Guest guest Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Mayleen There are not to many, if any, charitable orgs willing to help individuals like they used to. They only will help communities, such as, after school programs, ect. where they can help many at one time, other than just one person. Most of them will just pass the buck including the united way that many large corporation donate to. This is partially what I have been doing for the past couple of months because of a freak diving accident my 26yr. old brother in law had and is now paralyzed from the neck down. Its been very discouraging lately, the lack of help and assistance, state & fed. for someone in this condition. I have not given up yet, on my daughter and three grandchildren. But its not looking good. Alot involved with something like this. There are some grants. Good Luck KC > > Hi All, > > I am trying to get info for sites that can possible help in a bad situation. > Does anyone have links to sites where you can post your personal stories? > > > Do not send ones like the Red Cross or such as I have waited much time with > them. Thank you for all of your help. > > > God Bless !! > dragonflymcs > Mayleen > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 KC, I am so sorry about what your family is going threw. I realize from my own personal experience that the " Large " non-profits are taking but not giving anything. I went threw so many of those sites it is a disgrace. They say they are,  however they have not been giving to anyone for quite some time. When you are in a disaster and they walk right by you, you know they are there for publicity so you can give to them but they will not give back to anyone. I was looking more along the lines of smaller personal sites.  I am on 02 and have been unable to get anything either. However I do think there maybe some for the situation you describe. I will see what I can find for you. God Bless !!  God Bless !! dragonflymcs Mayleen ________________________________ From: KC <tigerpaw2c@...> Sent: Wed, September 15, 2010 7:52:44 PM Subject: [] Re: HELP/ Charitable Sites  Mayleen There are not to many, if any, charitable orgs willing to help individuals like they used to. They only will help communities, such as, after school programs, ect. where they can help many at one time, other than just one person. Most of them will just pass the buck including the united way that many large corporation donate to. This is partially what I have been doing for the past couple of months because of a freak diving accident my 26yr. old brother in law had and is now paralyzed from the neck down. Its been very discouraging lately, the lack of help and assistance, state & fed. for someone in this condition. I have not given up yet, on my daughter and three grandchildren. But its not looking good. Alot involved with something like this. There are some grants. Good Luck KC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Mayleen, Thank you, and you are right on the mark about those non-profits, but you take care of yourself. I have been in touch with other family's that are in the same boat and have been searching for info for a long time. There is some, but also a very long waiting period. Like anything else it takes time and jumping thru alot of hoops KC > > KC, > > I am so sorry about what your family is going threw. I realize from my own > personal experience that the " Large " non-profits are taking but not giving > anything. I went threw so many of those sites it is a disgrace. They say they > are,  however they have not been giving to anyone for quite some time. When you > are in a disaster and they walk right by you, you know they are there for > publicity so you can give to them but they will not give back to anyone. > > > I was looking more along the lines of smaller personal sites.  I am on 02 and > have been unable to get anything either. However I do think there maybe some > for the situation you describe. I will see what I can find for you. God Bless > !! >  > > God Bless !! > dragonflymcs > Mayleen > > > > > ________________________________ > From: KC <tigerpaw2c@...> > > Sent: Wed, September 15, 2010 7:52:44 PM > Subject: [] Re: HELP/ Charitable Sites > >  > Mayleen > > There are not to many, if any, charitable orgs willing to help individuals like > they used to. They only will help communities, such as, after school programs, > ect. where they can help many at one time, other than just one person. Most of > them will just pass the buck including the united way that many large > corporation donate to. > > This is partially what I have been doing for the past couple of months because > of a freak diving accident my 26yr. old brother in law had and is now paralyzed > from the neck down. Its been very discouraging lately, the lack of help and > assistance, state & fed. for someone in this condition. I have not given up yet, > on my daughter and three grandchildren. But its not looking good. Alot involved > with something like this. > > There are some grants. > > Good Luck > > KC > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2010 Report Share Posted September 15, 2010 Thanks KC and I wish you and yours the Best and may help come soon to you all !!  Write to me back web  God Bless !! dragonflymcs Mayleen ________________________________ From: KC <tigerpaw2c@...