Guest guest Posted September 30, 2008 Report Share Posted September 30, 2008 hey pip, that's some amazing work you'v done, thank you for sharing it. it really touched me, i can relate to the line of thinking where " this is who i am without a girlfriend " (in my case), yes it does seem life is worse without the girl, good stuff to inquire and realize once and for all, what is all that shit.. after all i am me in the relationship where im feeling so good in .. its me that is feeling it, should be logical that i will be the same me wherever. and life is better when having a girlfriend even when she's not her at the moment.. which is simply not logical.. can't be. and i was always curious as to this phenomena where we'r atrrackted and love the one who doesn't need us. and you investigate and touch those stuff for all of us who are not byron katie yet. one thing i wanna share with you which i realized with my breakup, because it seemed that she took it very easily, i didn't want to feel less than.. so iv decided im over her too quickly .. and that she doesn't deserve my loving or longing.. and life was shit.. i was this empty person seeking something.. addicting.. and one day it just came out of me - " i simply miss her " . and i allowed this to be .. and i thought i love her .. im not going to get together with her, no way.. but i will allow myself missing her and allow myself to feel the sadness and be close to myself in that sense. and that felt.... better.. there was no stress in this ... and with the ressisting to it .. was. well.. thats all. bye. > > > > Nice work Pip. > > > > Are there are any other beliefs that you have about Lindsi? > > > > With love, > > > > Jon > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 30, 2008 Report Share Posted September 30, 2008 I treat myself as if there is something wrong with me. What a light bulb moment I had when I read this. Leanna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2008 Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 -Hi Facy, Thanks for that yes I think I'm finally getting the point that all of this is my experience, How can I possibly get someone else to validate that for me. It's impossible and all my life i've looked to other people for how i should think and feel and fially now in all this Im realizing that I don't need it from someone else at all , Just from my own sweet self... coming home.. Also realizing that wanting someone else to feel as much pain as I am feeling is ot love, it's my ego again looking for approval.. And i'm so over trying to convince someone i'm lovable, so here i am crying, sometimes, feeling depressed sometimes, laughing sometimes and being ok with me how ever i show up and sometimes that leaves me feeling raw and exposed and yet i'm willing to feel that ! much love to you facy xxpipxx -- In Loving-what-is , " facy102 " wrote: > > hey pip, > that's some amazing work you'v done, thank you for sharing it. > it really touched me, i can relate to the line of thinking where " this > is who i am without a girlfriend " (in my case), yes it does seem life > is worse without the girl, good stuff to inquire and realize once and > for all, what is all that shit.. after all i am me in the relationship > where im feeling so good in .. its me that is feeling it, should be > logical that i will be the same me wherever. > and life is better when having a girlfriend even when she's not her at > the moment.. which is simply not logical.. can't be. > and i was always curious as to this phenomena where we'r atrrackted > and love the one who doesn't need us. and you investigate and touch > those stuff for all of us who are not byron katie yet. > > one thing i wanna share with you which i realized with my breakup, > because it seemed that she took it very easily, i didn't want to feel > less than.. so iv decided im over her too quickly .. and that she > doesn't deserve my loving or longing.. and life was shit.. i was this > empty person seeking something.. addicting.. and one day it just came > out of me - " i simply miss her " . > and i allowed this to be .. and i thought i love her .. im not going > to get together with her, no way.. but i will allow myself missing her > and allow myself to feel the sadness and be close to myself in that sense. > and that felt.... better.. there was no stress in this ... and with > the ressisting to it .. was. > well.. thats all. > bye. > > > > > > > > Nice work Pip. > > > > > > Are there are any other beliefs that you have about Lindsi? > > > > > > With love, > > > > > > Jon > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2008 Report Share Posted October 3, 2008 and how lovable you seem to be right now. much love, jon > > > > > > > > Nice work Pip. > > > > > > > > Are there are any other beliefs that you have about Lindsi? > > > > > > > > With love, > > > > > > > > Jon > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2012 Report Share Posted January 25, 2012 Dede, It strikes me, I either get out of bed or I don't. I don't seem to have a choice in the matter. But, I wake up and start telling stories that I have to face the day. That feels painful. Why would I have to face a day? I am already upset and angry and frustrated, because my day isn't going to be the way I project it should be. For me, there is a lot of The Work to be done: I have to face the day. The day is going to be stressful, painful, whatever. My life sucks. My life is drudgery. My life is all work and no play. I hate my life. My life should be easier. People should help me with my life. My path to happiness and peace should be clear. Wow, Thanks for what you wrote. It stimulated a lot of stuff for me to work on. Steve imtheslaw@... > how do you get out of bed each morning to face another day ... any > suggestions appreciated > > > > ------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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