Guest guest Posted May 12, 2012 Report Share Posted May 12, 2012 Oh no! Same here, . It sure sounds like he's already working hard at finding the next thing. You never know. Sometimes things happen surprisingly fast. I hope you're done with the suspense soon! Prayers are headed your way!! Been there, done that too many times. What field of work is he in? Indyrose > > DH just got word yesterday that his job is being eliminated. The company is losing their last client for his department and they're closing up the department. The economy is improving but we're still close to Detroit which means it isn't great so I'm nervous (okay, scared is a better word but trying to trust God who has brought us through so many things before). He is being paid through May 31 (his last paycheck) but we don't know if our health insurance will be paid for June yet. Since there's very little work to do (and hasn't been much for a while, we should have seen this coming but ignored it) his boss told him he can come in as long as he wants to or clear out and do what he wants (like look for a new job) but he'll still be paid for the month. I'm not sure what his plan is but he didn't clear out his stuff Friday so he'll probably at least go in for a while on Monday. We've been through this before, most recently at the end of 2008 and I hate the anxiety most of all. He already started making contacts and applying for jobs as of yesterday afternoon (after his boss told him to go home, he was hanging around trying to work after being told and his boss felt bad and told him he meant for him to take the rest of the day off for sure) so that was good. I started making contacts at WW telling everyone I can sub for them and telling my At Work coordinator that I can take on more classes. I even emailed my assistant mangager and asked about full or part-time positions at headquarters. We'll see what happens. Anyway, any kind thoughts and prayers sent our way will be much appreciated. We haven't told the kids yet, but probably will tonight. I know it will eventually work out but this stinks being in the middle of it first. > > I'm on my way to a Mother-Daughter Banquet at church, I hate these things but I'm going. > > > ------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2012 Report Share Posted May 12, 2012 Prayers sent. Losing my job is up there in #1 fears now that I'm a homeowner. I live alone and am the only bread winner, so I understand this panic you must be feeling. I know Detroit's economic situation is worse than others too UG! Thinking good thoughts for your family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2012 Report Share Posted May 12, 2012 Thanks, Indy! He's a tech writer. He worked for the auto companies for 20 years as a contractor, then in 2008 was laid off from a job at Chrysler and got the job he's ending now which was doing customer service support for a small software company (not as a contractor though). We've been through it three other times (in 2008 and twice in the 1990s). This time and last time were scarier than in the '90s though because we didn't have kids and I was working then too. Plus we both have medical histories now and must maintain health insurance (and paying COBRA rates will mean unemployment will go almost entirely for that). I've been working these last two times but at WW we refer to ourselves as being "paid volunteers." I'm doing a little better than that because I work so many hours already but it still isn't anything we can live off. My dad will help us if we need it but I absolutely hate asking for help or even accepting it when he just gives it to me but I know he doesn't resent it at all and I just have to swallow my pride if it comes to that. Anyway, that's it... Re: prayers please Prayers are headed your way!! Been there, done that too many times. What field of work is he in?Indyrose>> DH just got word yesterday that his job is being eliminated. The company is losing their last client for his department and they're closing up the department. The economy is improving but we're still close to Detroit which means it isn't great so I'm nervous (okay, scared is a better word but trying to trust God who has brought us through so many things before). He is being paid through May 31 (his last paycheck) but we don't know if our health insurance will be paid for June yet. Since there's very little work to do (and hasn't been much for a while, we should have seen this coming but ignored it) his boss told him he can come in as long as he wants to or clear out and do what he wants (like look for a new job) but he'll still be paid for the month. I'm not sure what his plan is but he didn't clear out his stuff Friday so he'll probably at least go in for a while on Monday. We've been through this before, most recently at the end of 2008 and I hate the anxiety most of all. He already started making contacts and applying for jobs as of yesterday afternoon (after his boss told him to go home, he was hanging around trying to work after being told and his boss felt bad and told him he meant for him to take the rest of the day off for sure) so that was good. I started making contacts at WW telling everyone I can sub for them and telling my At Work coordinator that I can take on more classes. I even emailed my assistant mangager and asked about full or part-time positions at headquarters. We'll see what happens. Anyway, any kind thoughts and prayers sent our way will be much appreciated. We haven't told the kids yet, but probably will tonight. I know it will eventually work out but this stinks being in the middle of it first.> > I'm on my way to a Mother-Daughter Banquet at church, I hate these things but I'm going.> > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2012 Report Share Posted May 12, 2012 Thanks, ! He is moving fast and I'm grateful for it. He's not up to speed with all the electronic resume and job search stuff so a friend got him into linked in and is giving him some help learning all that (and I don't know anything about it either). Ugh. I hope it all works quickly. I hate this a lot. Re: Re: prayers please Oh no! Same here, . It sure sounds like he's already working hard at finding the next thing. You never know. Sometimes things happen surprisingly fast. I hope you're done with the suspense soon! Prayers are headed your way!! Been there, done that too many times. What field of work is he in?Indyrose >> DH just got word yesterday that his job is being eliminated. The company is losing their last client for his department and they're closing up the department. The economy is improving but we're still close to Detroit which means it isn't great so I'm nervous (okay, scared is a better word but trying to trust God who has brought us through so many things before). He is being paid through May 31 (his last paycheck) but we don't know if our health insurance will be paid for June yet. Since there's very little work to do (and hasn't been much for a while, we should have seen this coming but ignored it) his boss told him he can come in as long as he wants to or clear out and do what he wants (like look for a new job) but he'll still be paid for the month. I'm not sure what his plan is but he didn't clear out his stuff Friday so he'll probably at least go in for a while on Monday. We've been through this before, most recently at the end of 2008 and I hate the anxiety most of all. He already started making contacts and applying for jobs as of yesterday afternoon (after his boss told him to go home, he was hanging around trying to work after being told and his boss felt bad and told him he meant for him to take the rest of the day off for sure) so that was good. I started making contacts at WW telling everyone I can sub for them and telling my At Work coordinator that I can take on more classes. I even emailed my assistant mangager and asked about full or part-time positions at headquarters. We'll see what happens. Anyway, any kind thoughts and prayers sent our way will be much appreciated. We haven't told the kids yet, but probably will tonight. I know it will eventually work out but this stinks being in the middle of it first.>> I'm on my way to a Mother-Daughter Banquet at church, I hate these things but I'm going.>> >------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2012 Report Share Posted May 12, 2012 Thank you so much, !! Re: Re: prayers please Prayers sent. Losing my job is up there in #1 fears now that I'm a homeowner. I live alone and am the only bread winner, so I understand this panic you must be feeling. I know Detroit's economic situation is worse than others too UG! Thinking good thoughts for your family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2012 Report Share Posted May 12, 2012 Wishing you the best . My husband lost his job in August of last year so I know how you feel. My prayers are with you and your family. Take Care!Di To: exercisevideos Sent: Saturday, May 12, 2012 3:56 PM Subject: Re: Re: prayers please Thanks, ! He is moving fast and I'm grateful for it. He's not up to speed with all the electronic resume and job search stuff so a friend got him into linked in and is giving him some help learning all that (and I don't know anything about it either). Ugh. I hope it all works quickly. I hate this a lot. Re: Re: prayers please Oh no! Same here, . It sure sounds like he's already working hard at finding the next thing. You never know. Sometimes things happen surprisingly fast. I hope you're done with the suspense soon! Prayers are headed your way!! Been there, done that too many times. What field of work is he in?Indyrose >> DH just got word yesterday that his job is being eliminated. The company is losing their last client for his department and they're closing up the department. The economy is improving but we're still close to Detroit which means it isn't great so I'm nervous (okay, scared is a better word but trying to trust God who has brought us through so many things before). He is being paid through May 31 (his last paycheck) but we don't know if our health insurance will be paid for June yet. Since there's very little work to do (and hasn't been much for a while, we should have seen this coming but ignored it) his boss told him he can come in as long as he wants to or clear out and do what he wants (like look for a new job) but he'll still be paid for the month. I'm not sure what his plan is but he didn't clear out his stuff Friday so he'll probably at least go in for a while on Monday. We've been through this before, most recently at the end of 2008 and I hate the anxiety most of all. He already started making contacts and applying for jobs as of yesterday afternoon (after his boss told him to go home, he was hanging around trying to work after being told and his boss felt bad and told him he meant for him to take the rest of the day off for sure) so that was good. I started making contacts at WW telling everyone I can sub for them and telling my At Work coordinator that I can take on more classes. I even emailed my assistant mangager and asked about full or part-time positions at headquarters. We'll see what happens. Anyway, any kind thoughts and prayers sent our way will be much appreciated. We haven't told the kids yet, but probably will tonight. I know it will eventually work out but this stinks being in the middle of it first.>> I'm on my way to a Mother-Daughter Banquet at church, I hate these things but I'm going.