To scared of getting bashed to speak my mind...

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Hope this is ok for me to be here on this sight, if not tell me to go

to hell and leave. And I will, with my tail between my legs. I

haven't done the book the works, just been swimming around all of you

and the web sight. It's nice to have people to talk to that support

your every move and thought. I talked to an old employee, I used to

work with years ago,I was so excited to see someone I knew.

I had started over in my third marriage and I have a beautiful little

girl from this third marriage. Talking about my second marriage to

kate and she knows . I think she has been talking to him, he

comes into the store where she works and I haven't seen her in

awhile. But what blew me away was that we talked about how his

responsibilities and his drinking problem. She says to me " You knew

what you were getting yourself into " That is the understatment of the

year.It really bothered me and still does.Because she deosn't

understand what I went through.

I want to say something to her other than what I said was, " Yes we

partied,but it doesn't mean he can be releaved from responsibilities

to your family and your job. Somebody tell me, should I say something

to her or should I let it go.I don't have anyone around here that I

hang out with and I figure that this is why it is bothering me so

much. Thankyou to anyone that takes up there time to write me.

Barbara:)