Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 I tell people that I got sicker than Haides. I am better now. But stuff in the air really bugs me sometimes and it never did before. They seem to understand that. In a message dated 2/8/2011 6:34:20 P.M. Pacific Standard Time, rustee50@... writes: I find it impossible for any or most to understand at all what kind of devastation mcs/mold sensitivity can involve...i am an extreme reactor and my reactions are so intense that I almost black out; can have convulsion, whatever..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 In a message dated 2/8/2011 4:08:36 P.M. Pacific Standard Time, tigerpaw2c@... writes: I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? >That the US Chamber of Commerce says it doesn't cause illness. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 Good question, I don't have a good answer but I wish from the bottom of my heart they were right and i was wrong and delusional. My friends all believe me but they don't realise just how seriously its effected my health. To them it's just another part of mcs but i do consider myself lucky to have friends that believe that i have mcs and are very supportive. They just dont see how mold can be quite as bad as I say it is especially in such minute quantities. My mcs is no big deal but my mold sensitivity is though the roof. How many times i've said i would love to 'just' have mcs even if it were 10 times worse than it is now... I have at one time referred to the fact that u.s. Military has researched biotoxins for thier use in warfare...and ive used other examples but not thinking too clearly at the moment. Looking forward to reading the other responses. Kind regards, D ________________________ On 2011-02-09 11:08:34 +1100 KC <tigerpaw2c@...> wrote: > > > Gotcha !!! > > Ok, we all have heard this statement many, many times, to the point of > completely losing it, even when it is staring some people right in the face. > You can talk to them until you turn blue or like you are speaking to a wall. > > I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to > someone that may convince them,what would it be??? > > Please try and keep it short, to one paragraph with a link/s if you like. > > I know this can be so darn frustrating at times. This still happens to all of > us. > > > KC > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 I have Hypersensitivity Pnuemonitis from a WDB which has been around for years and know by the medical community. Hypersensitivity pneumonitis (HP), also known as extrinsic allergic alveolitis, is an immune mediated lung disease. This uncommon disease is caused by inhalation of and sensitisation to antigens derived from protozoa, molds, animals, insects, bacteria, chemicals, and other organic materials . http://medind.nic.in/iae/t06/i2/iaet06i2p115.pdf What is so impossible to believe ? Only to those who do not want to see. God Bless !! dragonflymcs Mayleen ________________________________ From: KC <tigerpaw2c@...> Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:08:28 PM Subject: [] I Say, mold/microbial contaminates CAN'T make you sick Gotcha !!! Ok, we all have heard this statement many, many times, to the point of completely losing it, even when it is staring some people right in the face. You can talk to them until you turn blue or like you are speaking to a wall. I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? Please try and keep it short, to one paragraph with a link/s if you like. I know this can be so darn frustrating at times. This still happens to all of us. KC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 I gave up on trying to convince people of my sensitivities to mold or chemicals, when I did try they just looked at me like I was nuts. Now I just tell them I have extremely bad allergies and that's something most people can relate to and is easily acceptable. Gotcha !!! Ok, we all have heard this statement many, many times, to the point of completely losing it, even when it is staring some people right in the face. You can talk to them until you turn blue or like you are speaking to a wall. I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? Please try and keep it short, to one paragraph with a link/s if you like. I know this can be so darn frustrating at times. This still happens to all of us. KC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 I tell them what I know briefly and the information has been hidden for monetary reasons by insurance companies and the like. If they don't seem open to that, I stop there. Figure from then on, it's their business. As far as referring to myself, I say I have severe allergies, like Tug said, and that works. Any other information and they look very confused. >\ > Gotcha !!! > > Ok, we all have heard this statement many, many times, to the point of completely losing it, even when it is staring some people right in the face. You can talk to them until you turn blue or like you are speaking to a wall. > > I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? > > Please try and keep it short, to one paragraph with a link/s if you like. > > I know this can be so darn frustrating at times. This still happens to all of us. > > > KC > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 I find it impossible for any or most to understand at all what kind of devastation mcs/mold sensitivity can