he'll love me if i have sex with him

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he'll love me if i have sex with him

1, no

3, i try and get him to love me by having sex, i use sex to control

him, i use sex to try and get him to want me, i use sex to manipulate

him and try and feel good about myself,

I treat him as an object to be owned, i don't really care about him

just thinking about what he can give me, i don't care about what he

wants, too busy trying to get what i want by using my body.

i become his yes woman, i say yes even when i'm not turned on,

because i'm so desperate to get him to love me.

i put all my wants on the shelf, i don't say no, i sell myself out, i

become the love godess.

i get to believe i can manipulate love from him and no it's never

worked in the past. i get to believe if i twist myslf into a pretzel

that in some way he'll love me.

4, i can't say who i'd be without this thought, i can't say that i

wouldn't want to have sex with him but maybe i'd be doing it more

because i want to rather than because i want to get something from

him, and i'd also have the opportinity to say No that doesn't feel

right right now so i'd be more in the moment, asking myself if it

felt right for me rather than feeling desperate.

So less desperate, needy, less wanting to please him, maybe being

really open about what we might be entering into.

i wouldn't be projecting that he just wants me for sex because i

wouldn't be using my sexuality to try and get something from him.

Maybe we would just have a beautiful friendship.

T.A he won't love me if i have sex with him.

1, no it certainly hasn't made him any closer

2, he still dumped me even though we had great sex

3, maybe he will just think i'm easy and a bit stupid if i have sex

with him

T.A I won't love me if i have sex with him

1, no not when i'm doing it to try and win his love

2, i don't love me and i get suspicious of him as well because i

think he just wants to fuck me

3, no i don't love or like myself because i'm selling myself out for

L.A.A

T.A I will love me if I have sex with me

1, yes if i turn all that energy i keep putting out there on him and

focus it on me then I think I might just love myself

2, I can learn to pleasure myself without needing a man to do it and

i mean pleasure in more than one way.

3, i'll love me if i have sex with me by just really loving myself up

and not looking for an outside source.

T.A I won't love me if i have sex with me

1, yes when i use sex or mastibation to move away from my feelings i

don't like me

2, when i use mastabation as a way or avoiding my mind.

T.A i will loove me if i have sex with him

1, if i just have sex with him, accepting him for who he is and have

no expectation of him loving me.

2, if i'm completely crazy about myself and have sex with him then it

wouldn't matter what he thought and then i wonder if i'd want to have

sex with him or not anyway.

Ok i'D love feedback or any other turnarounds or just insights into

where other peoples minds go with these turnarounds

blessings

pipxx