Guest guest Posted June 20, 2001 Report Share Posted June 20, 2001 Joy, I worked as a case manager for pregnant women and moms in a drug and alcohol facility for four years. Then I went on disability. Now I'm working with at-risk teenagers and it does wipe me out. I'm going to a part-time office manager position and I hope I can do that well. Meg --- Joy wrote: <HR> <html><DIV> <P><FONT size=4>Meg</FONT></P> <P><FONT size=4>Welcome to the family, I work as the Weekend Manager at a drug and alcohol treatment center of women, and women with children under the age of six. It really wipes me out. & nbsp; If my job was any harder on my body I would have to quit. & nbsp; Most of the time all I have do do is think, listen, talk, and keep what every & nbsp; child that running down the hall from her/his mother form escaping. & nbsp; I get a lot of support from my partner, and the people on this list. Hope you find what I have here.</FONT></P> <P><FONT size=4>Joy</FONT></P></DIV><br clear=all><hr>Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at <a href= " http://explorer.msn.com " >http://explorer.msn.com</a><br></p> <br> <!-- |**|begin egp html banner|**| --> <table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=2> <tr bgcolor=#FFFFCC> <td align=center><font size= " -1 " color=#003399><b> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 20, 2001 Report Share Posted June 20, 2001 Meg, Teenagers!!!!! Now thats scary we have a teen program on site. No wonder your tired. I've been in recovery from alcoholism for 25 years, and the teens sure test my serenity. Joy From: Meg Reply-To: cfidsfms-friends To: cfidsfms-friends Subject: Re: NEW MEMBER Date: Wed, 20 Jun 2001 10:27:17 -0700 (PDT) Joy, I worked as a case manager for pregnant women and moms in a drug and alcohol facility for four years. Then I went on disability. Now I'm working with at-risk teenagers and it does wipe me out. I'm going to a part-time office manager position and I hope I can do that well. Meg --- Joy wrote: Meg Welcome to the family, I work as the Weekend Manager at a drug and alcohol treatment center of women, and women with children under the age of six. It really wipes me out. If my job was any harder on my body I would have to quit. Most of the time all I have do do is think, listen, talk, and keep what every child that running down the hall from her/his mother form escaping. I get a lot of support from my partner, and the people on this list. Hope you find what I have here. Joy clear=all> Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at href="http://explorer.msn.com">http://explorer.msn.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2005 Report Share Posted August 20, 2005 Dorothy I used to have this problem. It is so embarassing! There is only one way that I know that will reduce the cough & that is have the worst of the offending lobes removed surgically. I know that what I am saying will be unpopular but I have suffered from bronch from early childhood. I coughed my way through my childhood & adolesence & it made my life hell. I tried everything - postural drainage, antibiotics naturopathy even faith healing. Nothing helped except 2 lower lobectomies. Last year I was told by a specialist that that I should be dead or else much much sicker than I am. I am in my early 50s, work fulltime as a teacher & I have 2 adult children. None of this would have been achievable if I had not had surgery. Surgery is however out of fashion as a treatment option for bronch at the moment. I live in Melbourne Australia. As you live in the US, you are better off. There seem to be more drugs available & better treatment options there. In my experience, we are backward here in Australia in this area of medicine. I was denied access to a drug I needed desperately last year because I could not afford to pay for it. Cheers Theresadorothy_oakland wrote: Hi i just joined the group and of course I have bronch. I have had it since 1990 in both lungs all lobes. I live in the Bay AreaCalifornia. I would really like to know how some of you are coping with problems that seem to be getting worse for me lately. My cough just seems tobe getting worse and worse, even tho I have fewer active lung infections than I used to. I cough so much at work during meetings and on the phone that its becoming a nightmare. I always have a water bottlewith me and I use alot of cough drops but at this point its not helping. I end up disrupting meetings and dreading any time I have to be in one.I just joined a grief group since my mother died in January, and i amso worried about disrupting the group with my cough. I wanted to take a Spanish class at the local adult school but I am so scared ofcoughing through the class. At work I just got picked to be on the union negotiating team and I am in terror of ruining the entire negotiation sessions with my cough. Once it starts there is no way to stop it. do any of you have similar experiences and how do you handle it? thanks and looking forward to hearing from you soon.Keep well everyone. Theresa __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2005 Report Share Posted August 20, 2005 Hi Dorothy, Hello from Wisconsin. My coughing lessened quite a bit when I was finally treated with antibiotics for 10 days every month and Advair every day. I had a lobe removed 3 years ago and the coughing lessened even more but it’s not gone altogether. Now I only take antibiotics when I have an active infection. Surgery might not be an option for you, though, as all of your lobes are affected. I certainly know the cough drops and bottle of water routine—I used to think that cough drops must be one of the food groups. Have you had cultures done? Treating what’s really in your lungs can make a big difference. Barb new member Hi i just joined the group and of course I have bronch. I have had it since 1990 in both lungs all lobes. I live in the Bay Area California. I would