involve...i am an extreme reactor and my reactions are so intense that I almost black out; can have convulsion, whatever..... and I am perpetually very ill and bedridden mostly, that is how overwhelming my chronic fatiguen is....never mind all else.... how can one expect people to understand how a person can be so sick as to be virtually bed-ridden without having legitimate visible disease or medical diagnosis? my entire family and scope of relatives honestly think I am psychotic; delusional ; crazy...... If I was 'normal' I could never understand these illnesses either nor could I imagine the ill health they bring on.... Ian > > I gave up on trying to convince people of my sensitivities to mold or chemicals, when I did try they just looked at me like I was nuts. Now I just tell them I have extremely bad allergies and that's something most people can relate to and is easily acceptable. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 I agree here with everything you said. The topperr is, " So are you okay now? " Yep, Alllllllllll better, thanks. Meredith > > Good question, > > I don't have a good answer but I wish from the bottom of my heart they were right and i was wrong and delusional. > > My friends all believe me but they don't realise just how seriously its effected my health. To them it's just another part of mcs but i do consider myself lucky to have friends that believe that i have mcs and are very supportive. They just dont see how mold can be quite as bad as I say it is especially in such minute quantities. My mcs is no big deal but my mold sensitivity is though the roof. How many times i've said i would love to 'just' have mcs even if it were 10 times worse than it is now... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 Yes, i'm getting that a lot!! People think i should be able to just get on with my life now. They don't see that i'm actually getting worse. Also lots of very well meaning people wanting to cure me with vitamin C, herbs etc. If only it were that simple! But i'm blessed to have people that care and want to help. For that i am thankfull. ________________________ On 2011-02-09 14:21:44 +1100 fontanafool <productionking04@...> wrote: > > I agree here with everything you said. The topperr is, " So are you okay > now? " > Yep, Alllllllllll better, thanks. > Meredith > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 Here is a site for everyone on Invisible Disabilities :: http://www.invisibledisabilities.org/educate/butyoulookgood/ In 1997, there were 26 million Americans considered to have a severe disability and only 7 million of them use a wheelchair, cane, crutches or walker. Therefore, we cannot always judge whether a person is disabled or not by how they look to us. True, not every kind of disability qualifies a person to park in a reserved space, but it is considered a disability – whether or not it is visible to the onlooker (U.S. Department of Commerce). Despite the facts, when most people think of a disability, they picture in their minds a person with a visible, obvious impairment. Lorden, a writer living with Fibromyalgia explained, “…our visually oriented society may not take the time to look beyond appearances. People tend to believe what they see; and if it can’t be seen, it simply doesn’t exist.†We often do not realize that a person can have hindrances that come from the inside and may not be visible on the outside. In other words, they can have a physically limiting illness or injury, even though it is not obvious to the onlooker. Their limitations may be disabling, but because their symptoms can seem unapparent to most, we call them, “Invisible Disabilities.†http://www.invisibledisabilities.org/educate/invisibleawareness/lookscanbedeceiv\ ing/ The numbers of Americans battling MCS seem to be rising quickly. Most with MCS tell a story of once being healthy and not effected by fragrances. “MCS usually starts with either an acute or chronic toxic exposure, after which this initial sensitivity broadens to include many other chemicals and common irritants…â€(3) Many experts have found that once a person become reactive to a chemical or toxin, their intolerance is rarely reversible. Furthermore, “In 1998, it was estimated that 26.3 million Americans have been diagnosed with asthma.â€(4) Asthma is a serious respiratory disorder that can constrict and cause swelling of the airways. “The Institute of Medicine placed fragrance in the same category as second hand smoke in triggering asthma in adults and school age children.â€(5) What’s more, “Up to 72% of asthmatics report their asthma is triggered by fragrance. Asthmatics and others that are negatively impacted by fragrance often have difficulties working, obtaining medical care, and going about activities of daily living because of others’ use of scented products.