A quick explanation for many of my problems-stress...

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Hi!

My pain symptoms have been far worse lately for two reasons: fear of

the future and stress over family members.

First: Fear of the future...that is a huge one for me because my fear

is making my pain worse, which is making my fear worse.

Second: Stress, I have been having troubles with my relationship with

my mom, mostly patched over but still on my mine and just this past

weeks some problems concerning my relationship with my 28 year old

married son have surfaced. It is all far too complicated for me to go

into, but he has basically stated that in many ways, I was not a good

parent to him and this breaks my heart because I come from a background

where I was sexually, emotionally and physically abused and for him to

discard my parenting efforts has caused me unbelievable personal pain.

I will be reading posts, but for awhile, I probably will not be posting

much.

I am trying to gain some knowledge about my future health journey. Penny

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Penny, once again you spoke to my heart. I have an estranged son, and he is my

only child. If you ever want to sit and chat online I'm here.

[ ] A quick explanation for many of my problems-stress...

Hi!

My pain symptoms have been far worse lately for two reasons: fear of

the future and stress over family members.

First: Fear of the future...that is a huge one for me because my fear

is making my pain worse, which is making my fear worse.

Second: Stress, I have been having troubles with my relationship with

my mom, mostly patched over but still on my mine and just this past

weeks some problems concerning my relationship with my 28 year old

married son have surfaced. It is all far too complicated for me to go

into, but he has basically stated that in many ways, I was not a good

parent to him and this breaks my heart because I come from a background

where I was sexually, emotionally and physically abused and for him to

discard my parenting efforts has caused me unbelievable personal pain.

I will be reading posts, but for awhile, I probably will not be posting

much.

I am trying to gain some knowledge about my future health journey. Penny

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Penny,

I am so sorry for your pain. Children tend to blam the parents especially

if they are going through some hard times themselves you must trust in your

heart you were a good parent. Let him work through it and just take care of

yourself.

I know it is easy to say but just do what you can and then let the rest work

itself out. I will say a prayer for you if you need to just vent I am here

Marsha

pennygruetz <PennyGruetz@...> wrote:

Hi!

My pain symptoms have been far worse lately for two reasons: fear of

the future and stress over family members.

First: Fear of the future...that is a huge one for me because my fear

is making my pain worse, which is making my fear worse.

Second: Stress, I have been having troubles with my relationship with

my mom, mostly patched over but still on my mine and just this past

weeks some problems concerning my relationship with my 28 year old

married son have surfaced. It is all far too complicated for me to go

into, but he has basically stated that in many ways, I was not a good

parent to him and this breaks my heart because I come from a background

where I was sexually, emotionally and physically abused and for him to

discard my parenting efforts has caused me unbelievable personal pain.

I will be reading posts, but for awhile, I probably will not be posting

much.

I am trying to gain some knowledge about my future health journey. Penny