Guest guest Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 I think all types of sexual behaviour have often a positive influence on sexual functioning. But if it can actually help recovering from PSSD, is uncertain. >T G wrote: " do you think Masterbation could help in recovery from PSSD >or vice versa. " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 you can do it but as long as you take a healthy break from it. Remember extremism of anything is dangerous. > > > What do you think about Masterbation and PSSD? > > do you think Masterbation could help in recovery from PSSD or vice versa. > > do anyone who have PSSD face any problems to Masterbate, or masterbation is much easier in erection than performing sex with a partner. > > > --------------------------------- > Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 > > > What do you think about Masterbation and PSSD? > > do you think Masterbation could help in recovery from PSSD or vice versa. > > do anyone who have PSSD face any problems to Masterbate, or masterbation is much easier in erection than performing sex with a partner. > > > --------------------------------- > Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. >Hi, my name is angie. I noticed your post and would like to share some information with you. My husband suffers from the same symptoms as most people with Pssd. He was on all kinds of medicines for about 14-15 years. He has been completely medicine free since Jan. 2007. At first, he had no trouble masturbating while on the some of the medicines. Then as time went by he noticed that he was starting to have trouble with visual stimulation with porn, then he started loosing the urge to even masturbate (this was before we married). He stopped all medicines expect for Wellbutrin. When we got together that was all he was on. He noticed the trouble being able to have sex. Even masturbating was hard. He would have to " beat it " really hard just to cum. Sex was difficult because he couldn't c**, then he would have such low libido. It was almost the end of our marriage. It was almost easier for him to masturbate behind my back than to have sex with me. In order to save our marriage we made some hardcore choices. First, he decided to stop all forms of medications-not even an aspirin. Next, we started a regiment of natural vitamins, and some amino acids. We also started the one day for men, and he also takes a powder multivitamin called ALIVE (www.vitacost.com) type it in the search box. He started lifting some weights (set of 20 lb. dumb bells). But most importantly he stopped masturbating. Instead, we would try to have sex. When it got difficult he would tell me. Then we would stop and try to talk. He would explain to me what was going on. For example, was he having sensation problems? Was it numb? Was he having problems finishing? Things like that. It was a sensitive subject. We learned to talk about it. We also started to use porn during sex just to help him be more…you know. The reason he stopped masturbating was because I felt he was make it hard for him to get used to the sensation of a " woman " instead of his callas hand. (grins). Now we have sex every day. He climaxes with ease and is able to feel the sensations. We are even able to have sex up 3-4 times a day on good days. The key is to try to have sex even when you have difficulty. He wouldn't even dream of masturbation now. His penis is now use to the gentle sensation of the female anatomy. Good luck. Write back if you have questions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 Hi friend. Well, let me explain our situation. At first it started out slow. I would say about 1 month for some improvement and about 2 for some noticeable change, although through this transition he would still experience some numbness, which would discourage him a lot. During these times it would be most difficult for us because he would start thinking about going back on medicines out of desperation. Just remember that the feeling of getting better will come and go. We still go through some low libido times. It comes in about 2 week periods and then out of the blue we're back in the saddle full throttle. We still continue to have sex during those low times even if we take a break for a day (usually no more than a day). I don't remember if I mentioned that fact that he takes high doses of fish oil. It helps blood flow naturally. Please research this for yourself and be aware of the effects if you have high blood pressure. My husband does but he does not take medication for it, we use the fish oil. (also bought from the vitacost web site. We like the NSI brand. It's high quality and purified from mercury or other impurities. We've stuck to this for a year now and it is working. Believe me when I tell you that we sought out doctors and doctors. We couldn't find anyone who would even acknowledge Pssd. They just wanted him to take more medication, plus medication for depression. Depression medication is used in other countries as " chemical castration " . So what does that tell you? I would go to your doctor and explain things to him