â€(6) For those living with asthma and/or MCS, just going to work, a meeting or an activity may expose them to chemicals that could make them ill. These reactions can be very serious and have changed the lives of millions. Because they have to avoid public situations and even having people in their own homes, they can also experience isolation, loneliness, lose their jobs and may even become homebound. http://www.invisibledisabilities.org/educate/chemicalsensitivities/fragrancefree\ zone/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 I'd like to offer them a mold cocktail to sniff like Brocovich did with the water in the movie. I think it's a good idea to have a beaker with mold in it to see if the insurers sitting at the WC table would sniff it along with the judge. Barth www.presenting.net/sbs/sbs.html SUBMIT YOUR DOCTOR: www.presenting.net/sbs/molddoctors.html --- K> Gotcha !!! K> Ok, we all have heard this statement many, many times, to the point of completely losing it, even when it is staring some people right in the face. You can talk to them until you turn blue or like K> you are speaking to a wall. K> I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? K> Please try and keep it short, to one paragraph with a link/s if you like. K> I know this can be so darn frustrating at times. This still happens to all of us. K> KC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 what advantage is it for me to take this sort of abuse (from you)? _______________________________ In a message dated 2/8/2011 4:08:36 P.M. Pacific Standard Time, tigerpaw2c@... writes: I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 If you have the TIME: Explain to them which side the money is on, and show them proof of how mold in government buildings are handled differently than public buildings, etc. Although I have to say there seems to be two types of people: those that always believe 'authority figures' and those that don't/realize that authority figures aren't always correct and sometimes are even corrupt..imagine that? If they are the first type, it seems no amt of talking changes that in my experience. > >Ok, we all have heard this statement many, many times, to the point of completely losing it, even when it is staring some people right in the face. You can talk to them until you turn blue or like you are speaking to a wall. > > I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? > > Please try and keep it short, to one paragraph with a link/s if you like. > > I know this can be so darn frustrating at times. This still happens to all of us. > > > KC > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 Mold is got in our blood streams & brain. Why can't they see that??? Beyond Dr. Shoe's tests, can't we prove it w urine or blood tests showing mold? What about those who had black stuff coming out of a bodily part. Mold induced asthma, MCS, the list goes on. The sad fact is the majority of us can't swing the cost of specialty tests to add more proof. Stack up the tests of those who can. It's about having the money.for the chance at recovery. Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2011 Report Share Posted February 8, 2011 One way to get rid of the monetary issue. A registry of some kind needs to be created, anonymously labeled by country, city. Who were lost, who recovered to be able to function, those somewhere in the middle. Those who win lawsuits have retain the right to add their name or anonymous plaintiff. Tests to prove we got sick compared w past records. Doc's who treat need to take the time to submit anonymous data for the registry. Yes many won't get added who don't know about it. All of us here need to be willing to stand up for what happened to us. How do we show we can't handle small exposures anymore I can't answer. My guess is we still have some mold hiding somewhere or now have intolerance's. As delayed food intolerances are different than immediate allergies. Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2011 Report Share Posted February 9, 2011 My records show a timeline from a healty person going to school, bowling twice a week and never needing medical help to a person who had a serious reaction and went to emergency. This was followed by chest pain, all sinuses infected, polyps, irritant induced asthma, allergic to penicillin which was new, chronic yeast infections, etc. All fungal related. > > > In a message dated 2/8/2011 4:08:36 P.M. Pacific Standard Time, > tigerpaw2c@... writes: > > > I Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2011 Report Share Posted February 9, 2011 When I haven't seen someone for a time they say " are you better now? " and I say sometimes, " NO, I am WORSE! " At that point they don't usually want to talk anymore. It's like they can't admit what is really happening. Even had a friend look up some bogus site and tell me " It says here that it is spreading phenomenom, meanig somatic not biologic " . Funny because this is a diabled perrson, back operations, neck broke, fibro, etc. But she can't believe I can't be in her house. Her husband even has mild mcs. SHe said if he were like me she would devorce him!!! Life goes on, without many friends. meredith > > > > > I agree here with everything you said. The topperr is, " So are you okay > > now? " > > Yep, Alllllllllll better, thanks. > > Meredith > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2011 Report Share Posted February 9, 2011 When you become bed-ridden it is what Dr. Rea calls " total debilitation. " Tell them that is the name of your condition and it describes it better. It has to do with multi-organ involvement etc. I went through that and I know how discouraging it can be especially when your family is questioning all of it when what you need most is their support. Take care D > > I find it impossible for any or most to understand at all what kind of devastation mcs/mold sensitivity can involve...i am an extreme reactor and my reactions are so intense