Guest guest Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 Kathy, Thanks for the clarifications and that your enthusiasm is not to sell products. This and other groups constantly struggle with people who DO become participants and slowly insinuate themselves into the culture so they can begin promoting what they sell or what they believe everyone else should agree with. Your story is another case study on THE GENERAL PROCESS often necessary for complex situations. That when simple or first responses don't immediately work that usually means there is no single " fix " or " treatment " waiting around the next corner. We must explore and experiment and be willing to risk making mistakes to eventually (hopefully) find relief. We must be gentle and empathetic with ourselves and with each other. The symptoms of many conditions and illnesses overlap so it is hard to tell which is which. What is even harder is when there is a cluster of symptoms and complaints and each " response " provides partial relief or temporary relief. That doesn't mean it is wrong. It may mean it is necessary but is only a part of the total picture. If you break and arm and a leg, have internal injuries and an infection only the arm can be healed with a cast on the arm. ALL parts of the harm have to be addressed appropriate to the situation. Last comment: You mentioned that this group is mostly about mold - despite its name of " Sickbuildings. " Although mold (WDB) is the most common cause and most frequent problem it is not the only issue with getting sick when in buildings. A " sickbuilding " can make us sick for any or all of many reasons. Sometimes the mold is first and sometimes the mold comes later. I have clients and know people on this group whose issues started with mold but ended with chemical intolerance. We may need a different word for " mold " because a listing of all the other components everytime becomes tiresome. Continuing to use only " mold " perpetuates the misinformation, misunderstanding, and supports the deniers and naysayers. Water Damaged Buildings (WDB) is more accurate but hasn't caught on. Any ideas on what a better word would be? Carl Grimes Healthy Habitats LLC ----- Hi Corky- I didn't say but am happy to do so, if allowed by the group moderator. The summer of 1999 I was unknowingly being slowly poisoned.Within 6 months, the career went out the window and I was slowly noticing that I was having increasing problems with the world and environment around me. So it's been 10 years now that I have been living withfemale stuff, CFIDS, MCS, 4confirmed viruses, 6confirmed autoimmune disease and my out of state doc is still convinced I have Lyme yet it continues to allude us in spite of all the testing. So literally within6 months at the young age of 42,I went from an activewell rounded life with a highpowered career to a person struggling with health issues and trying to survive on disability everymonth. And of course that wasonly aftera 2 year battle to win disability. Blah Blah Blah. Sorta the same story asmany others. Yet I amSO fortunate that it didn't take years of bouncing around from doctor to doctor with the old " it's all in your head " scenario. I was sooo blessed thatthrough the Endometriosis Assn, found out about Dr Sherry . Off to see her thinking I was going to discuss someallergy shots and walked outta there with a laundry list of things wrong with me...lol...anyone who knows her, knows exactly what I mean.But I owe her so muchasshe was the one who dx me w/MCS, confronted my horrific diet, educated me about Candida and drilled it into my head the since the gut houses the majorityof the immune system,I'd better get/keep my gut in shape or I will never stand a chance of getting well.And thus began this most recent leg of my life journey. I am a DES Daughter and a member of DES Action thus a member of their webgroup. A fellow membertold me about a fantastic webgroup called . Not sure if this link will work as I am signed in as a member: / My life is allup to me so thus began my quest to educate myself, not knowing what an incredible webgroup I was becoming part of.At that time and I assume it still is...a group of CFIDS/FM folks truly looking for solutions and what I learned from them is simply amazing.Ken Lassenstarted that group, many incredible scientists and doctors from all overthe worldtook their time to continually sharewith the group. This also includesthe well known/respected Rich Van Koynenburg, who also pops up on the CF Alliance Group from time to time.He is a so devoted to those of us with CFS and CFIDS and is tireless with sharing hisexpertise and protocols.He is an amazing, giving man and giftedscientist and a huge contributor tothe CFS/CFIDS community. I was super active in the group learning and doing trials with