Re: Re: Parents who want to recover kids trying to allay their own inad...

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I would say that it takes a probably-a-little-toxic-herself mom to defend inactions of those like her (I don't want to recover my child types - God put him on the earth this way, I believe is their mantra).I am into this recovery thing to the tune of a refinance this year, just upward of $100K and almost eight years invested in creating/recovering a child from fecal-smearing, head-banging, sitting in a corner by himself, pacing the house screaming and crying. Oh yeah - I would much rather have that then the cognitive little character I have now -- by character, I mean a child who has learned how to tease and joke and laugh.RoxSubject: Re: Parents who want to recover kids trying to "allay their own inad...To: EOHarm Date: Friday, November 28, 2008, 4:40 PM

Really? I thought she was publishing an excuse for her own laziness.

CGF

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> I feel really sorry for her. Some just cannot physically and/or

> mentally muster up the energy it takes. They then rationalize their

> own behavior (or lack of) and go on to criticize those who are able.

> I do feel for her. She's clearly conflicted.

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> Jackie