Wife was in secretive contact with old friend.....

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My wife was in email and phone contact with a guy she went to high

school with and for 2 months before I found out. She would call him

15min after I would leave for work and talk for an hour or two a few

times a week. So I find out, theres a big blow up, emails several

times a week on her work email. She totally drops contact with him.

(?) So now since he was a supposed good friend me and him have been

emailing back and forth and getting to know each other a little. He is

in Iraq with the army and is married with one very young child. I

don't think his wife knows what was going on. Do I contact her or let

it takes it course. Any advice would be helpful, I keep finding myself

searching for information on him and his wife and it's driving me

insane. My marriage has become much better but since but I can't seem

to get over it.