Re: Inquiry (Leanna) / Cindi

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Hi Cindi,

Yes, 3 examples for each turnaround - or even more if you really want

- sometimes I can't find 3 - sometimes I don't want to :-)

Using the example of " He should undestand me " , the turnaround of " He

shouldn't understand me " can be looked at in terms of 3 examples of

the reality and also why it is better that he doesn't understand you.

For the others, I should understand him/me, finding 3 examples of

where you aren't understanding of yourself and him.

The examples tend to help bring it back to reality and for me also

expose my 'blind spots' about myself - if I think they should

understand me, can I understand their viewpoint first of all.

Jon

>

>

> I am sort of familiar with the Work. I've watched a bunch of the

> videos...read a lot of the stuff online. I've done the work a few

times on a

> situation. I went to the link you posted and read " the directions "

again. When she

> says to find at least 3 examples for each turnaround does that mean

for

> instance---in one of the examples she uses.... " He should understand

me " turns around

> to:

> - He shouldn't understand me. (This is reality.)

> - I should understand him.

> - I should understand myself.

>

> I would need to find 3 examples of " he shouldn't understand me " and 3

> examples of " I should understand him " ? Is that what she means?

>

> Cindi......