>> >------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2012 Report Share Posted May 12, 2012  Thank you so much, Di! Is your husband working now? I hope so. Thank you again! Re: Re: prayers please Oh no! Same here, . It sure sounds like he's already working hard at finding the next thing. You never know. Sometimes things happen surprisingly fast. I hope you're done with the suspense soon! Prayers are headed your way!! Been there, done that too many times. What field of work is he in?Indyrose >> DH just got word yesterday that his job is being eliminated. The company is losing their last client for his department and they're closing up the department. The economy is improving but we're still close to Detroit which means it isn't great so I'm nervous (okay, scared is a better word but trying to trust God who has brought us through so many things before). He is being paid through May 31 (his last paycheck) but we don't know if our health insurance will be paid for June yet. Since there's very little work to do (and hasn't been much for a while, we should have seen this coming but ignored it) his boss told him he can come in as long as he wants to or clear out and do what he wants (like look for a new job) but he'll still be paid for the month. I'm not sure what his plan is but he didn't clear out his stuff Friday so he'll probably at least go in for a while on Monday. We've been through this before, most recently at the end of 2008 and I hate the anxiety most of all. He already started making contacts and applying for jobs as of yesterday afternoon (after his boss told him to go home, he was hanging around trying to work after being told and his boss felt bad and told him he meant for him to take the rest of the day off for sure) so that was good. I started making contacts at WW telling everyone I can sub for them and telling my At Work coordinator that I can take on more classes. I even emailed my assistant mangager and asked about full or part-time positions at headquarters. We'll see what happens. Anyway, any kind thoughts and prayers sent our way will be much appreciated. We haven't told the kids yet, but probably will tonight. I know it will eventually work out but this stinks being in the middle of it first.>> I'm on my way to a Mother-Daughter Banquet at church, I hate these things but I'm going.>> >------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2012 Report Share Posted May 12, 2012 Wow, 3 years! I can't imagine that. I'm so glad your husband is working again, Ronda. Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers too! Re: prayers please ,I'm so sorry to hear about that. My husband was out of work for 3 years, except for side jobs once in awhile, and it was very rough. (He's been finally working again for 6 months now.) But I know exactly what you are going through, and how much of a mental strain it is. I am hoping and praying for the best for your family in the coming weeks, and I hope your husband finds a new job very soon!Ronda>> DH just got word yesterday that his job is being eliminated. The company is losing their last client for his department and they're closing up the department. The economy is improving but we're still close to Detroit which means it isn't great so I'm nervous (okay, scared is a better word but trying to trust God who has brought us through so many things before). He is being paid through May 31 (his last paycheck) but we don't know if our health insurance will be paid for June yet. Since there's very little work to do (and hasn't been much for a while, we should have seen this coming but ignored it) his boss told him he can come in as long as he wants to or clear out and do what he wants (like look for a new job) but he'll still be paid for the month. I'm not sure what his plan is but he didn't clear out his stuff Friday so he'll probably at least go in for a while on Monday. We've been through this before, most recently at the end of 2008 and I hate the anxiety most of all. He already started making contacts and applying for jobs as of yesterday afternoon (after his boss told him to go home, he was hanging around trying to work after being told and his boss felt bad and told him he meant for him to take the rest of the day off for sure) so that was good. I started making contacts at WW telling everyone I can sub for them and telling my At Work coordinator that I can take on more classes. I even emailed my assistant mangager and asked about full or part-time positions at headquarters. We'll see what happens. Anyway, any kind thoughts and prayers sent our way will be much appreciated. We haven't told the kids yet, but probably will tonight. I know it will eventually work out but this stinks being in the middle of it first.> > I'm on my way to a Mother-Daughter Banquet at church, I hate these things but I'm going.> > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2012 Report Share Posted May 17, 2012 Hi ,Unfortunately, my husband has still not found employment. He has been on many job interviews, some requiring phone, face to face and then a group interview, he has made it to the final 2, but no job. We figure he must be close to his turn. However, I was able to get full time work, so we were able to get health benefits thru my employer. Hang in there! Wishing you and your family the best!Di To: exercisevideos Sent: Saturday, May 12, 2012 9:44 PM Subject: Re: Re: prayers please  Thank you so much, Di! Is your husband working now? I hope so. Thank you again! Re: Re: prayers please Oh no! Same here, . It sure sounds like he's already working hard at finding the next thing. You never know. Sometimes things happen surprisingly fast. I hope you're done with the suspense soon! Prayers are headed your way!! Been there, done that too many times. What field of work is he in?Indyrose >> DH just got word yesterday that his job is being eliminated. The company is losing their last client for his department and they're closing up the department. The economy is improving but we're still close to Detroit which means it isn't great so I'm nervous (okay, scared is a better word but trying to trust God who has brought us through so many things before). He is being paid through May 31 (his last paycheck) but we don't know if our health insurance will be paid for June yet. Since there's very little work to do (and hasn't been much for a while, we should have seen this coming but ignored it) his boss told him he can come in as long as he wants to or clear out and do what he wants (like look for a new job) but he'll still be paid for the month. I'm not sure what his plan is but he didn't clear out his stuff Friday so he'll probably at least go in for a while on Monday. We've been through this before, most recently at the end of 2008 and I hate the anxiety most of all. He already started making contacts and applying for jobs as of yesterday afternoon (after his boss told him to go home, he was hanging around trying to work after being told and his boss felt bad and told him he meant for him to take the rest of the day off for sure) so that was good. I started making contacts at WW telling everyone I can sub for them and telling my At Work coordinator that I can take on more classes. I even emailed my assistant mangager and asked about full or part-time positions at headquarters. We'll see what happens. Anyway, any kind thoughts and prayers sent our way will be much appreciated. We haven't told the kids yet, but probably will tonight. I know it will eventually work out but this stinks being in the middle of it first.