Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 Rude and sarcastic does not belong on a List where people are suppose to be here to get and give support. None of us are 100% and not all of of us are always going to agree on all things, but disagreement needs to at least be kept polite. What was getting through was very bad, and what was behind the scenes that you never saw was even worse. You should never be afraid to say what you feel Joyceann, this is your List, too. Love, Sheena Hi everyone,Recently it has been brought to my attention that my comment regarding 's disagreement regarding medication scheduling was seen as my 'blaming' him for his relapse. I truely was not meaning that nor was I blaming him for his relapse. I was questioning whether his medication schedule, not taking his riba 12 hours apart or even his insistance that he could take a full day's dose in one dose 'MAY' have played a part in his relaspe. This virus is very sneaky and can and does work hard to sneak around the blood levels of the antiviral. What I was wondering is IF THAT may have played a part in his relapse, I certainly was NOT BLAMING HIM for it tho. IM very sorry and I appologize to anyone who thought that I was blaming him for it because that truely was not meant to be that way.We sometimes can misunderstand what someone is saying when its only in the written context as we cannot look at someone, we cannot see their face and intonation given. I can say adamantly tho that I was NOT blaming HIM for his relapse.Love ya all, jax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 thanks for the reply sorry you guys had to go thru the behind the scene crap, but its all over, and i love you all, lets all get along!!!!thanks have a geat day,, xoxSheena wrote: Rude and sarcastic does not belong on a List where people are suppose to be here to get and give support. None of us are 100% and not all of of us are always going to agree on all things, but disagreement needs to at least be kept polite. What was getting through was very bad, and what was behind the scenes that you never saw was even worse. You should never be afraid to say what you feel Joyceann, this is your List, too. Love, Sheena Hi everyone,Recently it has been brought to my attention that my comment regarding 's disagreement regarding medication scheduling was seen as my 'blaming' him for his relapse. I truely was not meaning that nor was I blaming him for his relapse. I was questioning whether his medication schedule, not taking his riba 12 hours apart or even his insistance that he could take a full day's dose in one dose 'MAY' have played a part in his relaspe. This virus is very sneaky and can and does work hard to sneak around the blood levels of the antiviral. What I was wondering is IF THAT may have played a part in his relapse, I certainly was NOT BLAMING HIM for it tho. IM very sorry and I appologize to anyone who thought that I was blaming him for it because that truely was not meant to be that way.We sometimes can misunderstand what someone is saying when its only in the written context as we cannot look at someone, we cannot see their face and intonation given. I can say adamantly tho that I was NOT blaming HIM for his relapse.Love ya all, jax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 I agree. Everyone of us here is suffering, trying to find answers, and looking for a 'shoulder'. That is why we come here, or we would go play poker in the poker room, drink beer, cuss, smoke cigars, and be one of the gang. Now if you want to tell me to 'eat sh*t and die', I DEMAND you say it with a smile. Then I want a hug. Ugli is what we are already facing, and dont need more heaped on our heads. [funnin but serious too.......?did I say that right?''] love don Hi everyone,Recently it has been brought to my attention that my comment regarding 's disagreement regarding medication scheduling was seen as my 'blaming' him for his relapse. I truely was not meaning that nor was I blaming him for his relapse. I was questioning whether his medication schedule, not taking his riba 12 hours apart or even his insistance that he could take a full day's dose in one dose 'MAY' have played a part in his relaspe. This virus is very sneaky and can and does work hard to sneak around the blood levels of the antiviral. What I was wondering is IF THAT may have played a part in his relapse, I certainly was NOT BLAMING HIM for it tho. IM very sorry and I appologize to anyone who thought that I was blaming him for it because that truely was not meant to be that way.We sometimes can misunderstand what someone is saying when its only in the written context as we cannot look at someone, we cannot see their face and intonation given. I can say adamantly tho that I was NOT blaming HIM for his relapse.Love ya all, jax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 We are glad to move on, as well, hope yours is a good one!.. Hugs, Sheena Hi everyone,Recently it has been brought to my attention that my comment regarding 's disagreement regarding medication scheduling was seen as my 'blaming' him for his relapse. I truely was not meaning that nor was I blaming him for his relapse. I was questioning whether his medication schedule, not taking his riba 12 hours apart or even his insistance that he could take a full day's dose in one dose 'MAY' have played a part in his relaspe. This virus is very sneaky and can and does work hard to sneak around the blood levels of the antiviral. What I was wondering is IF THAT may have played a part in his relapse, I certainly was NOT BLAMING HIM for it tho. IM very sorry and I appologize to anyone who thought that I was blaming him for it because that truely was not meant to be that way.We sometimes can misunderstand what someone is saying when its only in the written context as we cannot look at someone, we cannot see their face and intonation given. I can say adamantly tho that I was NOT blaming HIM for his relapse.Love ya all, jax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 Amen to that Joyceann! Luv anne