Do Not Think What Other People Think

[Guest guest]

Dear CMT friends,

I study huge amount of materials about psychological boundary.

To keep us feel good, one important sentence to share with you.

Do Not Think What Other People Think.

Just focus on how wonderful you are as a living creature to enjoy your life.

Everyone has his or her psychological " shadow " (Carl Jung). Due to the shadow,

instead of dealing with their own shdows (which is too painful),they project

their own shadows to other people. People who do not have developed self-concept

tend to introject other people's projections. Thus, most people are living with

perceptions projected and introjected from and with each other.

Do not manage perceptions. Do not guess or think what other people are thinking.

You will never get it right. Because other people even don't know what they are

thinking about. CMT people are one of the so-called other people.

Caroline