CyndiB

[Guest guest]

<<Margaret how are you holding up through all of this? Are you staying

well?>>

Hi, Everyone....Cyndi....I am doing OK.....I'm not 6 feet under, so life is

good!!! I try to stay upbeat because Gareth is VERY attuned to MY emotions

and he apologizes for being sick or having to go to the doctors, etc. It's

not that I am angry at him, but upset about whatever is going on and he *thinks*

I am mad. Those are the 2 emotions that people have as far as he is

concerned ---- happy or mad. So, if I don't go around with a smile on my face

and

upbeat, then he will think I am mad at him and that gets him down. Nothing

like walking into the doc's office and having your sick kid tell the doc " Mom

mad, I sick. "

Take care, Everyone.

Margaret

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