glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > > > tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > > > get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > > > thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > > > tests all the time? > > > > > > This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > > > doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > > > don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > > > he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > > > see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2004 Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 Yes you are entitled to your records, but yes they can charge you for them. You might have to put your request in writing. He probably XRayed your feet to see if they are damaged and I believe damage CAN occur even if YOU do not feel it. Sounds like he was being thorough. - In , catherine p <painpaingoaway2@y...> wrote: > I will have to reach the nurse. I called the clinic today as they have weekend sick hours. I asked the nurse that took my call. She stated I needed to come in and sign some paperwork and they would forward the results to the doctor of my choice but they would not give me a copy of my chart. So I told her I was told I was entitled to a copy of my chart. She told me I would have to pay a $1 a page if I " really " wanted it. > > He didn't really discuss the x-rays. He just said there was nothing broken in my wrist. We didn't discuss my feet. Which I have no clue why he x-rayed my feet when there is nothing wrong with them. As far as bone erosion he did not say anything like that. Can you please explain more about what this is? Sorry I am not up or familiar with all this medical stuff. > > Thanks > > > > a54 <a54@s...> wrote: > , > You can request a copy of your blood tests and find out exactly what is off > and what it means. You said that the test he was concerned about was the > test for inflammation. That test can be off for many reasons. RA cannot be > diagnosed with just blood tests. What were the results of your x-rays? Was > there any erosion of bone? > a > > > > > > Just my wrist was hurt. When it took nearly six months to get better the doc > > got worried cause he said it should not be swelling and turning red like that. > > So he did some blood tests and said some values were off. I do not have > > copies. I never thought to ask for them. I started taking aleve, even though > > I am not suppose to cause of my stomach problems history and that seem to > > help. My doc gave me some drug like aleve but stronger and it really didn't > > help much. It finally went away on its own. > > > > Then he asked me if I had any other joint problems. Well my knees have always > > been bad. Swelling and painful from time to time. He said that was not > > normal. Well since its been that way since I was a teenager I really didn't > > think much of it. I have injuried my knees falling and twisting them in the > > past. > > > > So after all the blood work he called me and said I needed to see the > > specialist right away and got me an appointment. I went and I was not > > impressed. I more like terrified and very upset with this doctor. > > > > > > > > a54 <a54@s...> wrote: > > If your problem is from an injury that has healed and you no longer have any > > problems, how did your doctor diagnose you with RA? Did he do blood tests > > and do you have copies of them? Do any other joints hurt? > > a > > > > > >> Wow I had no idea this disease caused such suffering. I have not experienced > >> any bad pain or anything like that. Its more annoying than anything else. > >> its amazing as I read this post that people are really this sick. Wow this > >> group is full of some really sick people!!! I feel really sorry for all of > >> you suffering from this. > >> > >> I have not had any problems with doing anything I want. It was a fall and > >> wrist injury that sent me to the doctor cause it seem to never heal, staying > >> red, swollen, stiff and tender. My doc gave me some pills like aleve but > >> strong that was suppose to help and it didn't. finally after a few weeks it > >> went away on its own. Its been feeling great now. That is why I don't > >> understand the doctors reaction to put me on this butt load of drugs! > >> > >> I am not one that is good about taking drugs daily. I can't even get through > >> a thw hole bottle of antibiotics when I had a lung infection. My doc > >> whines..I tell him I hate taking drugs. I have been healthy for the most > >> part > >> all my life so no real need. > >> > >> I feel so sorry for you with small children. I can't even imagine what you > >> are going through. > >> > >> > >> > >> dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@w...> wrote: > >> I tend to agree with Dennis. I am not fond of docs, nor meds, and I had no > >> insurance and could NOT afford treatment for quite awhile. I would have > >> literally sold my life for relief. > >> It is wise to weigh out the pros and cons of all meds a doc gives you- > >> discuss > >> options and choices, sure. That is a good thing to do---BUT- while I did not > >> like the potential side effects of mtx- I was NOT living without it. I was a > >> screaming crying blob in my bed for 2 years. I literally could NOT leave my > >> bed, never stopped screaming- and would literally wet myself etc cuz I could > >> NOT handle the pain to get to the bathroom. I prayed to die. > >> SInce beginning mtx, I have been on a vacation to the ocean (and I did ALL > >> the > >> driving), toured DC and NYC and am able to once again live. I no longer wish > >> to die. My children once again have a mother. > >> The blood tests are to make sure the meds are not doing damage and to monitor > >> what is going on in your body. The XRays are to check your bones and joints > >> for damage from the illness. From my XRays they found me full of bone loss > >> in > >> many joints and tips of bones, and also full of calcium deposits in other > >> joints. > >> The choice to medicate is an individual one, you do have the right to refuse > >> treatment but I would suppose if you choose not to medicate, then your doc > >> might wonder why you came in for help? The doc seems to be offering you > >> typical help. > >> Sure, I am only 45 years old, and NO I do not like having these meds or using > >> a scooter to take my kids to the zoo or feeling this crummy all the time. I > >> do not like the negative side effects, but---it sure beats how I was living. > >> It was AWFUL to look my 9 year old in the face with tears running down my > >> cheeks and tell him NO sorry dude, I can't take you to the park, I cannot > >> even > >> get out of bed, but hey little guy since you are here, would you hold that > >> glass of water to my mouth cuz my wrists are too painful for me to do it > >> myself. It was so horrible to have to ask my 13 year old to help me pull up > >> my pants and underwear when I did make it to th ebathroom cuz the movement > >> made me scream and nearly pass out. I am GLAD to have the mtx, even with its > >> possible negative side effects. > >> > >> > >> - In , " Dennis W " <betnden@a...