> Sent: Wed, September 15, 2010 8:29:22 PM Subject: [] Re: HELP/ Charitable Sites  Mayleen, Thank you, and you are right on the mark about those non-profits, but you take care of yourself. I have been in touch with other family's that are in the same boat and have been searching for info for a long time. There is some, but also a very long waiting period. Like anything else it takes time and jumping thru alot of hoops KC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 The only way I have found to get help is going door to door to churches. There are a lot of food pantries here. I know of one person who got there electrical bill paid by the church. A local NPO has helped me a lot with food from their garden when I have needed it. When I feel good, I go and help in the garden. Think locally, and go in person. > > Hi All, > > I am trying to get info for sites that can possible help in a bad situation. > Does anyone have links to sites where you can post your personal stories? > > > Do not send ones like the Red Cross or such as I have waited much time with > them. Thank you for all of your help. > > > God Bless !! > dragonflymcs > Mayleen > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 do you have meals on wheels in your area? sue v > >The only way I have found to get help is going door to door to churches. >There are a lot of food pantries here. I know of one person who got >there electrical bill paid by the church. A local NPO has helped me a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 It is so sad the lack of help out there. My husband went through bypass surgery and is finally back to work. He didn't get to have the heart therapy, or has had to cancel heart doctor appointment, but if you only make 1200 a month you get all that. The only way we make what we do is if he workds 44 extra hours a month. We finally got a check and paid our rent but are still late. They had been patient but there is now a court date. And we would have been caught up a week after the court date. When you call these agencies there is no money left. One would help with 200 when all was caught up. They help with electric if you have a cut off notice. Why do you have to wait for that. And if you don't have a job you get no help with rent. Kind of weird how the system is set up. I am just sad because we have been through so much and it isn't about money but our safety to have to move when I am sick and my husband just had quadruple bypass. I imagine something will work out. Just had to go through the migraine, vomiting thing when I heard they had a court date. I am ill from this court system in the first place. Dealt with them when I became ill. Of course through the years things get worse when this illness drags on and you can't work or move so many times throwing out your belongings so many times. I am sorry for all involved. > > Hi All, > > I am trying to get info for sites that can possible help in a bad situation. > Does anyone have links to sites where you can post your personal stories? > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 Hi , Thank you, but none of the food programs fill our needs. We have intolerance to pesticides, herbicides, additives etc. I cannot even breathe food with additives when it is being cooked. When I first got this I ate an orange and passed out. I thought maybe conincidense so I asked others who ate from the same tree. They were all fine, so I ate another orange and got the same symptoms nausea, sweating cold, then I passed out again. Hope this helps.  God Bless !! dragonflymcs Mayleen ________________________________ From: sue <svican@...> Sent: Thu, September 16, 2010 10:19:18 AM Subject: Re: [] Re: HELP/ Charitable Sites  do you have meals on wheels in your area? sue v > >The only way I have found to get help is going door to door to churches. >There are a lot of food pantries here. I know of one person who got >there electrical bill paid by the church. A local NPO has helped me a Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 Thank you , I get anaphalactic to perfume sents or VCD respiratory disorder, RADS or any respiratory problem. Even the oxygen does not help me then.  I have gotten help for electric. However,  our needs are a bit larger that I need to move again. No funds. I need to be able to get to hospitals that are 6 hours away due to rare lung diseases. Have no way to do all of this.   God Bless !! dragonflymcs Mayleen ________________________________ From: carondeen <kdeanstudios@...> Sent: Thu, September 16, 2010 9:47:28 AM Subject: [] Re: HELP/ Charitable Sites The only way I have found to get help is going door to door to churches. There are a lot of food pantries here. I know of one person who got there electrical bill paid by the church. A local NPO has helped me a lot with food from their garden when I have needed it. When I feel good, I go and help in the garden. Think locally, and go in person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 With the economy in the tank the number of people needing assistance keeps increasing while the number of people giving donations decreases and those that are still capable of donating are giving much less. > > Mayleen > > There are not to many, if any, charitable orgs willing to help individuals like they used to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 and I would bet that the number of people with chronic debilitating " invisible " illnesses keeps growing due to the toxic toxic world we live in, not only mold but chemicals and emfs, these people don't bounce right back to work like someone with a short hospital stay and successful surgery....they need long term assistance and care, and there isn't enuf of that to go around! our family doctor told a friend of ours that he is seeing more and more kids with strange illnesses and wonders who will care for them when they get older, just too many of them and too sick..... sue v. >With the economy in the tank the number of people needing assistance >keeps increasing while the number of people giving donations decreases >and those that are still capable of donating are giving much less. