Re: For any of you who where hurt by me

[Guest guest]

>

> I want to say I am sorry

Tami,

I only have good thoughts and feelings when you come to mind. I guess

that means I have a good story of you.

>

> I just found out a few weeks ago

> that I have this " thing " that has a name " bio-polar " something

>

I love polar bears, so if you are bi-polar, that probably means you are

half polar bear, thus I like you even more because of it.

Actually, come to think of it, I think I am bi-polar too.

Bi-polar

[Guest guest]

thank you for your love

good to know that the work sometimes works :-)

To be able to let go a stressful story

WOW, that is such a gift

it means that you dont need others to change for you to be happy

Question:

do you always have such success doing the work?

are there any areas that you have stresful thoughts

that steak around, inspite you are doing the work?

T

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>

> >

> > I want to say I am sorry

> >

> > I just found out a few weeks ago

> > that I have this " thing " that has a name " bio-polar " something

> >

> > It means that I all the time go between the 2 edges:

> >

> > one moment I am high the other I am down

> > and I used to have non-conformist behaviur here

> > (as well as everywhere else)

> >

> > So, I dont ask you to aprove of me,

> > cause I still dont care of what other people think of me

> > YET

> > I want to say I am sorry if I hurt you

> >

> > Tami

> >

>

> Yo! Tami! Hey girl! Wassup?? I love ya lady, especially since I did

> that worksheet on you a year ago. *muah!*

>

> Take care, hon, and big hugs and kisses to you...

>

> Hypegia

>

[Guest guest]

Tami.. i was glad to hear from you..

katie says we only hurt ourselves..

I never thought you hurt anyone.

I did think some people were hard on you

however..my story. i guess.

whats wrong with non conformity.???

what ever happened to that guy you liked.

neo john or something.

life is so boring when people conform..

love, roslyn -

-- In Loving-what-is , " Tami " wrote:

>

> I want to say I am sorry

>

> I just found out a few weeks ago

> that I have this " thing " that has a name " bio-polar " something

>

> It means that I all the time go between the 2 edges:

>

> one moment I am high the other I am down

> and I used to have non-conformist behaviur here

> (as well as everywhere else)

>

> So, I dont ask you to aprove of me,

> cause I still dont care of what other people think of me

> YET

> I want to say I am sorry if I hurt you

>

> Tami

>

[Guest guest]

i think everyones bi polar but especially people

who label people bi polar.. as they are projecting

on others the traits they also possess..

your fine tami..

its my story.. roslyn

> >

> > I want to say I am sorry

>

> Tami,

> I only have good thoughts and feelings when you come to mind. I guess

> that means I have a good story of you.

> >

> > I just found out a few weeks ago

> > that I have this " thing " that has a name " bio-polar " something

> >

> I love polar bears, so if you are bi-polar, that probably means you are

> half polar bear, thus I like you even more because of it.

>

> Actually, come to think of it, I think I am bi-polar too.

>

> Bi-polar

>

[Guest guest]

>

> thank you for your love

> good to know that the work sometimes works :-)

>

You're welcome.

> To be able to let go a stressful story

> WOW, that is such a gift

> it means that you dont need others to change for you to be happy

>

Exactly. It's so nice to get to that point of understanding within myself.

> Question:

> do you always have such success doing the work?

> are there any areas that you have stresful thoughts

> that steak around, inspite you are doing the work?

>

I still struggle with not wanting to let go of some stressful

thoughts. I realize that it's not a failure of the work but a failure

of me wanting to bring those issues to the work because I don't want

to let them go just yet. With those issues, it's really about me not

wanting to give up my dream in the face of reality like a two-year old

not wanting to give up their grip on something the parent won't let

her have. In a weird way, I'm ok with having that tension because I

find when something stresses me out to the point where I just don't

want to deal with it anymore is the time when I'm willing to do the

work on it.

Sooo.... I think the answer to your question is that I'm confident

that the work works, but that I don't always want to do the work. And,

yes, I passed through a time where I wasn't confident in the work to

handle all my issues. I consistently find that to not be true as long

as I take the time to really answer the questions honestly until I

feel I've hit upon a revelation/Truth that was blind to me up to that

point. I think many give up on the work before that point and then

become frustrated with the work itself.

It takes work...

Love you, lady. Glad to see you are still here with us.

Hypegia