The work is changing me

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i really feel it's effect.

let's start with the fact that i have sort of a new girlfriend.. those

of you who have had the chance of reading my posts probebly know how

unbelievable is this for me.

and i do give the credit to the process i'v had with the work, cause i

find myself behaving and thinking differently with her than i used to

with girls in the same situations.

im much more relaxed all the time.. less dramatical or aproaval

seeking, i dont try to define us for my security.. sometime i do have

the thoughts like " she will do it with someone else " or " i will lose

her " or stuff like that .. but i catch it right on and i realize it's

only a thought.. and that i will probebly be just fine without her,

the worst that could happen is that ill do the work and gain from it.

but for now.. it's going well .. the funny thing is that she's far

from being " the one " , who knows.. but she's very different from me and

not a girl i'v imagened being with.. but i find myself in such a state

of flawness that i dont care or try to control it.. and i do have fun.

it could allways be though that im happy because i have her so

everything is seeing positivly .. but i'd like to believe that the

work does have something to do with it.

cheers.

[Guest guest]

Cool stuff Facy - congratulations - and as BK said on her blog

recently " The Work doesn't help anyone; it's your answers that help you. "

So well done, it's your answers that are changing you :-)

>

> i really feel it's effect.

> let's start with the fact that i have sort of a new girlfriend.. those

> of you who have had the chance of reading my posts probebly know how

> unbelievable is this for me.

> and i do give the credit to the process i'v had with the work, cause i

> find myself behaving and thinking differently with her than i used to

> with girls in the same situations.

> im much more relaxed all the time.. less dramatical or aproaval

> seeking, i dont try to define us for my security.. sometime i do have

> the thoughts like " she will do it with someone else " or " i will lose

> her " or stuff like that .. but i catch it right on and i realize it's

> only a thought.. and that i will probebly be just fine without her,

> the worst that could happen is that ill do the work and gain from it.

> but for now.. it's going well .. the funny thing is that she's far

> from being " the one " , who knows.. but she's very different from me and

> not a girl i'v imagened being with.. but i find myself in such a state

> of flawness that i dont care or try to control it.. and i do have fun.

> it could allways be though that im happy because i have her so

> everything is seeing positivly .. but i'd like to believe that the

> work does have something to do with it.

> cheers.

>