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 I hear what you are saying however during the disaster it was the same thing and the economy had not tanked then. I just no longer believe in the " large " non profilts and believe they are for profit.    God Bless !! dragonflymcs Mayleen ________________________________ From: Tug <tug_slug@...> Sent: Thu, September 16, 2010 6:31:00 PM Subject: [] Re: HELP/ Charitable Sites  With the economy in the tank the number of people needing assistance keeps increasing while the number of people giving donations decreases and those that are still capable of donating are giving much less. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 one visit to a toxic building is enough to set you back for weeks maybe months at a time so finding something is that much harder.  God Bless !! dragonflymcs Mayleen ________________________________ From: sue <svican@...> ; Tug <tug_slug@...> Sent: Thu, September 16, 2010 7:14:55 PM Subject: Re: [] Re: HELP/ Charitable Sites  and I would bet that the number of people with chronic debilitating " invisible " illnesses keeps growing due to the toxic toxic world we live in, not only mold but chemicals and emfs, these people don't bounce right back to work like someone with a short hospital stay and successful surgery....they need long term assistance and care, and there isn't enuf of that to go around! our family doctor told a friend of ours that he is seeing more and more kids with strange illnesses and wonders who will care for them when they get older, just too many of them and too sick..... sue v. >With the economy in the tank the number of people needing assistance >keeps increasing while the number of people giving donations decreases >and those that are still capable of donating are giving much less. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2010 Report Share Posted September 16, 2010 ....and I wonder if the amt of toxic substances that we have contribute to the obesity since body will put on fat to store toxins. Of course diet of average American diet terrible also, mainly convenience foods . > > and I would bet that the number of people with chronic debilitating > " invisible " illnesses keeps growing due to the toxic toxic world we live > in, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 17, 2010 Report Share Posted September 17, 2010 This may sound strange, but, if you try it, you will probably get help much faster than if you do a computer search for charitable sites to help you. The non-profit charities maintain a website designed for the purpose of aiding the charitable institutions in finding the personnel they need to help them distribute their charity. If you go to this web site: http://www.volunteermatch.org/ and type in your zip code, or city, and, in the next entry field, type in the type of help that you need, such as " food " or " shelter " or " home " or " bed " , you will get a complete listing of YOUR local charities. You can then go to, or phone, to find out just how you go about receiving the charitable help that you need. My own local food pantry even has an " online " application for food eligibility, that you can print out, and fill-in, and bring with you, when you go there to get your first food assistance. This web site was created by, and is funded by, the U.S. Government, since the election of President Obama. As far as " meals-on-wheels " , you usually have to be over 62 years old, as it is a service for " senior citizens " but they will consider you for delivery, if you are on disability, or can prove some hardship. It's a " pay what you can afford " service. I personally pay $1 per meal, because that's what I can afford,[i'm 67], but they don't make you feel bad, if you can only pay less than that. It's one meal a day, delivered hot, and ready to eat. It is a nutritionally balanced meal, and is always more than I can eat at one time. It usually comes between 10:30 AM and 1:00 PM. Good Luck and God Bless you all, and may you all be inscribed, by God,for a healthy year, on Yom Kippur, tonight. Joe ................................... > > > The only way I have found to get help is going door to door to churches. There are a lot of food pantries here. I know of one person who got there electrical bill paid by the church. A local NPO has helped me a lot with food from their garden when I have needed it. When I feel good, I go and help in the garden. Think locally, and go in person. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 17, 2010 Report Share Posted September 17, 2010 I have gotten very little help & lost health & money in the process of trying every time. I would have to make tons of copies of stuff, drive somewhere, get toxed up by it all, forego basic daily tasks to get it done & be left feeling more hopeless afterwards. They are just not set up to provide anything for someone with sensitivities. Now that I have a house I am going hungry to save the electricity I'd use on a fridge & cooking. But I do get help from HEAP once a year for electric or firewood, & through WRAP I get a winter discount on electric. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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