Guest guest Posted November 29, 2008 Report Share Posted November 29, 2008 In a message dated 11/30/2008 4:10:38 AM Central Standard Time, jon@... writes: If you don't know how to do this, this page gives a good example of how to do that: http://thework.com/thework.asp#howto You've already done the first step. Find what works for you - some people take every statement through the 4 questions and turnarounds, for me I usually take one or two through the process fully, by then I'm usually open enough to look at just the turnarounds for the others. If you want to share some of your inquiries on here, do that - and you don't have to. Jon I am sort of familiar with the Work. I've watched a bunch of the videos...read a lot of the stuff online. I've done the work a few times on a situation. I went to the link you posted and read " the directions " again. When she says to find at least 3 examples for each turnaround does that mean for instance---in one of the examples she uses.... " He should understand me " turns around to: - He shouldn't understand me. (This is reality.) - I should understand him. - I should understand myself. I would need to find 3 examples of " he shouldn't understand me " and 3 examples of " I should understand him " ? Is that what she means? Cindi...... **************Life should be easier. So should your homepage. Try the NEW AOL.com. (http://www.aol.com/?optin=new-dp & icid=aolcom40vanity & ncid=emlcntaolcom00000002) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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