Guest guest Posted September 12, 2004 Report Share Posted September 12, 2004 THank you for replying to my posting as someone coming to terms with RA. I think the idea of choosing an illness helps me look at my self-beliefs and try to choose different ones. For example I am someone who is super capable, I run a small school that I helped start, and I have 4 children aged 7-15, and I wonder whether having RA reinforces my belief of myself/chosen role as a super-hero (something I adopted when I was 3 when my mother died in childbirth leaving me and three younger ones - of course this mistaken role no longer serves me). 'She can do all that AND battle with such a debilitating illness!' By realising this, I'm working on being less driven and controlling and more 'in the flow', trusting etc. I find it lessens the stress and the resultant flares. REgarding supplements, I used to be as cautious of those as of pharmaceuticals, but I feel so much better after 9 months on fish oils, multivitamins, glucosamine, and Mag/Calc as well as acidophilus - as well as a dramically changed diet to one of low-acid forming foods including wheat (to which I am totally intolerant, it seems) and other gluten, potato/tomato family and other things like citrus and red meat. Basically I eat a lot of veg, nuts, seeds, pulses, fish, chicken etc which is a really healthy diet - and I feel fitter generally than ever before practically. I came to this approach by reading 'Say No To Arthritis' by Holford, a British alternative practitioner who comes at the issue with his head screwed on (as they say over here) and it's based on a regime of diet, exercise, supplements, attitude etc. However, I've got a nearly permanetnly stiff shoulder and hips, and sometimes I can't stand or walk for long. I get pain in other joints if I overdo things much at all like carry a suitcase. Am I in denial?! Reading your posts, I wonder if I'm setting myself up for worsening the outcome by not taking these great pharmaceuticals. The side effects sound potentially gruesome. Would I know if my joints are becoming eroded? Are there tests to tell? I have no inflammation and no pain in my hands so it's a mysterious form of RA to my rheumatologist. Can any of you shed light on this? THanks for the previous replies; I've found this site really helpful. Adrienne from England. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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