Re: stay away from negative people for CMT health

[Guest guest]

I love my mother but ....boy is she ever hard to deal with! She gets me soooooo

stressed out. There are time I wonder if I belong to her..LoLs

Always knocking me down as well as Russ. We are both disabled and do the best we

can,we get no help. No matter how hard we try is it never good enough but

everyone else is! We are the only ones that do things for her but she caters to

everyone else.

Ever since I can remember I could never please her,and NEVER remember getting

ANY compliments " EVER " now or when I was growing up.....Got my CMT from my dad

she wasn't kind to him either he is gone now hope he is in a better place.

She was very ashamed of him and mocked his walk, does she do that to me too I

wonder??...Don't recall getting any hugs, kisses,or joined conversations let

alone complements from either one of them........why should I expect it from my

mother now she is 88 years old !Been waiting all my life .....it isn't going to

happen!

She isn't insulting to me when she hasn't anyone else, then she starts in again

when she is with her friends or needs something.

Geri....still competing for some kind of acceptance.

[Guest guest]

Hi Caroline,

Oh boy This Is So True! I agree with you 100%. That's why I started , I was

sick of CMT negativity in persons lives. Our quality of life is too precious for

us to ruin. Even Wheeler, in her book " Shadows on the Ceiling " rises from

an early life with CMT of major negativity and with each step she takes, she

turns a negative to positive. It is remarkable.

(for anyone who has joined us recently, 's book can be ordered from

susan@... - us code " GG " and will donate a % towards

our conference.

Gretchen

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> Some people are very negative. Even without CMT, for them, the end of world

seems to be coming soon.

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> I have met a lot in my life. Stay away from them, they do no good to CMT and

our quality of lives.

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> Caroline

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[Guest guest]

Geri,

These are almost the same things my mom does. But along with all that, my father

molested me during my whole childhood. I just don't go around my family.

[Guest guest]

leave people who don't know how to love and cherish behind

move forward to create the kind of life we want

parents are just ordinary human beings, they are not God, leave them behind

and start to live and enjoy ur own life

When you die, do u really want to feel that u never live a happy life

because of others' problems.....

To live our own happy lives, we don't need recognitions or permissions from

anyone else

You decide and create ur own lives.........not other people

leave the dysfunctional family of origin behind and search for and find

people who know how to care about and love you

On Mon, Aug 9, 2010 at 11:04 AM, <pqksmith@...> wrote:

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> Geri,

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> These are almost the same things my mom does. But along with all that, my

> father molested me during my whole childhood. I just don't go around my

> family.

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[Guest guest]

This is nothing to do with CMT:

I highly recommend (a) therapy; and ( the police © from your mother's

attitude,

your mother probably knew.

You will not be better until this is resolved. Hiding from it will cause

trouble the rest of your life.

Thank You

Jerry Walfish

703 862 6789 Cell

609 301 8680 Home

Map & Directions: www.schmap.me/walfishj

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From: <pqksmith@...>

Sent: Sun, August 8, 2010 11:04:07 PM

Subject: Re: Re: stay away from negative people for CMT health

Geri,

These are almost the same things my mom does. But along with all that, my father

molested me during my whole childhood. I just don't go around my family.

[Guest guest]

This is not about CMT

This is about abuse ---- no one has the right to abuse other people or to be

abused by other people

everyone is an unique and precious human being

On Tue, Aug 10, 2010 at 1:03 AM, Jerry Walfish <walfishj@...> wrote:

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>

> This is nothing to do with CMT:

> I highly recommend (a) therapy; and ( the police © from your mother's

> attitude,

> your mother probably knew.

> You will not be better until this is resolved. Hiding from it will cause

> trouble the rest of your life.

> Thank You

>

> Jerry Walfish

> 703 862 6789 Cell

> 609 301 8680 Home

> Map & Directions: www.schmap.me/walfishj

>

> ________________________________

> From: <pqksmith@... <pqksmith%40sbcglobal.net>>

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> Sent: Sun, August 8, 2010 11:04:07 PM

> Subject: Re: Re: stay away from negative people for CMT health

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> Geri,

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> These are almost the same things my mom does. But along with all that, my

> father

> molested me during my whole childhood. I just don't go around my family.

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[Guest guest]

I moved on a long time ago.  My husband's family is my support system and I feel

good about myself again. I surround myself with happy & upbeat people who care

about me.

 

L.

Wichita, KS

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[Guest guest]

I have seen a therapist, my father is dead now & my mother did know it was going

on. She is the one who chooses to have an issue.  I am happy with my decision to

not go around my family, but I pray for them every day that one day they

will  " see the light " and understand the things I went through.  It is up to

them.

L.

Wichita, KS