> wrote: > >>> , you haven't suffered long enough, pure and simple. I think you're > >>> jumping the gun in saying you don't want to take prednesone, and that you > >>> don't want to even see the doctor. If your diet is not followed, you can > >>> 'blimp' out. I gained 15 pounds after starting treatment, but part of it was > >>> from not being able to move or exercise. My advice is: Don't say NEVER, > >>> you'll likely eat those words if your RA is aggressive enough. Mine even > >>> attacked the pseudo-joints where the ribs tie to the breastbone. The only > >>> area that hasn't suffered yet is my jaw bones. I still wish I could get > >>> enough relief. It depends on your perspective. > >>> > >>> Dennis > >>> > >>> [ ] Thank you for the welcome > >>> > >>> > >>>> Thank you to all for the welcome. I don't know much about the > >>>> medications. So excuse my ignorance about all the names everyone is > >>>> taking. I tried Arava and it really did nothing. My doc wants me to > >>>> start on Methotrexate injections and enbrel injections. I have not > >>>> heard many good things about methotrexate, so I don't think I will > >>>> take this drug. My insurance does not pay for either of these > >>>> medications anyway. They will pay for insulin but not for these > >>>> meds. They claim they are too expensive. > >>>> > >>>> Enbrel I have mixed feelings about. My pain is not too bad. I have > >>>> good and bad days. I am not even sure this doctor is correct with my > >>>> diagnosis. Is there a test for RA? I fell and hurt my wrist and it > >>>> started giving me lots of trouble then my doc claimed it might be RA > >>>> cause some level was real high. He said it has something to do with > >>>> swelling. Anyway...its all mumbo jumbo to me. > >>>> > >>>> Besides those drugs, he also gave me a drug called bextra and > >>>> prednisone. I have not taken either. I was told prednisone will > >>>> ruin your bones and make you fat, hyper and always hungry. I do not > >>>> want any drug that makes me hungry or fat!!!! > >>>> > >>>> I take aleve for pain and benadryl if I need to sleep. I hate taking > >>>> any sort of medication. > >>>> > >>>> As I read through the old post so many here are on tons of drugs. > >>>> Wow how do you do it??? How do you afford it????I do not want to > >>>> become dependent on a ton of meds like you see these old ladies at > >>>> the pharmacy for a grocery sack of meds!!! > >>>> > >>>> I don't know anyone else with RA nor does anyone in my family have it! > >>>> > >>>> Did anyone elses doctor x-ray your hands, feet, hips and back? I > >>>> have no clue why my doc did this. He said he needed to see > >>>> something. If he keeps xraying me like this I am going to start > >>>> glowing in the dark! He also seems to like to order a ton of blood > >>>> tests. I would mind if the lab techs didn't stick me 3-4 times to > >>>> get blood. The last time I went I told them they get one try and > >>>> thats it. If you miss, too bad you get no blood. Do you have blood > >>>> tests all the time? > >>>> > >>>> This is just so time consuming and expensive. I hate going to the > >>>> doctor. My doc got mad cause I cancelled a few of my appnts. I just > >>>> don't see him really doing anything and I am not taking these drugs > >>>> he prescribes. I plan to take to my family doc at my next visit and > >>>> see if we can stop all these appnts with this specialists. > >>>> > >>>> > >> > >> > >> > >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2004 Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 Hi Cat, I will talk to my doctor when I go in September. I still feel the lesser of the drugs the better. The harder drugs are out there if we ever need them. Thanks, and good luck with your becoming pregnant. ette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2004 Report Share Posted August 21, 2004 A woman friend from our motorcycle group decided that her RA is keeping her from working, so she applied for SSD. I told her I could help since I had just completed my own successful attempt. She went through all the paperwork and it was all routine until she was sent to a doctor for pertinent tests. It turned out that she never had RA! That's the same I hear from lots of people because there is a large misunderstanding of RA. Many have told me they have RA but haven't seen the doctor yet and have no blood tests performed. The company I worked for had a policy that " everyone has arthritis " , so after 20 years I was laid off since I couldn't do my job. If anyone asks them, I was never disabled. My opinion that I have vocalized is: Rheumatoid Arthritis is NOT arthritis, but it causes Arthritis. Therefore, it should be properly named " Rheumatoid Disease " . It would certainly be more understood then. Dennis Re: [ ] Re: Thank you for the welcome > If your problem is from an injury that has healed and you no longer have any > problems, how did your doctor diagnose you with RA? Did he do blood tests > and do you have copies of them? Do any other joints hurt? > a > > > > Wow I had no idea this disease caused such suffering. I have not experienced > > any bad pain or anything like that. Its more annoying than anything else. > > its amazing as I read this post that people are really this sick. Wow this > > group is full of some really sick people!!! I feel really sorry for all of > > you suffering from this. > > > > I have not had any problems with doing anything I want. It was a fall and > > wrist injury that sent me to the doctor cause it seem to never heal, staying > > red, swollen, stiff and tender. My doc gave me some pills like aleve but > > strong that was suppose to help and it didn't. finally after a few weeks it > > went away on its own. Its been feeling great now. That is why I don't > > understand the doctors reaction to put me on this butt load of drugs! > > > > I am not one that is good about taking drugs daily. I can't even get through > > a thw hole bottle of antibiotics when I had a lung infection. My doc > > whines..I tell him I hate taking drugs. I have been healthy for the most part > > all my life so no real need. > > > > I feel so sorry for you with small children. I can't even imagine what you > > are going through. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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