that I almost black out; can have convulsion, whatever..... > > and I am perpetually very ill and bedridden mostly, that is how overwhelming my chronic fatiguen is....never mind all else.... > > how can one expect people to understand how a person can be so sick as to be virtually bed-ridden without having legitimate visible disease or medical diagnosis? > > my entire family and scope of relatives honestly think I am psychotic; delusional ; crazy...... > > If I was 'normal' I could never understand these illnesses either nor could I imagine the ill health they bring on.... > > Ian > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2011 Report Share Posted February 9, 2011 LOL, I get that too. Also, after I have just explained how disabled I am, " So do you work? " I sure do, coping with, caring for and healing up from MCS is a full-time job! anita ---From: fontanafool Sent: Tuesday, February 8, 2011 6:46 PM  I agree here with everything you said. The topperr is, " So are you okay now? " Yep, Alllllllllll better, thanks. Meredith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2011 Report Share Posted February 9, 2011 I never used to be afraid to breathe in mold. I once stayed in such a damp house the books were molding on the shelves. It was a long time ago and I was there for a month. I actually liked the smell of the mold (not black) when it rained. Some outdoor mold smells make me think of camping which I love. If only I had that kind of tolerance now, wow.......... I do wonder these days if it didn't affect me back then and I just didn't know it? My health got worse after that, but I was taking medication also that affected me so that confuses things. But it certainly could have been a cause or start of my new symptoms and not just the meds. anita ---From: Patilla DaHun ? I'd like to offer them a mold cocktail to sniff like Brocovich did with the water in the movie. I think it's a good idea to have a beaker with mold in it to see if the insurers sitting at the WC table would sniff it along with the judge. Barth www.presenting.net/sbs/sbs.html SUBMIT YOUR DOCTOR: www.presenting.net/sbs/molddoctors.html --- K> I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2011 Report Share Posted February 9, 2011  If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? I have a trailer specially designed with a typical toxic mold environment. You can say kind of like a " control " in a science experiment. Why dont you and your family come and stay for a while? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2011 Report Share Posted February 9, 2011  If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? I have a trailer specially designed with a typical toxic mold environment. You can say kind of like a " control " in a science experiment. Why dont you and your family come and stay for a while? Just to clarify, this should be said to lawyers and the Doctors they also employ to cloud the facts against the truth, that there is such a thing as toxic mold.Not to the lay person:) Eli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2011 Report Share Posted February 9, 2011 My experience has been that people who are believing don't need any convincing, they just believe me easy, right away. People who are disbelieving, nothing I say will convince them. Nothing. anita ---From: KC I would like to here from everyone. If there is one thing you could say to someone that may convince them,what would it be??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 9, 2011 Report Share Posted February 9, 2011 This is my experience Anita. People are either open-minded or they aren't. What I mean by that is that they believe something because an authority figure told them and they will not question that EVER. Could be a parent, a doctor, minister, teacher, a book or magazine by respected source. There are people who just don't question things. I think someday they are people who fall for scams, etc. I question things and if something sounds logical or possible, I'm open to considering it. I don't struggle with it or with anyone bec I've discovered it does no good, but wears you out. > > My experience has been that people who are believing don't need any convincing, they just believe me easy, right away. People who are disbelieving, nothing I say will convince them. Nothing. > anita > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2011 Report Share Posted February 13, 2011 Barb, right, I know what you mean. I was going to say open-minded rather than believing because believing sounds like I meant gullible, and I didn't. Open-minded is good, being willing to consider something, but being gullible is not. anita ---------------------------------- From: barb b w  This is my experience Anita. People are either open-minded or they aren't. What I mean by that is that they believe something because an authority figure told them and they will not question that EVER. Could be a parent, a doctor, minister, teacher, a book or magazine by respected source. There are people who just don't question things. I think someday they are people who fall for scams, etc. I question things and if something sounds logical or possible, I'm open to considering it. I don't struggle with it or with anyone bec I've discovered it does no good, but wears you out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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