my happiness depends on having a relationship

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1, yes

2, no i was happy today, no relationship in sight

3, I focus all my energy on something external, I feel sad and when I

think about the fact that I don't have a relationship I picture myself

as always being unhappy. I see men as objects to be owned, or

controlled. when I'm in a relationship I desperately try to hang onto

it. I don't leave relationships that are painful, I stay with guys who

just are not into me. I don't walk away and say thanks buddy and no

thanks for now.

I get to believe the little girl fantasy, I get to believe that things

will get better when someone loves me. I get a future. any thing else

anyone can see for what I get?

I'm in the relationships business

4, happy, carefree, enjoying my life now, peaceful, not thinking i'm

fucked up, present, noticing all the relationships i do have in my

life, with friends, employers, strangers.

T.A My happiness depends on having a relationship with myself

1, truer I am learning to love my feelings even the sad ones

2, I was happy today and I was pretty much alone and by myself

3, yes the relationship I have with myself is pretty much the

relationship i will have with someone else.

T.A My sadness depends on having a relationship

1, certainly has seemed that way in the past

2, yes because i can blame the other person for my feelings and what i

think about myself

3,I believe that all my relationships have made me feel sad at points

even the ones that I broke off.

4, I feel addicted to feeling sad and looking for L.A.A in a relationship

T.A My happiness doesn't depend on having a relationship.

1, I was very happy to go out and play with my friends on saturday night

2, I had a great day yesterday dancing, going to the beach and having

dinner with new friends

3, I had a great day today doing the work, going to work, and walking

on the bveach, all on my own =)

4, I'm not in a relationship!