Guest guest Posted July 9, 2008 Report Share Posted July 9, 2008 , I am restraining myself here from letting you have it full force as I realize you weren't here at the beginning, and this is you, being blunt. However, you don't have the " whole picture. " You have not been on this journey as we, 's ASPIRES family have. I really don't want to bad-mouth 's ex here - also always did stress some of his good qualities along with her frustrations. But unlike the AS male members on this list here such as yourself, 's and Larry's partnership was NOT about shared responsibility on any level at all. 's ex was also atypical of many AS, because most AS men are loyal and monogamous. Most AS are honest to a fault - just like you, . But none of these things were a case for 's ex!! He had grown up with severe family dysfunction and had learned highly undesirable survival skills from that experience. Though he had his good points, I'm sure, he was NOT committed to the marriage in any way, and some of his behaviors put his wife's health at risk if you catch my drift. And some of the stunts he pulled bordered on fraud - no, let me re-phrase that - were outright, indictable fraud. went back to work for the survival of the family, so there would be a place for children and grandchildren and her " adopted " grandchildren, to come to after the inevitable happened. And believe me it would have happened whether took a job or not. She was wise to look out for her children and herself! - Helen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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