or her about being off medication and see how will they are to support you or just try to sell you more drugs. It was hard for us because you want to believe the " medical doctor " . It turned out we had to look out for ourselves. If you have any other questions I'll write back when I read it. later > > > > > > What do you think about Masterbation and PSSD? > > > > do you think Masterbation could help in recovery from PSSD or > vice versa. > > > > do anyone who have PSSD face any problems to Masterbate, or > masterbation is much easier in erection than performing sex with a > partner. > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. > >Hi, my name is angie. I noticed your post and would like to share > some information with you. My husband suffers from the same symptoms > as most people with Pssd. He was on all kinds of medicines for about > 14-15 years. He has been completely medicine free since Jan. 2007. At > first, he had no trouble masturbating while on the some of the > medicines. Then as time went by he noticed that he was starting to > have trouble with visual stimulation with porn, then he started > loosing the urge to even masturbate (this was before we married). He > stopped all medicines expect for Wellbutrin. When we got together > that was all he was on. He noticed the trouble being able to have > sex. Even masturbating was hard. He would have to " beat it " really > hard just to cum. Sex was difficult because he couldn't c**, then he > would have such low libido. It was almost the end of our marriage. It > was almost easier for him to masturbate behind my back than to have > sex with me. In order to save our marriage we made some hardcore > choices. First, he decided to stop all forms of medications-not even > an aspirin. Next, we started a regiment of natural vitamins, and some > amino acids. We also started the one day for men, and he also takes a > powder multivitamin called ALIVE (www.vitacost.com) type it in the > search box. He started lifting some weights (set of 20 lb. dumb > bells). But most importantly he stopped masturbating. Instead, we > would try to have sex. When it got difficult he would tell me. Then > we would stop and try to talk. He would explain to me what was going > on. For example, was he having sensation problems? Was it numb? Was > he having problems finishing? Things like that. It was a sensitive > subject. We learned to talk about it. We also started to use porn > during sex just to help him be more…you know. > The reason he stopped masturbating was because I felt he was make it > hard for him to get used to the sensation of a " woman " instead of his > callas hand. (grins). Now we have sex every day. He climaxes with > ease and is able to feel the sensations. We are even able to have sex > up 3-4 times a day on good days. The key is to try to have sex even > when you have difficulty. He wouldn't even dream of masturbation now. > His penis is now use to the gentle sensation of the female anatomy. > Good luck. Write back if you have questions. > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 firevixen, you said " we sought out doctors and doctors. We couldn't find anyone who would even acknowledge Pssd. They just wanted him to take more medication " i encourage you to write to your respective country's drug or medical regulators, fda in the u.s. to find out if the doctors you seen reported the drug reactions that you reported to them,( you can get this information under the freedom of information act or data protection act) if they didn't report them write another letter explaining your situation and report the doctors to the regulators for not doing what they are obliged to do by there code of ethics. > > > > > > > > > What do you think about Masterbation and PSSD? > > > > > > do you think Masterbation could help in recovery from PSSD or > > vice versa. > > > > > > do anyone who have PSSD face any problems to Masterbate, or > > masterbation is much easier in erection than performing sex with a > > partner. > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. > > >Hi, my name is angie. I noticed your post and would like to share > > some information with you. My husband suffers from the same > symptoms > > as most people with Pssd. He was on all kinds of medicines for > about > > 14-15 years. He has been completely medicine free since Jan. 2007. > At > > first, he had no trouble masturbating while on the some of the > > medicines. Then as time went by he noticed that he was starting to > > have trouble with visual stimulation with porn, then he started > > loosing the urge to even masturbate (this was before we married). > He > > stopped all medicines expect for Wellbutrin. When we got together > > that was all he was on. He noticed the trouble being able to have > > sex. Even masturbating was hard. He would have to " beat it " really > > hard just to cum. Sex was difficult because he couldn't c**, then > he > > would have such low libido. It was almost the end of our marriage. > It > > was almost easier for him to masturbate behind my back than to have > > sex with me. In order to save our