Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Put it behind you Jennie, as far as I am concerned this is history. You are a valuable member of this wonderful group. Hugs June ----- Original Message ----- From: Jennie G Judith - I apologized. What else do you want me to do? > You go girl, some things should be left personal. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Put it behind you Jennie, as far as I am concerned this is history. You are a valuable member of this wonderful group. Hugs June ----- Original Message ----- From: Jennie G Judith - I apologized. What else do you want me to do? > You go girl, some things should be left personal. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Jennie the whole purpose of this list is to SUPPORT not criticize, you merely told us what you needed to tell and as far as I am concerned, you did nothing wrong. If people are going to be nervous about upsetting someone else, that defeats the whole purpose of feeling free to say anything here and receive the support we all need so much. Everyone needs to be tolerant of what is upsetting that person and it is not up to us to decide if their story is acceptable, no matter the content. Let's make the lives of and a a little easier and if a post upsets you,use the delete key. Hugs June ----- Original Message ----- From: Jennie G This will make two times in a week that my posts have SERIOUSLY upset a member of this board. I am incredibly sorry about this and I never intended to upset you or anyone. I do my best to make a positive contribution to this group when I post here. All I can do is accept your criticism and not complain about my personal problems, since they will never be as bad as so many members here. Despite the fact I am able to work, depsite the fact I earn a decent living doing what I do, and that I have an amazing little girl, my life is a mess in so many ways. I want to be clear about that. You don't know everything about my problems and I struggle every day too. But it seems I need to keep that to myself because I have not suffered as much as others. So what good is being part of a support group if you can't seek support? Jennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Jennie the whole purpose of this list is to SUPPORT not criticize, you merely told us what you needed to tell and as far as I am concerned, you did nothing wrong. If people are going to be nervous about upsetting someone else, that defeats the whole purpose of feeling free to say anything here and receive the support we all need so much. Everyone needs to be tolerant of what is upsetting that person and it is not up to us to decide if their story is acceptable, no matter the content. Let's make the lives of and a a little easier and if a post upsets you,use the delete key. Hugs June ----- Original Message ----- From: Jennie G This will make two times in a week that my posts have SERIOUSLY upset a member of this board. I am incredibly sorry about this and I never intended to upset you or anyone. I do my best to make a positive contribution to this group when I post here. All I can do is accept your criticism and not complain about my personal problems, since they will never be as bad as so many members here. Despite the fact I am able to work, depsite the fact I earn a decent living doing what I do, and that I have an amazing little girl, my life is a mess in so many ways. I want to be clear about that. You don't know everything about my problems and I struggle every day too. But it seems I need to keep that to myself because I have not suffered as much as others. So what good is being part of a support group if you can't seek support? Jennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Gosh yes--we should be able to 'vent' to each other. Many times we are the only ones who truly understand each other. As long as we are not trying to sell miracle cures/drugs or other spam.....we ALL belong here to share in the ups and downs that life seems to throw our way. Lets not hurt feelings thru petty stuff anymore. Each and every one of us is valuable to this list. I always tell my husband...even on his worst day, there is ALWAYS someone/somewhere worse off then you. There are children dying of cancer and disease...adults too. Sometimes its tuff but ya gotta look at life and be thankful for what we do have. Afterall......here, we have each other and I think that makes us one lucky BUNCH! Re: [ ] Re: OT AND ME! > > Jennie the whole purpose of this list is to SUPPORT not criticize, you merely told us what you needed to tell and as far as I am concerned, you did nothing wrong. If people are going to be nervous about upsetting someone else, that defeats the whole purpose of feeling free to say anything here and receive the support we all need so much. Everyone needs to be tolerant of what is upsetting that person and it is not up to us to decide if their story is acceptable, no matter the content. Let's make the lives of and a a little easier and if a post upsets you,use the delete key. > > Hugs > June > ----- Original Message ----- > From: Jennie G > > > This will make two times in a week that my posts have SERIOUSLY > upset a member of this board. I am incredibly sorry about this and > I never intended to upset you or anyone. > > I do my best to make a positive contribution to this group when I > post here. All I can do is accept your criticism and not complain > about my personal problems, since they will never be as bad as so > many members here. > > Despite the fact I am able to work, depsite the fact I earn a decent > living doing what I do, and that I have an amazing little girl, my > life is a mess in so many ways. I want to be clear about that. You > don't know everything about my problems and I struggle every day > too. But it seems I need to keep that to myself because I have not > suffered as much as others. So what good is being part of a support > group if you can't seek support? > > Jennie > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Gosh yes--we should be able to 'vent' to each other. Many times we are the only ones who truly understand each other. As long as we are not trying to sell miracle cures/drugs or other spam.....we ALL belong here to share in the ups and downs that life seems to throw our way. Lets not hurt feelings thru petty stuff anymore. Each and every one of us is valuable to this list. I always tell my husband...even on his worst day, there is ALWAYS someone/somewhere worse off then you. There are children dying of cancer and disease...adults too. Sometimes its tuff but ya gotta look at life and be thankful for what we do have. Afterall......here, we have each other and I think that makes us one lucky BUNCH! Re: [ ] Re: OT AND ME! > > Jennie the whole purpose of this list is to SUPPORT not criticize, you merely told us what you needed to tell and as far as I am concerned, you did nothing wrong. If people are going to be nervous about upsetting someone else, that defeats the whole purpose of feeling free to say anything here and receive the support we all need so much. Everyone needs to be tolerant of what is upsetting that person and it is not up to us to decide if their story is acceptable, no matter the content. Let's make the lives of and a a little easier and if a post upsets you,use the delete key. > > Hugs > June > ----- Original Message ----- > From: Jennie G > > > This will make two times in a week that my posts have SERIOUSLY > upset a member of this board. I am incredibly sorry about this and > I never intended to upset you or anyone. > > I do my best to make a positive contribution to this group when I > post here. All I can do is accept your criticism and not complain > about my personal problems, since they will never be as bad as so > many members here. > > Despite the fact I am able to work, depsite the fact I earn a decent > living doing what I do, and that I have an amazing little girl, my > life is a mess in so many ways. I want to be clear about that. You > don't know everything about my problems and I struggle every day > too. But it seems I need to keep that to myself because I have not > suffered as much as others. So what good is being part of a support > group if you can't seek support? > > Jennie > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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