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Hey Roslyn,

Nice work - are you going to post some inquiries around these beliefs?

Jon

>

> I am annoyed with mary because she is not forgiving me

> for calling her mom

> I want mary to not be so angry and intense

>

> mary should be forgiving

> mary shouldnt be too sensitive

>

> i need mary to forgive me

>

> MAry is funny, intense , angry, very intelligent

> vindictive , closed minded. picky , critical

> creative.

>

> I dont ever want to lose a friend.

>

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I think the one i believe the most is

mary should not be so sensitive.

is it true yes

absolutley true no

can i know what is best for her or my path no

how do i react i blame her for being mad.

im critical

i see her as flawed and i am also critical of myself.

I think what i did was stupid but not so bad.

i rationalize I thought it was a good idea to call

her mom.. even though she said not to.

without the thought

i would accept her feelings

and not regret it.

TA should be so sensitive

people should express how they feel

sensitive is a good quality also

I wouldnt want her to lie

Ta i should not be so sensitive

about marys reaction

about not expressing my own feelings

having hurt feelings over dumb stuff in my childhood

TA mary should be more sensitive of others

understanding most people arent so evolved

allowing people to make mistakes

allow people to have stories.

Ta I should be more sensitive to mary

I did take another phone call when she asked me not to

I can be rude and self centered at times.

i should accept others views and not be so much of a know it all

>

> I am annoyed with mary because she is not forgiving me

> for calling her mom

> I want mary to not be so angry and intense

>

> mary should be forgiving

> mary shouldnt be too sensitive

>

> i need mary to forgive me

>

> MAry is funny, intense , angry, very intelligent

> vindictive , closed minded. picky , critical

> creative.

>

> I dont ever want to lose a friend.

>

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HI,

I was out of town and did not see your original message regarding phoning 's

mother. Did anyone point out that you were completely out of your business and

in hers at that time? Rather than judging , how about looking at your

behaviour? Again, if this is redundant I apologize.

Vivian

Re: judging mary

I think the one i believe the most is

mary should not be so sensitive.

is it true yes

absolutley true no

can i know what is best for her or my path no

how do i react i blame her for being mad.

im critical

i see her as flawed and i am also critical of myself.

I think what i did was stupid but not so bad.

i rationalize I thought it was a good idea to call

her mom.. even though she said not to.

without the thought

i would accept her feelings

and not regret it.

TA should be so sensitive

people should express how they feel

sensitive is a good quality also

I wouldnt want her to lie

Ta i should not be so sensitive

about marys reaction

about not expressing my own feelings

having hurt feelings over dumb stuff in my childhood

TA mary should be more sensitive of others

understanding most people arent so evolved

allowing people to make mistakes

allow people to have stories.

Ta I should be more sensitive to mary

I did take another phone call when she asked me not to

I can be rude and self centered at times.

i should accept others views and not be so much of a know it all

>

> I am annoyed with mary because she is not forgiving me

> for calling her mom

> I want mary to not be so angry and intense

>

> mary should be forgiving

> mary shouldnt be too sensitive

>

> i need mary to forgive me

>

> MAry is funny, intense , angry, very intelligent

> vindictive , closed minded. picky , critical

> creative.

>

> I dont ever want to lose a friend.

>

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Nice work Roslyn - so where are you now with this?

Any other thoughts or beliefs about or anyone else you want to

inquire into?

Jon

> >

> > I am annoyed with mary because she is not forgiving me

> > for calling her mom

> > I want mary to not be so angry and intense

> >

> > mary should be forgiving

> > mary shouldnt be too sensitive

> >

> > i need mary to forgive me

> >

> > MAry is funny, intense , angry, very intelligent

> > vindictive , closed minded. picky , critical

> > creative.

> >

> > I dont ever want to lose a friend.

> >

>

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> Roslyn's projection is having a birthday in two days - are you

sure? :-)

You're right Jon, reailty is it's just the anniversary of my birth

:P

Unless every moment begins anew

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Hey ,

What I meant was that the person Roslyn is judging / projecting onto

is one thing, even if it appears to be you - you and your birthday is

another.

One thing about birthdays does puzzle me though - why the person that

is born on that day makes such a big deal out of it when they probably

don't remember anything about it - surely it's the parents that could

do with the celebrating, especially the woman (or man, in the case of

the guy in Oregon) that gave birth - seems like that would be more

memorable.

Much love,

Jon

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im fine with this.. I hope mary will stay at my

house when she comes to visit her parents..

but i also hope she wont get mad at me.

could happen..

Also mary might make me question my stories..

and i dont think i want to often. rh . -

-- In Loving-what-is , " Jon " wrote:

>

> Nice work Roslyn - so where are you now with this?

>

> Any other thoughts or beliefs about or anyone else you want to

> inquire into?

>

> Jon

>

>

> > >

> > > I am annoyed with mary because she is not forgiving me

> > > for calling her mom

> > > I want mary to not be so angry and intense

> > >

> > > mary should be forgiving

> > > mary shouldnt be too sensitive

> > >

> > > i need mary to forgive me

> > >

> > > MAry is funny, intense , angry, very intelligent

> > > vindictive , closed minded. picky , critical

> > > creative.

> > >

> > > I dont ever want to lose a friend.

> > >

> >

>

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