marriage we made some hardcore > > choices. First, he decided to stop all forms of medications-not > even > > an aspirin. Next, we started a regiment of natural vitamins, and > some > > amino acids. We also started the one day for men, and he also takes > a > > powder multivitamin called ALIVE (www.vitacost.com) type it in the > > search box. He started lifting some weights (set of 20 lb. dumb > > bells). But most importantly he stopped masturbating. Instead, we > > would try to have sex. When it got difficult he would tell me. Then > > we would stop and try to talk. He would explain to me what was > going > > on. For example, was he having sensation problems? Was it numb? Was > > he having problems finishing? Things like that. It was a sensitive > > subject. We learned to talk about it. We also started to use porn > > during sex just to help him be more…you know. > > The reason he stopped masturbating was because I felt he was make > it > > hard for him to get used to the sensation of a " woman " instead of > his > > callas hand. (grins). Now we have sex every day. He climaxes with > > ease and is able to feel the sensations. We are even able to have > sex > > up 3-4 times a day on good days. The key is to try to have sex even > > when you have difficulty. He wouldn't even dream of masturbation > now. > > His penis is now use to the gentle sensation of the female anatomy. > > Good luck. Write back if you have questions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! > Search. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 Friend, I agree. I live here in the U.S. and frankly I'm very untrusting of the FDA. I do believe these doctors report some of these side effects, but it would seem to me that no one really hears you over the " cha-ching " of the o'mighty dollar! in the disguise of kickbacks. I wrote Oprah, and Dr.Phil, and recieved no response. I even thought that Contacting film maker ; he seems gutsy enough to take some one on. I know that some individuals might not agree with his politics but he does draw a large audience non the less. Until we get someone in office who doesn't stand to loose money from the drug companies in america, our journey for a " cure " will be a long one. take care > > > > > > > > > > > > What do you think about Masterbation and PSSD? > > > > > > > > do you think Masterbation could help in recovery from PSSD or > > > vice versa. > > > > > > > > do anyone who have PSSD face any problems to Masterbate, or > > > masterbation is much easier in erection than performing sex with > a > > > partner. > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > > Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. > > > >Hi, my name is angie. I noticed your post and would like to > share > > > some information with you. My husband suffers from the same > > symptoms > > > as most people with Pssd. He was on all kinds of medicines for > > about > > > 14-15 years. He has been completely medicine free since Jan. > 2007. > > At > > > first, he had no trouble masturbating while on the some of the > > > medicines. Then as time went by he noticed that he was starting > to > > > have trouble with visual stimulation with porn, then he started > > > loosing the urge to even masturbate (this was before we married). > > He > > > stopped all medicines expect for Wellbutrin. When we got together > > > that was all he was on. He noticed the trouble being able to have > > > sex. Even masturbating was hard. He would have to " beat it " > really > > > hard just to cum. Sex was difficult because he couldn't c**, then > > he > > > would have such low libido. It was almost the end of our > marriage. > > It > > > was almost easier for him to masturbate behind my back than to > have > > > sex with me. In order to save our marriage we made some hardcore > > > choices. First, he decided to stop all forms of medications- not > > even > > > an aspirin. Next, we started a regiment of natural vitamins, and > > some > > > amino acids. We also started the one day for men, and he also > takes > > a > > > powder multivitamin called ALIVE (www.vitacost.com) type it in > the > > > search box. He started lifting some weights (set of 20 lb. dumb > > > bells). But most importantly he stopped masturbating. Instead, we > > > would try to have sex. When it got difficult he would tell me. > Then > > > we would stop and try to talk. He would explain to me what was > > going > > > on. For example, was he having sensation problems? Was it numb? > Was > > > he having problems finishing? Things like that. It was a > sensitive > > > subject. We learned to talk about it. We also started to use porn > > > during sex just to help him be more…you know. > > > The reason he stopped masturbating was because I felt he was make > > it > > > hard for him to get used to the sensation of a " woman " instead of > > his > > > callas hand. (grins). Now we have sex every day. He climaxes with > > > ease and is able to feel the sensations. We are even able to have > > sex > > > up 3-4 times a day on good days. The key is to try to have sex > even > > > when you have difficulty. He wouldn't even dream of masturbation > > now. > > > His penis is now use to the gentle sensation of the female > anatomy. > > > Good luck. Write back if you have questions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with > Yahoo! > > Search. