Fighting Fair...Seeing both sides

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Hello

I haven't been on the board for some time. I am an NT. My husband and I both believe he has AS after reading many of the books, and after I have read so many of your posts, and have shared them with him.

I have tried and failed to get my husband to join the board to review all of your comments and perspectives.

But I would like your comments on the issue of arguing or fighting fairly

It seems that most of you NT's are cherised by your AS husband and trusted. It seems like if you say something then mostly your spouse believes what you say.

Do any of you experience a lack of fairness in communication? Do any of you bend over backwards to try to understand his/her perspective, try to talk or write or communicate in a totally fair manner and get a total lack of cooperation or fairness back?

If so, please give me some examples

Thanks

Sandy