Guest guest Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 Hey Vivian, If you really want to know how suggests people do it, ask her - seriously, check out whether people should or shouldn't judge themselves, etc. I don't know what she would say - I would be surprised if she has any hard and fast rule about people should judge others rather than themselves, etc. In my experience I judge myself, others, etc, etc - it happens, I don't have too much say about it :-) And I'm open to being surprised, seriously! Personally, I don't really care who or what people judge, my attachment used to be to the belief that people should inquire, especially people in this group - now I notice that attachment is much reduced, still comes up from time to time, with it's associated stress. Of course, that's the signal that there is something for me to inquire into - I've realized it's not my job to rescue or save others from their stressful thoughts, it's my job to save me from mine and mine alone - at least for the moment, that might change again at some point. Much love and thanks, keep doing your thing, Jon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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