Re: I should love myself/ I should be jealous (roslyn)

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> > > >

> > > > Lamar,

> > > >

> > > > Trust me and trust , if you point

> outward and do

> > > the Work on

> > > someone or something else, it will still end up

> being about

> > > you. It

> > > can't be otherwise.

> > > >

> > > > My biggest complaint with this board at the

> moment is

> > > that most

> > > people seem not to be following the guidelines of

> the Work.

> > > a great

> > > example is people continually doing the Work on

> themselves

> > > and then

> > > wondering why the turnarounds don't feel

> right.

> > > >

> > > > Vivian

> > > >

> > > > Aside to Jon: a strong suggestion from you

> in this

> > > direction might

> > > be helpful and appropriate.

> > > > I should love

> myself

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > So, I've been putting these off

> because

> > > says that in the

> > > > beginning we shouldn't try and do the

> work on

> > > ourselves. But thats the

> > > > entire reason I came to the work, because

> as far as

> > > I can tell, I am

> > > > the person I have a problem with. And at

> the behest

> > > of the very kind

> > > > woman on the other end of the Hotline (and

> an

> > > emotional breakdown

> > > > today) I have decided to do a little on

> myself.

> > > >

> > > > Heres a couple I pondered

> > > >

> > > > I should love myself

> > > > I shouldnt be anxious

> > > > I shouldn't have stressful thoughts

> > > >

> > > > Oh boy oh boy, let me tell you how nice it

> feels to

> > > question those.

> > > > The only turn arounds I used were, I

> shouldnt love

> > > myself until I do.

> > > > I should be anxious if I am, and I should

> have

> > > stressful thoughts.

> > > > Its very hard for me to SAY the opposites

> and

> > > believe it, but if I

> > > > just think them and let them sink in, it

> feels very

> > > kind.

> > > >

> > > > Lamar

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > >

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