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 firevixen, i here everything you say and i applaud you for going as for as you have writing those letters, but dont you think the doctors have a lot to answer for? after all if they had been doing there jobs properly there would be warnings in the drugs information about pssd and we all could have had informed consent before we took the drugs. if we all went to see doctors and non of us checked to see if the doctors reported the reactions we had to the drugs, then we are letting them get away with what they are doing. ive reported side effects to ssri's to about 8 doctors, i recon non of them reported what i said to them, but i intend to find out and i intend to report those doctors to the regulators. if we all did this it would get pssd into the main stream more quickly and let the doctors and drug company's know we aren't going to take this lying down! we could exploit this sittuation by going to see doctor after doctor and explaining pssd to them, then check if they reported it and if they didn't report them ourselves. it would at least give researchers in future official figures or statistics to go off and at the same time make the doctors think twice about not reporting a pssd patents circumstances to the regulators. because at the moment no one is listening and we are just letting them get away with it. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > What do you think about Masterbation and PSSD? > > > > > > > > > > do you think Masterbation could help in recovery from PSSD > or > > > > vice versa. > > > > > > > > > > do anyone who have PSSD face any problems to Masterbate, or > > > > masterbation is much easier in erection than performing sex > with > > a > > > > partner. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > > > Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. > > > > >Hi, my name is angie. I noticed your post and would like to > > share > > > > some information with you. My husband suffers from the same > > > symptoms > > > > as most people with Pssd. He was on all kinds of medicines for > > > about > > > > 14-15 years. He has been completely medicine free since Jan. > > 2007. > > > At > > > > first, he had no trouble masturbating while on the some of the > > > > medicines. Then as time went by he noticed that he was > starting > > to > > > > have trouble with visual stimulation with porn, then he > started > > > > loosing the urge to even masturbate (this was before we > married). > > > He > > > > stopped all medicines expect for Wellbutrin. When we got > together > > > > that was all he was on. He noticed the trouble being able to > have > > > > sex. Even masturbating was hard. He would have to " beat it " > > really > > > > hard just to cum. Sex was difficult because he couldn't c**, > then > > > he > > > > would have such low libido. It was almost the end of our > > marriage. > > > It > > > > was almost easier for him to masturbate behind my back than to > > have > > > > sex with me. In order to save our marriage we made some > hardcore > > > > choices. First, he decided to stop all forms of medications- > not > > > even > > > > an aspirin. Next, we started a regiment of natural vitamins, > and > > > some > > > > amino acids. We also started the one day for men, and he also > > takes > > > a > > > > powder multivitamin called ALIVE (www.vitacost.com) type it in > > the > > > > search box. He started lifting some weights (set of 20 lb. > dumb > > > > bells). But most importantly he stopped masturbating. Instead, > we > > > > would try to have sex. When it got difficult he would tell me. > > Then > > > > we would stop and try to talk. He would explain to me what was > > > going > > > > on. For example, was he having sensation problems? Was it > numb? > > Was > > > > he having problems finishing? Things like that. It was a > > sensitive > > > > subject. We learned to talk about it. We also started to use > porn > > > > during sex just to help him be more…you know. > > > > The reason he stopped masturbating was because I felt he was > make > > > it > > > > hard for him to get used to the sensation of a " woman " instead > of > > > his > > > > callas hand. (grins). Now we have sex every day. He climaxes > with > > > > ease and is able to feel the sensations. We are even able to > have > > > sex > > > > up 3-4 times a day on good days. The key is to try to have sex > > even > > > > when you have difficulty. He wouldn't even dream of > masturbation > > > now. > > > > His penis is now use to the gentle sensation of the female > > anatomy. > > > > Good luck. Write back if you have questions. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > > Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with > > Yahoo! > > > Search. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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