this can all be stressful enough

[Guest guest]

I cant deal with even reading the posts lately,

can we caulm it down of the stressing each other out?

holy cow, SUPPORT!! I gag when things get shoved down my throat.

I do good just to get through most days, let's cool it peeps,

this is a hudge problem, as some are not well enough to be the go getters that

other want them to be, I say if you CAN DO, DO, but dont add pressure and stress

to those that can't do.

sometimes it makes me wonder who's really sick and who's full of it.

can ya all realize that some here have been injured severly and didn't get any

medical help immeditly and didn't regain a desent level of

getting along with this illness and things are just hardier for them!

so please stay off the high horses and remember this group has sick people who

have a hard enough times just getting what they need to do done, and you are

asking to damn much of them. and gee, that guilt treatment plan just isn't very

nice, and just pisses me off.

I do what I can, I've spent way to many hours for several years, trying to help

people in this group, you have no fricking idea just how much time and how hard

that was for me, so I dont even want to read this bs.

mellow out! I get rather sick of those who fell the need to toot their horns,

they must not be that ill is all I can say, please toot somewhere else. being a

hero and wanting everyone to just treet you like a hero are two different

things. hero's usually dont have the need to toot , they just get er done and

dont exspect praise for every word they speak or everything they do.

instead of gripping at the sick ones, maybe you can put your effort into finding

supporting people who are not sick to help the sick, isn't that really how it

should be? I dont know about anyone else here but stress is not what I need. in

any form, in any way.

if this SUPPORT GROUP is no longer that, let me know so I dont waist my time

coming to read the posts. maybe someone should start a mold political group and

they can just stress, stress stress all they want!

maybe those really sick just need the consentrate of getting better and MAYBE no

STRESS is a good idea. maybe all ya's that can, can work on getting supporters

to help support us? because really, truely, I think it rather stinks that some

in their own great minds, can't realize that maybe their harping at us to do

things is just asking to much, and if you dont get that, than maybe you just

weren't injured bad enough to get it, and in case you don't realize it, your

basicly treating some here the same way that people that dont understand this

illness treats us and thats just rude. if you can't see past yourself to realize

that some may be sicker, less functional than you, than I sugest you open your

ears and listen, and see. and look beyond yourself, because there is many levels

of just how injured these exposures can make people, and if you really want to

know, you might have to be unlike the rest of the world and open your minds and

listen. so please look beyond yourselfs and what your exposure did to you and

never for a momment doubt that the differences in even just the brain damage and

how well people can function and actually get things done might be tottally

different from what you can do and get done. if you can do it all, hurray for

you, do it than, but dont put pressure on people here to do things because you

want them to, it's not going to work that way.

thats kindof like when I first can here and my spelling and writeing was so bad

that I was hurrassed about it, you call that support? well it was because no one

quite understood that I had been injured pretty bad and I was doing the best I

could. now I ended up doing a whole lot of research, I was slow, I went more

based on what I knew happened to me,anmd looked for answers, I couldn't read all

that stuff, couldn't even remember what I had just read, but I did the best I

could, and after a while I actually started to understand, and a lot of that was

because of feedback in this group, talking about it and realizeing we all get

injured in the same ways, but at diffenent levels of injury,

I also realize that time, a lot of time and advoidance is about the only thing

that those severly injured can reley on, different levels of organ damage means

all of us wont heal the same, at the same rate,

or ever get back to the same functioning levels as others,and those with severly

damaged sinuses,olfactory tracts, broke down brain barriors, reaccuring brain

swelling because of something like the faint smell of perfume, are going to have

a really hard time dealing with this illness. so exspectinmg someone else to do

what you do is really shallow minded

and self serveing.