You don't have to be handicapped to be different.Everybody's different!Kim Peek Re: Joyceann thanks for the reply sorry you guys had to go thru the behind the scene crap, but its all over, and i love you all, lets all get along!!!!thanks have a geat day,, xoxSheena wrote: Rude and sarcastic does not belong on a List where people are suppose to be here to get and give support. None of us are 100% and not all of of us are always going to agree on all things, but disagreement needs to at least be kept polite. What was getting through was very bad, and what was behind the scenes that you never saw was even worse. You should never be afraid to say what you feel Joyceann, this is your List, too. Love, Sheena Hi everyone,Recently it has been brought to my attention that my comment regarding 's disagreement regarding medication scheduling was seen as my 'blaming' him for his relapse. I truely was not meaning that nor was I blaming him for his relapse. I was questioning whether his medication schedule, not taking his riba 12 hours apart or even his insistance that he could take a full day's dose in one dose 'MAY' have played a part in his relaspe. This virus is very sneaky and can and does work hard to sneak around the blood levels of the antiviral. What I was wondering is IF THAT may have played a part in his relapse, I certainly was NOT BLAMING HIM for it tho. IM very sorry and I appologize to anyone who thought that I was blaming him for it because that truely was not meant to be that way.We sometimes can misunderstand what someone is saying when its only in the written context as we cannot look at someone, we cannot see their face and intonation given. I can say adamantly tho that I was NOT blaming HIM for his relapse.Love ya all, jax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 Well said, Don. There aren't enough hugs in the world for us, yet each time I get one, I get shivers up my arms - the best shivers of love and warmth. I'd love to be able to back to the gang, cussin and laughing at b.s. Can't and won't, but I still miss it. And that's partly where the headmeds come in. To distract us from our old diversions for the sake of sanity. I have my share of meds, and I'm fairly happy most of the time, if not just indifferent. All relative, but just like you, trying to avoid the bummers. Keep up your honest work, my friend. You're a character and remind us of our own forgotten characters. > > > Hi everyone, > Recently it has been brought to my attention that my comment regarding > 's disagreement regarding medication scheduling was seen as > my 'blaming' him for his relapse. I truely was not meaning that nor > was I blaming him for his relapse. I was questioning whether his > medication schedule, not taking his riba 12 hours apart or even his > insistance that he could take a full day's dose in one dose 'MAY' have > played a part in his relaspe. This virus is very sneaky and can and > does work hard to sneak around the blood levels of the antiviral. What > I was wondering is IF THAT may have played a part in his relapse, I > certainly was NOT BLAMING HIM for it tho. IM very sorry and I > appologize to anyone who thought that I was blaming him for it because > that truely was not meant to be that way. > We sometimes can misunderstand what someone is saying when its only in > the written context as we cannot look at someone, we cannot see their > face and intonation given. > I can say adamantly tho that I was NOT blaming HIM for his relapse. > Love ya all, > jax > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 AMEN Don,,, thats a great idea! Hi everyone,Recently it has been brought to my attention that my comment regarding 's disagreement regarding medication scheduling was seen as my 'blaming' him for his relapse. I truely was not meaning that nor was I blaming him for his relapse. I was questioning whether his medication schedule, not taking his riba 12 hours apart or even his insistance that he could take a full day's dose in one dose 'MAY' have played a part in his relaspe. This virus is very sneaky and can and does work hard to sneak around the blood levels of the antiviral. What I was wondering is IF THAT may have played a part in his relapse, I certainly was NOT BLAMING HIM for it tho. IM very sorry and I appologize to anyone who thought that I was blaming him for it because that truely was not meant to be that way.We sometimes can misunderstand what someone is saying when its only in the written context as we cannot look at someone, we cannot see their face and intonation given. I can say adamantly tho that I was NOT blaming HIM for his relapse.Love ya all, jax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2008 Report Share Posted December 3, 2008 AMEN,, and you're right,, what was going on behind the scenes was horrible, at least for me it was.. and it was soooo unnecessary! now lets get on with supporting one another, lol Hi everyone,Recently it has been brought to my attention that my comment regarding 's disagreement regarding medication scheduling was seen as my 'blaming' him for his relapse. I truely was not meaning that nor was I blaming him for his relapse. I was questioning whether his medication schedule, not taking his riba 12 hours apart or even his insistance that he could take a full day's dose in one dose 'MAY' have played a part in his relaspe. This virus is very sneaky and can and does work hard to sneak around the blood levels of the antiviral. What I was wondering is IF THAT may have played a part in his relapse, I certainly was NOT BLAMING HIM for it tho. IM very sorry and I appologize to anyone who thought that I was blaming him for it because that truely was not meant to be that way.We sometimes can misunderstand what someone is saying when its only in the written context as we cannot look at someone, we cannot see their face and intonation given. I can say adamantly tho that I was NOT blaming HIM for his relapse.Love ya all, jax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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