Re: Up Date/ Ebony/Re: need to vent OT

[Guest guest]

The RA community sounds really nice Ebony, where we

could ask each other...and know that the other would

understand. I have thought about it. Being single

makes you think about what happens when you get worse.

I keep thinking of a small farmhouse (not the farm!)

in the country where there could be a small

garden...and lots of space to be outside under the

trees to relax in the hammock and have " group "

everyday where everyone could vent..(can't you see all

the hammocks in a circle and a table of lemonaid in

the middle??).It would have to have a lot of bedrooms

though! But I have found that women friends take

better care of each other than anyone else....and that

would be a perfect little community for those that are

single.....and we could drive into town and help out

you married folk with spouses who just don't get it.

MAybe I'll win the lotto... that would help!! Living

on SSDI when you are single isn't easy either....so

community living would help that too!! Like we could

pool our food stamps and splurge on a chicken once a

month!!! (ya gotta have a sense of humor to get

throught this!!)...........jenna

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[Guest guest]

Dawn,

I really feel bad for you. You stood up to her and

told her.......and she didn't even hear you! I am so

sorry! Someone suggested earlier that you just not be

home when she comes. While that would probably be

difficult as it would involve getting up very early in

the am (and we all know how hard that is)..maybe at

this point it would have to be something as dramatic

as that for her to realize that you mean business! I

can't remember...is this your mothers sister?? Can't

your mother have a heart to heart with her (or another

family member..father,sister, husband,your other Aunt,

SOMEBODY) and tell her the gravy train is over ($1.50

an hour..that is unheard of!!)and to take her monkeys

and git!!! It's your health Dawn, and the time spent

with your son is special. You can't be there for him

when you are being worn down every day! You need to be

very selfish and think of YOU...your Aunt sure isn't

thinking of you!! Where do you live ...we will all

come over and stand on the porch and chase her off

with brooms!!!! I hope this resolves for you soon. It

will you know one way or another...sometimes you just

can't keep pushing yourself day after day...and this

is worse than any job!!! Just mentally this whole

situatiion is exhausing...let alone chasing monkeys

all day! DO it for yourself!! And for your son! jenna

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[Guest guest]

Jenna,

You are too funny!! I guess we really do have to keep our sense of humor in

all of this.

LOL!

take care,

Ebony

peace and healing,

Ebony

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