Guest guest Posted June 21, 2008 Report Share Posted June 21, 2008 Hey there Tami, Soulmate is an interesting concept - implies there is a person or persons that are more suitable for us than others. I thought I had met my soulmate - and she gave me the perfect gift by leaving - although I don't always see it that way :-) So perhaps you have the perfect soulmate right now - you with no boyfriend, the soulmate for you to learn to love. Other possible turnarounds: My thinking will never find my soulmate - when it is looking to outside for love, appreciation, approval, etc. I will always find my soulmate - with soulmate being the current situation I am in, whatever that is - the soulmate/situation that I can learn from. Jon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 22, 2008 Report Share Posted June 22, 2008 I think it was katie who said there are billions of soul mates.. because we are all soul mates. we are actually one.. i think it can be proven scientifivally now but i cant say how.. love, roslyn > > I broke up with my boyfriend > > Now, I am single > and I have a stresful thought that: > > I will never find my " soulmate " > > (I am interested in one man who lives abroud > so until he makes a move I dont consider him as an option) > > I will never find my soulmate > IS THAT TRUE?????? > > I dont know, maybe I will meet him soon > > How do I react? > I feel sad and despair > I see myself alone all my life > I see myself as a failure > > WHO WOULD I BE? > I will be calm, not worried > peaceful > I will be present at the present > > > I will never find my " soulmate " > > TA > > I will find my " soulmate " > a. Could be true > > I will find me > a. true, now I can be more focused at myself > > Please coments > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2008 Report Share Posted June 23, 2008 Hi > I think it was who said there are billions of > soul mates.. Because we are all soul mates. ye ye, and will you marry everyone? Every person is possibility for self realization, when he pushes my button, I KNOW THAT!!!!!!! Please don't take me literally when I say soul mate When I say soul mate I mean: A person I would want to marry, ROMANTICLY Please don't give me the TALK! T > we are actually one.. I think it can be proven scientifivally > now but i cant say how.. > > love, Roslyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2008 Report Share Posted June 23, 2008 I'm not giving you the talk, it's my talk, with some of the stuff from that makes sense to me. We are married to everyone and everything, we just don't realize it most of the time (or don't like it!). Married to reality, that's the one that ends suffering, not some other person. Of course, I'm writing all of this to myself Tami, not you :-) With love, Jon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2008 Report Share Posted June 23, 2008 > I'm not giving you the talk, it's my talk, with some of the > stuff from that makes sense to me. > > We are married to everyone and everything, we just don't realize it > most of the time (or don't like it!). > > Married to reality, that's the one that ends suffering, not some other > person. > > Of course, I'm writing all of this to myself Tami, not you :-) I know, you need to hear that and it is a peaceful place to be married to what is I am not there, and I do have preferences I want to marry a man, and I am afraid I will not find him, T > > With love, > > Jon > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2008 Report Share Posted June 23, 2008 Cool - well that statement can be inquired into, if you want to: I want to marry a man Also maybe get at the fears - you could do this by filling in: if I don't marry (or find) my soulmate then.... I will be unhappy my life will be unfulfilled I will have failed no-one will look after me when I am older i will never feel loved just some examples that I can think of that I have believed or can sometimes believe :-) Another way is to look at what you believe you will have when you find / marry your soulmate - and inquire into those. And thank you for reminding me that when my preferences aren't in line with reality, I suffer. My preferences often aren't, so I suffer! With love, Jon x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2008 Report Share Posted June 23, 2008 Hey Tami, I didn't answer your question about marrying everyone - but, I've been married twice, so I'm working on it - it could take me a while though :-) With love, Jon > > Hi > > > I think it was who said there are billions of > > soul mates.. Because we are all soul mates. > > ye ye, and will you marry everyone? > Every person is possibility for self realization, when he pushes my > button, I KNOW THAT!!!!!!! > > Please don't take me literally when I say soul mate > When I say soul mate I mean: > A person I would want to marry, ROMANTICLY > > Please don't give me the TALK! > > T > > > > > we are actually one.. I think it can be proven scientifivally > > now but i cant say how.. > > > > love, Roslyn > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 what would you have if you had a romantic parnter.??? is there security in that? rh- -- In Loving-what-is , " Tami " wrote: > > Hi > > > I think it was who said there are billions of > > soul mates.. Because we are all soul mates. > > ye ye, and will you marry everyone? > Every person is possibility for self realization, when he pushes my > button, I KNOW THAT!!!!!!! > > Please don't take me literally when I say soul mate > When I say soul mate I mean: > A person I would want to marry, ROMANTICLY > > Please don't give me the TALK! > > T > > > > > we are actually one.. I think it can be proven scientifivally > > now but i cant say how.. > > > > love, Roslyn > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 Hi Roslyn I'll play with this one, see what's here for me: I'd have someone that loved me unconditionally I'd have someone that was always going to look after me I'd have someone that loved me more than I love myself (ooh - ouch!) I'd have someone that laughed at my jokes I'd have someone to cuddle up to in bed I'd have someone to listen to me when I don't feel good Hmmm, as has said previously, skip the middle(wo)man :-) With love and thanks, Jon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 ive heard katie say the love of your life is found when you look in a mirror.. or something like that.. My husband and i both flunked the test.. somtimes he is annoyed with me.. often he sides with the kids not me. he doesnt think im funny he doesnt cuddle and sometimes he doesnt listen. and vice versa.. its really hopeless..and i think when one realizes that.. its okay .. love, roslyn -- In Loving-what-is , " Jon " wrote: > > Hi Roslyn > > I'll play with this one, see what's here for me: > > I'd have someone that loved me unconditionally > I'd have someone that was always going to look after me > I'd have someone that loved me more than I love myself (ooh - ouch!) > I'd have someone that laughed at my jokes > I'd have someone to cuddle up to in bed > I'd have someone to listen to me when I don't feel good > > Hmmm, as has said previously, skip the middle(wo)man :-) > > With love and thanks, > > Jon > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 Dear Tami, > > I broke up with my boyfriend > > Now, I am single > and I have a stresful thought that: > > I will never find my " soulmate " > > (I am interested in one man who lives abroud > so until he makes a move I dont consider him as an option) > > I will never find my soulmate > IS THAT TRUE?????? Is it like you will never find your soulmate, or is it more like now that you have found him, he isn't available? in the latter, I'd inquire into: he's my soulmate Is that true? What are the charakteristics of a soulmate? How do you treat other men, if you think that one is your soulmate? How do you treat yourself, when you believe he should be your soulmate? And if it was the prior, we'll go on here: > I dont know, maybe I will meet him soon How does that feel? Could it be as true? You won't meet him, as long as you believe you have one in another place. Or you would meet him, and you wouldn't notice... How do I know you are my soulmate? You are the one in front of me. Now. > How do I react? > I feel sad and despair > I see myself alone all my life > I see myself as a failure Sounds lonely. You go into the future. Who does that leave with you, now? What is a failure? What are your ... qualifications? Make a list. What if you got one of the things on the list done, tomorrow? Would you still have been a failure, yesterday? And how would that change your life, today? > WHO WOULD I BE? > I will be calm, not worried > peaceful > I will be present at the present With you. Home. > I will never find my " soulmate " > > TA > > I will find my " soulmate " > a. Could be true > I will find me > a. true, now I can be more focused at myself > > Please coments Sounds good. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2008 Report Share Posted June 26, 2008 Dear Tami, > > Hi > > > I think it was who said there are billions of > > soul mates.. Because we are all soul mates. > > ye ye, and will you marry everyone? what for? > Every person is possibility for self realization, when he pushes my > button, I KNOW THAT!!!!!!! > Please don't take me literally when I say soul mate > When I say soul mate I mean: Please, do take yourself literally. List your soulmate criteria. How do you know you have met your soulmate? > A person I would want to marry, ROMANTICLY How do you know you are married to someone? Just the engagement ring? Memory? Get a break. > Please don't give me the TALK! > > T It's not that much talk, if you know what to listen to. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2008 Report Share Posted June 27, 2008 > Dear Tami, Dear A You are such a sweet person Not to mention inspiring one > > Hi > > ye ye, and will you marry everyone? > what for? > > > Every person is possibility for self realization, when he pushes my > > button, I KNOW THAT!!!!!!! > > > Please don't take me literally when I say soul mate > > When I say soul mate I mean: > Please, do take yourself literally. List your soul mate criteria. How > do you know you have met your soul mate? That is simple, I had 2 soul mates my entire life: You and " Z " Clearly, it is not about him It is totally about me: How I feel when I am around him or when I think of him With you, it is the knowing that if we will be together I will love you no matter what I will be in state of mind of gratefulnace for sharing my life with you it makes ME feel good I am not that loving person at all, and with you - I am! Wonna cheat on me? I can be presnt with you as you cheath, (And I might not be there, if I never been that way with anyone So I define you as my soulmate, and I cannot know for sure if it is the truth it feels more like a story > > > A person I would want to marry, ROMANTICLY > How do you know you are married to someone? Just the engagement ring? Yes, a ring would be the sign > Memory? Ha? > Get a break. Give me a break > > Please don't give me the TALK! > > > > T > It's not that much talk, if you know what to listen to. Have I ever told you how much I love you and adore you? > > Love, > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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