Re: problem with dad.....new discovery...

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does he attends any school ?

[Guest guest]

he should be at the special school but due to his agressiveness and behaviours

i decided to see if we can get some help to ride this time through with some

medical help... he was always good at school, enjoyed it etc i guess things

chang

e.....why do u ask?

regards.

xxxxx

Re: problem with dad.....new discovery...

Date: Mon, 30 Apr 2012 17:11:02 -0400 (EDT)

> does he attends any school ?

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I see a lot of children that have problems with school having off behaviours at home, mine was one of them, they stopped when he was excluded from school and now he is home tutored.

Other explanation is that in his odd way he is trying to understand emotions, to one action he is expecting a reaction if the person in question is not responding that way, i.e, crying that is puzzling him and he is not understanding it so he is forcing the expected answer from the person. Have you explained emotions to him? I know that a lot of times is complicated due to their ragging but I am starting it with my son as he has become more cooperative.

Scerts website has some downloading pictures that most helpful.

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,

thanks for your reply. could it also be a puberty dad is the bady in

the family type attitude, maybe trying to show u are not the main man around

ere....

Its funny cause the relationship with dad has always been very good and now for

over a year it is like we dont understand what he wants from dad.... With me ,

if i make a noise with my lips that sounds like a kiss then i have to make the

kiss noise to ends the obsession or finish off the cycle if u know what i

mean...

put with dad we dont know the cycle...

Another thing i noticed today was he was annoyed with a lady i have fpr home

care for a few hours so i can function and he was angry with her for reasons

again we dont understand.... seems with her and dad he has problems with hands,

the way they use them or express i dont know... she was fixing some flowers in

the garden and afetr or during the procedure he has been angry......he wanted to

comfront her, and i suspect to show his anger towards her.... maybe in the same

way as with dad to cry and then it will be completed but i choose to go car go

for a ride and come back have a bath and relax....fortunatly he was ok but i did

notice before we left home he pointed to where this person was in other words

take me there, and verballyin the voice of the disney films he watches saying

dont go ok type thing...i may be wrong but i shall be even

more careful to his verbal output, just maybe he is trying to say what he

wants.....Anyway

thanks...

ps how old is your son ?

chriso

Re: problem with dad.....new discovery...

Date: Mon, 30 Apr 2012 18:01:32 -0400 (EDT)

> I see a lot of children that have problems with school having off

> behaviours at home, mine was one of them, they stopped when he was excluded

from

> school and now he is home tutored.

> Other explanation is that in his odd way he is trying to understand

> emotions, to one action he is expecting a reaction if the person in question

is

> not responding that way, i.e, crying that is puzzling him and he is not

> understanding it so he is forcing the expected answer from the person. Have

you

> explained emotions to him? I know that a lot of times is complicated due to

> their ragging but I am starting it with my son as he has become more

> cooperative.

> Scerts website has some downloading pictures that most helpful.

>

>