Re: A quick explanation for many of my problems-stress... Penny

[Guest guest]

Penny:

I am so sorry that your son has said such a thing to

you - how much your heart must ache. Our children

sometimes just break our hearts, but hopefully he will

get through whatever journey he is on, and the two of

you will get through on the faith of your love. I

will be sending you healing and loving prayers that

all will get better in your life soon - Kathe in CA

--- pennygruetz <PennyGruetz@...> wrote:

> Hi!

> My pain symptoms have been far worse lately for two

> reasons: fear of

> the future and stress over family members.

>

> First: Fear of the future...that is a huge one for

> me because my fear

> is making my pain worse, which is making my fear

> worse.

>

> Second: Stress, I have been having troubles with my

> relationship with

> my mom, mostly patched over but still on my mine and

> just this past

> weeks some problems concerning my relationship with

> my 28 year old

> married son have surfaced. It is all far too

> complicated for me to go

> into, but he has basically stated that in many ways,

> I was not a good

> parent to him and this breaks my heart because I

> come from a background

> where I was sexually, emotionally and physically

> abused and for him to

> discard my parenting efforts has caused me

> unbelievable personal pain.

> I will be reading posts, but for awhile, I probably

> will not be posting

> much.

>

> I am trying to gain some knowledge about my future

> health journey. Penny

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Penny My heart goes out to you, I am so sorry for your pain. What is haunting me

is that my life down to the cruel words from a son mirrors yours. If you want to

talk any time you can reach me here or at sedwards55@...

You are not alone you have friends.

Sue

Kathe Sabetzadeh <lv2ryd@...> wrote:

Penny:

I am so sorry that your son has said such a thing to

you - how much your heart must ache. Our children

sometimes just break our hearts, but hopefully he will

get through whatever journey he is on, and the two of

you will get through on the faith of your love. I

will be sending you healing and loving prayers that

all will get better in your life soon - Kathe in CA

--- pennygruetz <PennyGruetz@...> wrote:

> Hi!

> My pain symptoms have been far worse lately for two

> reasons: fear of

> the future and stress over family members.

>

> First: Fear of the future...that is a huge one for

> me because my fear

> is making my pain worse, which is making my fear

> worse.

>

> Second: Stress, I have been having troubles with my

> relationship with

> my mom, mostly patched over but still on my mine and

> just this past

> weeks some problems concerning my relationship with

> my 28 year old

> married son have surfaced. It is all far too

> complicated for me to go

> into, but he has basically stated that in many ways,

> I was not a good

> parent to him and this breaks my heart because I

> come from a background

> where I was sexually, emotionally and physically

> abused and for him to

> discard my parenting efforts has caused me

> unbelievable personal pain.

> I will be reading posts, but for awhile, I probably

> will not be posting

> much.

>

> I am trying to gain some knowledge about my future

> health journey. Penny

>

>

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