Re: I should love myself / Vivian's posting

[Guest guest]

Vivian / everyone,

Just been thinking about your posting some more.

If we are feeling stress as a result of what others are saying or

doing in the group, we can inquire into it, if that feels right.

This can include any stress we feel about how others should do the

work, how we believe they should be, anything at all, even that they

should do the work on ....... .

(Or, in the case of nne's posting, possible stress we might feel

about annoying or upsetting others)

It's an opportunity to inquire into beliefs that we are holding (or

that are holding us, more likely), which are being projected onto the

group / members of the group (including projected onto Vivian, me or

anyone else).

An opportunity, not a requirement :-)

And I can't know if you (Vivian) are feeling any stress around what's

happening in the group - it's possible to guess at it from what people

say, but can't ever know for sure - and even if you are, what you say

is still valid.

With thanks,

Jon