Re: OT/ Ain't life grand...starting over sooner than expected.

[Guest guest]

Ebony my heart goes out too.

you and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Maybe you should call a lawyer and see if they can give you some free legal

advice

Do you have children,

Then maybe you can get state aid.

.

Ebony <stillbreathing29@...> wrote: I knew it. I have brought this

subject up before and it seemed to

take on a life of its own back then. But I knew this day was coming

and I tried very hard to prepare for it, but there is only so much

preparing you can do with RA. I took on contractor work from home

to get prepared financially and the next thing I knew is that I was

in the hospital with blood clots in the lungs, fluid around my heart,

cat scratch fever, failing kidneys, etc. It has been a long recovery

and I am still recovering, but I was just told by a very upset

husband on his way from work that he is considering leaving his job,

getting a divorce, then finding something he really wants to do. In

that order. I knew this was coming. There were just too many

hints. He paced like a mad man while I was in the hospital. He

didn't want to be there. Not everyone is in agreement with the vow

that says through sickness and health. And I knew that, so I tried

to prepare but looks like the rug has been pulled from underneath

me. I am not shocked and devastated but I do need to get myself

together and I rather not wait until the last minute.

Okay, the house is not paid for, so that means I will be starting

over with very little means to start over if he will be quitting the

job first then divorcing, strange isn't? You can e-mail me

personally with how you started over with little cash.

Thanks.

Ebony

[Guest guest]

Hang in thee sweetie! Bless your heart. I will keep

you in my thoughts and prayers kim

--- Ebony <stillbreathing29@...> wrote:

> I knew it. I have brought this subject up before

> and it seemed to

> take on a life of its own back then. But I knew

> this day was coming

> and I tried very hard to prepare for it, but there

> is only so much

> preparing you can do with RA. I took on

> contractor work from home

> to get prepared financially and the next thing I

> knew is that I was

> in the hospital with blood clots in the lungs, fluid

> around my heart,

> cat scratch fever, failing kidneys, etc. It has

> been a long recovery

> and I am still recovering, but I was just told by a

> very upset

> husband on his way from work that he is considering

> leaving his job,

> getting a divorce, then finding something he really

> wants to do. In

> that order. I knew this was coming. There were

> just too many

> hints. He paced like a mad man while I was in the

> hospital. He

> didn't want to be there. Not everyone is in

> agreement with the vow

> that says through sickness and health. And I knew

> that, so I tried

> to prepare but looks like the rug has been pulled

> from underneath

> me. I am not shocked and devastated but I do need

> to get myself

> together and I rather not wait until the last

> minute.

>

> Okay, the house is not paid for, so that means I

> will be starting

> over with very little means to start over if he will

> be quitting the

> job first then divorcing, strange isn't? You can

> e-mail me

> personally with how you started over with little

> cash.

>

> Thanks.

> Ebony

>

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

I'm very sorry to hear this, Ebony. Try to find a good lawyer.

Not an MD

I'll tell you where to go!

Mayo Clinic in Rochester

http://www.mayoclinic.org/rochester

s Hopkins Medicine

http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org

[ ] OT/ Ain't life grand...starting over sooner than

expected.

>I knew it. I have brought this subject up before and it seemed to

> take on a life of its own back then. But I knew this day was coming

> and I tried very hard to prepare for it, but there is only so much

> preparing you can do with RA. I took on contractor work from home

> to get prepared financially and the next thing I knew is that I was

> in the hospital with blood clots in the lungs, fluid around my heart,

> cat scratch fever, failing kidneys, etc. It has been a long recovery

> and I am still recovering, but I was just told by a very upset

> husband on his way from work that he is considering leaving his job,

> getting a divorce, then finding something he really wants to do. In

> that order. I knew this was coming. There were just too many

> hints. He paced like a mad man while I was in the hospital. He

> didn't want to be there. Not everyone is in agreement with the vow

> that says through sickness and health. And I knew that, so I tried

> to prepare but looks like the rug has been pulled from underneath

> me. I am not shocked and devastated but I do need to get myself

> together and I rather not wait until the last minute.

>

> Okay, the house is not paid for, so that means I will be starting

> over with very little means to start over if he will be quitting the

> job first then divorcing, strange isn't? You can e-mail me

> personally with how you started over with little cash.

>

> Thanks.

> Ebony

[Guest guest]

Thank you .

I didn't want to do that and really wanted to handle it my way with

little fuss. However, looks like I might have to hire one.

take care.