>> I'm on my way to a Mother-Daughter Banquet at church, I hate these things but I'm going.>> >------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2012 Report Share Posted May 17, 2012  Hi Di, So sorry your husband is still unemployed! I'm glad you were able to get work & benefits. My job is part-time with no benefits but I love it so I'm praying it doesn't come down to me giving it up to make sure one of us is employed. I hope it is your husband's turn (and mine) very soon!! Re: Re: prayers please Oh no! Same here, . It sure sounds like he's already working hard at finding the next thing. You never know. Sometimes things happen surprisingly fast. I hope you're done with the suspense soon! Prayers are headed your way!! Been there, done that too many times. What field of work is he in?Indyrose >> DH just got word yesterday that his job is being eliminated. The company is losing their last client for his department and they're closing up the department. The economy is improving but we're still close to Detroit which means it isn't great so I'm nervous (okay, scared is a better word but trying to trust God who has brought us through so many things before). He is being paid through May 31 (his last paycheck) but we don't know if our health insurance will be paid for June yet. Since there's very little work to do (and hasn't been much for a while, we should have seen this coming but ignored it) his boss told him he can come in as long as he wants to or clear out and do what he wants (like look for a new job) but he'll still be paid for the month. I'm not sure what his plan is but he didn't clear out his stuff Friday so he'll probably at least go in for a while on Monday. We've been through this before, most recently at the end of 2008 and I hate the anxiety most of all. He already started making contacts and applying for jobs as of yesterday afternoon (after his boss told him to go home, he was hanging around trying to work after being told and his boss felt bad and told him he meant for him to take the rest of the day off for sure) so that was good. I started making contacts at WW telling everyone I can sub for them and telling my At Work coordinator that I can take on more classes. I even emailed my assistant mangager and asked about full or part-time positions at headquarters. We'll see what happens. Anyway, any kind thoughts and prayers sent our way will be much appreciated. We haven't told the kids yet, but probably will tonight. I know it will eventually work out but this stinks being in the middle of it first.>> I'm on my way to a Mother-Daughter Banquet at church, I hate these things but I'm going.>> >------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 18, 2012 Report Share Posted May 18, 2012 Thanks! Cheers to both of our husbands finding jobs!Di To: exercisevideos Sent: Thursday, May 17, 2012 10:15 PM Subject: Re: Re: prayers please  Hi Di, So sorry your husband is still unemployed! I'm glad you were able to get work & benefits. My job is part-time with no benefits but I love it so I'm praying it doesn't come down to me giving it up to make sure one of us is employed. I hope it is your husband's turn (and mine) very soon!! Re: Re: prayers please Oh no! Same here, . It sure sounds like he's already working hard at finding the next thing. You never know. Sometimes things happen surprisingly fast. I hope you're done with the suspense soon! Prayers are headed your way!! Been there, done that too many times. What field of work is he in?Indyrose >> DH just got word yesterday that his job is being eliminated. The company is losing their last client for his department and they're closing up the department. The economy is improving but we're still close to Detroit which means it isn't great so I'm nervous (okay, scared is a better word but trying to trust God who has brought us through so many things before). He is being paid through May 31 (his last paycheck) but we don't know if our health insurance will be paid for June yet. Since there's very little work to do (and hasn't been much for a while, we should have seen this coming but ignored it) his boss told him he can come in as long as he wants to or clear out and do what he wants (like look for a new job) but he'll still be paid for the month. I'm not sure what his plan is but he didn't clear out his stuff Friday so he'll probably at least go in for a while on Monday. We've been through this before, most recently at the end of 2008 and I hate the anxiety most of all. He already started making contacts and applying for jobs as of yesterday afternoon (after his boss told him to go home, he was hanging around trying to work after being told and his boss felt bad and told him he meant for him to take the rest of the day off for sure) so that was good. I started making contacts at WW telling everyone I can sub for them and telling my At Work coordinator that I can take on more classes. I even emailed my assistant mangager and asked about full or part-time positions at headquarters. We'll see what happens. Anyway, any kind thoughts and prayers sent our way will be much appreciated. We haven't told the kids yet, but probably will tonight. I know it will eventually work out but this stinks being in the middle of it first.>> I'm on my way to a Mother-Daughter Banquet at church, I hate these things but I'm going.>> >------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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