really like to know how some of you are coping with problems that seem to be getting worse for me lately. My cough just seems to be getting worse and worse, even tho I have fewer active lung infections than I used to. I cough so much at work during meetings and on the phone that its becoming a nightmare. I always have a water bottle with me and I use alot of cough drops but at this point its not helping. I end up disrupting meetings and dreading any time I have to be in one. I just joined a grief group since my mother died in January, and i am so worried about disrupting the group with my cough. I wanted to take a Spanish class at the local adult school but I am so scared of coughing through the class. At work I just got picked to be on the union negotiating team and I am in terror of ruining the entire negotiation sessions with my cough. Once it starts there is no way to stop it. do any of you have similar experiences and how do you handle it? thanks and looking forward to hearing from you soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2005 Report Share Posted August 21, 2005 Hello from London Dorothy and welcome to the best support group in the world. I am sorry you are suffering so much, we all know what it's like. This is a big self help disease, there are lots of little things you can do which make a difference which doctors either don't know about or haven't time to tell you. Now your cough, I find Airwaves chewing gum very helpful if I need to speak on the phone or in a group, I know it looks awful to keep chewing gum but it does ease the irritation. I find I cough a lot when I have clogged lungs, which is a lot of the time. I use Saline in a nebuliser to break it up, Carbocisteine (Mucodyne) capsules which thin the mucus to help it cough up. Hot steamy showers, a massage pad, gentle walking to loosen everything. The clearer you can get those lungs the less you will cough. Frustrating thing is I go through all that and the next day I'm right back to square one and doing it all again. You just have to think of it as a beauty routine like washing your face, has to be done to keep on top of things. I have a portable nebuliser too so if I'm out and cough I have an instant lifeline to use. Really hope you can get on top of this, it is such an embarrassing thing to have. Have you had a CAT scan to see where your lungs are damaged? Welcome once again Regards from June > Hi i just joined the group and of course I have bronch. I have had it > since 1990 in both lungs all lobes. I live in the Bay Area > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2005 Report Share Posted August 21, 2005 Hi again June, and welcome Dorothy. You are so right June, for best results its a good idea to just get into the habit of doing things routinely. then at least you don,t have to quickly try and swing into action. We all have times when its the same thing day after day, but if its not infectious we can be armed to battle on, and confidently know you are ( we are) doing what usually helps, before we begin to panic, cos thats when things go sour. Panic, anxiety, just make us so much worse, and everyone then gets in a flap. LOL. Hugs Sandy Dorothy welcome to the best, most loving and supportive group on the net. Sandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2005 Report Share Posted August 22, 2005 (If I regularly dideverything I'm told I need to do to keep reasonably healthy, it wouldtake 24 hours a day, so I generally just deal with the biggest crisisof the day.) Vicki, That sounds like a good plan. I have the same feelings, especially since I have other health problems. You are not alone. Norma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2005 Report Share Posted August 22, 2005 Hello Vicki, with having bronch, asthma and all other things we all so often seem to have, its probably a good idea to get into the habit of doing things daily/ routinely. After a while, they just become another part of the day, take a bit of time, but that too will get easier and come natural to you as it becomes routine. I am asthmatic, have bronch, R/A , spinal tumor, bowel tumor( now) and lots of other things, like several others in the group. I just have to do my things routinely, to keep well. Except for pain, and stiffness etc, and the daily asthma, which I have chronically ( but totally under control) I keep infection free and muccous free etc now. Have been like that for about 8 yrs maybe a little longer. I have become overly allergic to all prescribed meds, and now a few foods. So I eat all there is that are natural anti biotics to assist in keeping the bugs away. I have been doing that all my life really, ( eating all the right, natural foods) but probably quadrupile my intake now, and have truly been infection free for ar least 8 yrs. Mind you even with all the right eating etc, I do suffer terribly, with pain, and beleve me there isn,t anything more naturally that i can take to ease the pain. I do take all naturals, oils , cartiladge etc, warm hot pads etc, but they all only lighten the pain, certainly don,t take it away at all. I just keep as active as I can, to assist me with pain and stiffness. I do breathing techs, drink heaps of water and teas, and use a lot of herbs and spices too. Those are all part of my daily ritual, and truly its so routine now, I do it without thinking and friends and family have adapted to my routine too, they either do as I do, or they have on hand teas , and cook with same things I do. Maybe I have converted them all, I used to carry my own herbal teas, a paper bag and of course my puffers, nebuliser etc. Now just cart around nebuliser, in the car,( portable one) and BP machine. But as i say its all just become routine, you will get used to it. Being part of this group will empower you like no other, over your health and getting to really know and understand your own self and body. This is a truly well informed group, and you will always find what you need here, along with lots of love and support. Must fly, keep well, Sandy from OZ. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2005 Report Share Posted August 23, 2005 Vicki and Barb, isn,t it great to be able to swap ideas, and information, I just think so many people miss out on learning so much from each other. lots of good money wasted in some cases. We are all on some kind of benefit, ot have our jobs part time etc, sometimes because of our ill health. And there are so many products, devises etc, that work and some that don,t. Just as some work okay for some and not for others, the trial and error with devises can be so costly. This is a wonderful site to find out more about anything you may be contemplating purchasing, then have the time and the info to weigh up the pros and cons. This cannot be done with meds etc, but it often can be a guide, and something to ask your doctors about too. What a great arena/ forum for sharing and again caring. Love to all Sandy from OZ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2005 Report Share Posted August 24, 2005 We had 23 people for lunch today. When I rang to ask how many were eating I was told between 9 & 11. You can imagine the hurried changes, nothing like being prepared. Like with the fish and loaves. LOL Had a wonderful day though, so many people desperate for help, company and acceptance. Your'e welcome anytime. LOL Sandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2005 Report Share Posted August 24, 2005 Sandy - I'm coming for dinner if I am ever in the neighborhood. Sounds great. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 11, 2006 Report Share Posted April 11, 2006 Hi Kay! I'm new tonight too. A little story: My dear mother had FM and arthritis...and judgmental me, I kept thinking that if she'd get out of that bed and outdoors once in a while...she'd feel better...in fact, I considered Fibromyalgia just a catch-all diagnosis doctors used when they couldn't figure what was really wrong. Mother's gone now and I believe I'm being taught a lesson in tolerance, for I'm the one in terrible, unrelenting pain. May God forgive me for being so quick to discount another's suffering. " Judge not, lest ye be judged. " Hugs, Midge Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2006 Report Share Posted April 19, 2006 HI I have had nerve pain in my left leg for over 3 years. My new Dr. said he would like me to try Lyrica b/c neurontin didn't work for me. He put me on a very low dose - 25 mg. 2X per day - and I have not had pain since!!! Where the pain was is now slightly numb - but I'll take that over pain anyday! New member Hi everyone and thanks for letting me join. I was dx Chiari Malformation in Dec 'o1 and had my decompression, laminectomy,duraplasty and a few other things done in Dec '02 in Toronto Ontarion. I live in Saskatchewan Canada. I have not improved and its been a long three and a half years. I finally took matters into my own hands and went to The Chiari Institute in New York last week. Wow ! What a positive experience that was !! Dr B dx me with tethered cord. I'm new to it so am learning all I can and welcome comments ok. Are there any Canadians on this site ? Regardless what Country you live in, I'm interested in hearing from you and how you've delt with the lower back & leg pain. I'm not handling it well and am wanting relief - if you have tips, I'm all ears !! I look forward to hearing from you and hearing your stories. Thanks, Mojo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2006 Report Share Posted April 19, 2006 Welcome Rach, We get it, we REALLY get it!! Unfortunately for most of us here, living with daily chronic pain is a way of life. Are you taking any meds to help with your CFS? I have Fibromylgia, bad back, arthritis in leg/ankle and cysts in shoulders, among other things. I take Lyrica (for nerve pain), Zanaflex (muscle relaxer), and Hydrocodone (when I have it or need it the most). There is a poem called Spoons that was circulating for awhile to help families/friends understand what we go through. Maybe someone can find it for you? Take care, Caitlin Ray wrote: Hi, My name is Rach. I was diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. I have chronic pain in many of my joints, which until recently I thought was a case of early onset arthritis. I joined this group because it is nice to know that there are people out there who truly get it. Most of my friends and family just don't understand that when I say I'm tired and in pain, I am really tired and really in pain. They just don't seem to get it. Is anyone else experiencing this with their families? If so is there any way to make them get it, short of collapsing, haha. Well I look forward to meeting many of you and as an early warning please excuse me if sometimes my message is a little muddled. I often experience what a lot of CFSers call Brain Fog. I'll try to stay coherent. Know someone who could benefit from our list? Send our direct sign-up URL: http://www.yahoogroups.com/subscribe.cgi/chronic_pain or write us at: chronic_pain-listowner Manage your subscription with the following email addresses: chronic_pain-owner - Sends email to the list owners chronic_pain-subscribe - Subscribe to the list through email chronic_pain-unsubscribe - Unsubscribe from the list chronic_pain-normal - Switch your subscription to normal chronic_pain-digest - Switch your subscription to digest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2006 Report Share Posted April 19, 2006 Hi, I go by Rach. Ray is just for short. So far I have not been able to handle anything sufficient enough to take care of the pain. I have had the normal range of stuff prescribed but because of tolerance issues everything I take just causes me to be sick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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