all sorts of protocols as I started to find out of state practitioners who could help take me in a more scientific direction that what Dr does. Also, I live in a very restricted state where we can't get a lot of testing/treatments done here so out of state isthe way a lot of us here mustgo. So found a fabulousout of state doc,starting getting tests done andstarting building of listof now confirmedviruses, autoimmune disorders and of course, the obviousCFIDS andMCS. That lead me to trying a bunch of various immune focused protocols involving everything from the basic supplements tosome very high tech stuff. And of course, all very expensive and most not covered by insurance..lol... Then the time came when I needed to address my metals/chelation thus joined both Jeff and Andy Cutler metals groups as well as the Autism Group, well know for great sharing on various types of chelation: http://www.pairlist.net/mailman/listinfo/metals adult-metal-chelation/ / And since Cutler's protocol involves so much sulfur, I then joined the Sulfur Group too: sulfurstories/?yguid=22307128 3 Then came some of the CFSFMExperimantal off-shoot groupsthat Ken Lassen formed, so I joined them: atsg/ http://www.me-cfsmethylation.com/ CFSProtocol/ AlfredblasiprotocolFMSCFS/ atsg/ CFS-Ampligen/ And of course, theCFS specific: / AlsoMCS specific: MCS-CI-Heal- Archives/?yguid=223071283 mcssafeshelterusa/?yguid=2230 71283 I also belong to femalerelated webgroups such as DES Action and others that I would prefer not to post. And for fun...I also belong to various webgroups supporting my passion/collecting of myfavorite childhood tv show called Lost in Space and all the other shows that it's creatorIrwin was involved in such a Time Tunnel, Land of the Giants, etc. About the only thing I haven't pursued yet is aLyme group but why botheruntil weconfirm that I actually have it. One less dx to have, I say...lol....I have learned/made so many friends on the other groups who have lyme thatI pretty much know where togo such as LymeNet, Borrascano, etc. It sounds like it has consumed my life and to be honest foraround 4 or soyears, it did. I became my illness. But as time has passed with many treatments tried...that is no longer the case. I maintain various group memberships,receivedaily digests and post from time to time. But that all changedwith the window install last July.I was/am really freaked that in spite of all the environmental precautions, it has resultedin mynowtoxic house. I honestly hope that I can somehow keep this house, that's how serious this is. Consults w/enviromental consultants, contacting the local IAQ guy, getting folks in here to help figure out my options...that I have already done. I already sold a housedue to mold/natural gas and for sure, just don't want togo through that again if at all possible. Or perhaps the message in this is that it is time for me to relocate to a better climate and this is the only way to boot me out of my little safety zone.Time will tellif I continue to do my footwork. My memberships with CIIN and HEAL are of great value but what I really wanted and needed was tolocatean interactivewebgroup specifically discussing positive solutions to addressing a toxic structure. During these winter months while we areclosed up, I want to educate myself as much as possible so when spring hits, perhaps I can step into action on things I can do with this house that may be of help. So started the group searchand tripped uponthis wonderful group. And although the objective of this group focuses on mold, after joiningand reading what you all are discussing, I felt that perhaps this may bea positive and proactive resource for what I am dealing with right now.And not only for what I might learn here butto alsogive back toothers and bewilling tostep up to the plate and contribute where applicableif it will help someone else. That all said, I certainly hope thatnewcredible groups membersare truly welcome here.It's difficultwhen someone new suddenly pops onto the groupscene, particularly withbountiful exuberance...lol... There is a tendencyfor suspicion until that new member becomes either a truepart of thegroup or totally disappears, which isquite often the case. Sincewearen't looking at each other eye to eye and face to face,I guess that's justa normalwebgroup dynamic. Please note that I have no financial or vested interest in any person, place, groups, object or anything else mentioned in this posting. Take Care Kathy ---------------------------------------------------------- Posted by: " Tug " tug_slug@... tug_slug Wed Jan26,2011 5:17am (PST) Baahstun, how long have you been suffering with MCS and what other forums did you say you belonged to? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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