Re: Daughter complaining I haven't worked all these years

[Guest guest]

, sorry to hear that, I dont know, it would probably take a combination of

articles and still if they are close minded to it all they probably wont soak it

in. sometimes you just have to tell someone where to go. actually, I talk about

it and leture mine so much on wearing purfume and the effects of toxic

exposures, that they dont want to get me started. and if they are causeing me

symptoms and I start have mood changes, I'm even more apt to get on their case.

I'm just not going to stand getting abuse from people because they cant or dont

bother to educate theirself on this, exspecially family.

I guess at some point with some of them I just gave up trying to get them to

understand, I have gotten a little short tempered with a few about it and they

well either try harder to understand or they will avoid the topic altogether.

either way works for me.

you could also make a list of your requirements for a job,like where the air is

so pure that you dont react to anything,no exposure to the public, a job thats

not very demanding because you have a brain injury, and a job where you can take

breaks and lay down for awhile, or miss several days and not get fired and hand

it to them and have them look for a job for you.

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> Ever since my husband heart attack, my daughter and her boyfriend have been

talking poorly to me about how I have not worked all these years. Actually when

I was walking in to see my husband while he was still unconsious her boyfriend

made a remark about me now working all these years.

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> I am trying to educate them and it has been very sad as I already have enough

stresss the last 12 years but also recently.

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> Any suggestions of something to send either chemical, candida albicans which I

am also allergic to, or water damaged buildings. Getting use to use that term.

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> Thanks. Of course I have many and do a blog but anything that would get them

to back off would be great.

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> Happy Labor Day all.

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[Guest guest]

Hi ,

I would ignore them. Some people made some hurtful remarks to me when I was so

sick and not working. No matter how hard I tried to explain, they would not

listen. I too was caring for a sick love one on top of being ill from mold.

IMO, it is really non of your daughter's BF business that you were not working.

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> Ever since my husband heart attack, my daughter and her boyfriend have been

talking poorly to me about how I have not worked all these years. Actually when

I was walking in to see my husband while he was still unconsious her boyfriend

made a remark about me now working all these years.

>

> I am trying to educate them and it has been very sad as I already have enough

stresss the last 12 years but also recently.

>

>

> Any suggestions of something to send either chemical, candida albicans which I

am also allergic to, or water damaged buildings. Getting use to use that term.

>

> Thanks. Of course I have many and do a blog but anything that would get them

to back off would be great.

>

> Happy Labor Day all.

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