Re:Weekly Update on Lewyville Ride...

[Guest guest]

Jannis,

" Frozen inside " is a perfect description, but I think his wanting to be with

siblings may be a good thing. His grief may be easier to handle with older

people.

Right now is a terrible time to be making decisions, and he may change his

mind, but he has a plan, and arguing against it will just make you both crazy at

this point.

I never would have been able to convince my dad any idea of his was not a good

one.

I don't know how many miles are between you and your dad's hometown, but I do

know fighting right now is counterproductive.

See if you can go with a " we'll see " fiblet for the present.

We are all so tired on the ride that things seem bigger than they are.

Just keep swimming, just keep swimming!

Love,

Carol

Caregave for mother-in-law(age 81) who was the third of three sisters to die of

LBD.