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What a wonderful week!!! I forget how old Ian is, nathan is 16 and is also

going through a funny, joking and sarcastic streak. hmmm. Maybe a boy teen

thing, as his little brother is even worse right now at 15yrs of age. Even his

teachers have commented on it. Example, when i pick him up from the workshop or

school i always ask him how his day was, and he answers " fine, ok " , then I

ask him what he did today, sometimes it takes a couple repeats before he

catches on to what im asking but then he goes through his schedule as he has it

memorized, school, pe, lunch, work. then i ask him what he ate at lunch and he

went chicken, chocolate milk, cookies, cake, candy " and i was like what? (he

doesn't eat candy) and he laughs and goes " just kidding, just kidding " and

then on one of our blizzard days, early out ofcourse a little guy just about

got hit, and i was upset i yelled at this little guy about needing to use the

crosswalks, and nathan was all wound up from the excitement, and goes " oh my

god, son of a #$@# " perfectly clear and very loud, I dont even know where he

learned that word, the only swear word we ever use on the rare occasion is

s--t. But for the most part nathan too like Ian has been very funny, teasing

and joking. shawna

In a message dated 3/1/2008 1:41:40 P.M. Central Standard Time,

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.. " He's developed quite

a sarcastic streak. When it comes out of his mouth, with his innocent face,

it just seems so wrong we have to laugh. He cont

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Hi everyone,

We had Ian home last week for February break, and it was wonderful. It was

his longest visit yet, 8 days. I had him choose the pickup date and the

return date, and he was fine with it when he had to go back. I think part

of his ease came from our appointment that week with the ARC, during which

we discussed transition plans for his return to our area after he graduates

in June 2010. Until then, his return was kind of foggy -- now he knows

we're taking actual steps toward it. So he went back to Pathfinder Village

happily. I will be visiting him in two weeks.

His new meds are working well for him. After all these years of my

suggestions, they have finally diagnosed him as depressed, and have put him

on an anti-depressant, which has been helping enormously. His mood is

upbeat, he doesn't break into his old tapes as often, transitions were

better, and we could reason with him, even bargain with him (if we listen to

Mommy's CD now, we can listen to your CD on the way home).

This last bargain, in particular, was necessary because we have come to hate

his choice in music -- Olivia Newton , nice though she is, pretty voice

that she has, all day and all night can come to grate on one's nerves.

Ouch.

We went to a few movies, ate out a couple of times. One day I took him over

to the college to make copies for my course which started last week, and we

were in the copy room for close to two hours. He was bored, but didn't give

me any problems. He was great.

And he's just so funny. One day he walked into my room and saw something in

my hand that surprised him, and he said " What the---. " He says things like

" oh, this is going to be fun " and " I don't think so. " He's developed quite

a sarcastic streak. When it comes out of his mouth, with his innocent face,

it just seems so wrong we have to laugh. He continues to come into our

bedroom every night at 10:30 just to say " well, well, well, it's 10:30! "

(For those of you who don't know the story -- before Ian could tell time,

whatever time it was, to him it was 10:30. We used to joke about it. Then

one day, after he'd learned, he walked into the room and looked at the clock

-- it was really 10:30, and he said " well, well, well...it's 10:30! " We

laughed so hard, he continued to do it.)

Hope all of you are well.

CK

Mom to Ian (2/89),

(9/90),

and Rose (6/94)

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CK....this was absolutely hilarious. Thanks so much for the update.

well, well, well......

I can SO understand the same old music syndrome.

Sherry

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