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Demand the referral or change pediatricians. The system sucks so we have

to fight for our kids. It is that simple. I am sorry you are stuck with

this.

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Liz

bradensmom14 wrote:

>What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child is

>apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

>states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But, refuses

>to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

>apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

>get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do. He

>has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

>needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

>

>Tasha

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Tasha,

It makes me so angry that a doctor will refuse a referral! Why won't she let

you see a developmental pediatrician? Have you demanded that she give you a

referral as opposed to asking for one? I need referrals for my insurance plan

too and luckily so far the ped refers us wherever I want, but I would be very

upset if she refused to send us somewhere. The other thing is if you are doing

everything assuming this is apraxia, will a diagnosis at this point make a

difference in the therapy your SLP is providing? Have you looked into PROMPT

therapy?

bradensmom14 <bradensmom14@...> wrote:

What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child is

apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But, refuses

to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do. He

has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

Tasha

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A. You need a new pediatrician. If you have made more than one to

two attempts to get this referral then get a new doctor. If they are

stating that your child can only receive a service/diagnosis from a

certain place and then won't refer you, that is inappropriate. You

also need to notify your insurance company, in writing, of this

problem with the pediatrician. Keep all communication business like

and unemotional. You'll get farther that way.

B. Print out the ASHA statement on apraxia and show it to your

speech therapist. This should give the slp the info to let her know

that she can diagnose. That said, many folks (i.e. insurance

company, school system, etc) will give your diagnosis a bit more

authority if it comes from a physician. So, an eval with a

developmental ped and/or a pediatric neurologist would probably be a

smart move.

But first.... new pediatrician. Start making calls tomorrow to take

positive steps toward getting your child the care he/she needs.

You've been given the run around and it sounds like the time has come

so.... you need to move in a new direction.

Kris

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On Jul 31, 2007, at 6:58 PM, bradensmom14 wrote:

> What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child is

> apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

> states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But, refuses

> to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

> apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

> get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do. He

> has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

> needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

>

> Tasha

>

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My first thought is to find another pediatrician! I have had 2 and they are

soooo

different, the second who is willing to do any test and refer out.

Also, I wonder if self-pay option would get you through the door!

Jess in CO

On 7/31/07, bradensmom14 <bradensmom14@...> wrote:

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> What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child is

> apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

> states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But, refuses

> to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

> apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

> get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do. He

> has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

> needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

>

> Tasha

>

>

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Find a GP that you know to make the referral. Don't let one doctor determine

your child's needs if you think that he's not performing up to snuff.

Janice

[sPAM] [ ] what to do?

What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child is

apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But, refuses

to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do. He

has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

Tasha

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on old proverb says...

A primary care doctor is only as good as their signature on the referrals.

If there are no major health concerns that require long knowledge of your

child...I would

suggest a new pediatrician.

CC - who loves convincing the residents at our local teaching hospital to give

referrals

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> What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child is

> apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

> states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But, refuses

> to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

> apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

> get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do. He

> has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

> needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

>

> Tasha

>

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Can't you get a letter of concern from your speech therapist to your

doc? If your doc won't refer to a developmental ped...a child in speech

therapy - maybe you need a new pediatrician. He/she is not doing their

job.

> What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child

is

> apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

> states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But,

refuses

> to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

> apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

> get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do.

He

> has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

> needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

>

> Tasha

>

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Find a different Ped! ASAP

Been there on the lack of referrals. UGH

I think we tend to forget that the Medical profession really does WORK for

US. They are not sharing their " knowledge base " out of the goodness of

their hearts (unlike ).

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Subject: [ ] what to do?

What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child is

apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But, refuses

to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do. He

has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

Tasha

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Wow - what a mess.What is going on with your pediatrician when she says

you need to see a dev ped, but then won't give the referral? First

step, get a new pediatrician. I know it's hard, I had to do it too. But

do it - and set up an interview with the doc before you sign up with

the new pediatrician. They do have those appts - but if they refuse see

if you can get a phone interview (due to your child's special needs and

needing to see if they can be met at their practice).

I don't know how old your son is - but look up the developmental

language milestones for that age and compare to your sons level. My son

has been non-verbal since forever. So we just say - he doesn't speak,

there is an obvious problem. As we say, we are fortunate his issues are

so severe b/c then there is never a question as to " if " we get a

service or referral. You may have to make a case by saying " typically a

three year old has x words and is speaking in x word sentences and my

son only uses single words " or whatever. You may be able to even give

him a label like " he's speaking at an 18 month level and he's three -

there is a problem " . I'm just generalizing.

B/c my son didn't have any words we typically heard 'we can't diagnosis

apraxia/dyspraxia until we start seeing speech errors he's making'. So

we've never had an apraxia diagnosis. We work with the speech therapist

to treat the symptoms - working on a communication system that takes

the focus off of speech (which caused him to clam up); worked on waking

up his mouth with toys, etc. (which he was reluctant to) and getting

all the speech therapy we could out of the school (again our issues are

severe and it makes it easier). BTW-he started using words Oct 2007 at

age 5 and a half. It's hard but don't give up.

What type of waiting list does the apraxia clinic have? Can you make an

appt while you find a new doc to get the referral - some places have

waiting lists that are several months long. You could be working on the

new ped and the referral to the dev ped and the clinic while you wait

for you appt time to come up. Many places will make the appt but just

want you to walk in that door the day of the appt with the referral.

Just some ideas. Best of luck,

>

> What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child

is

> apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

> states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But,

refuses

> to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

> apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

> get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do.

He

> has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

> needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

>

> Tasha

>

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I have contacted the dev ped office at Cincinnati Childrens and it

looks like a 6-8mth waiting list and they require a referrel prior to

getting on the waiting list. To transfer his speech and OT is at least

a 3-8 mth waiting list. His speech therapist told me today that she

believes he is apraxic and NOW she says she can diagnose. However, she

won't because she states hes too young. That she will continue to watch

him over the next 6mths. I am trying to transfer care to somewhere

closer, so not sure if I will be there in 6 mths. She said that it

wouldn't matter if she diagnosed him anyway, because it wouldn't change

his care or how she teaches him. She basically gives him toys to play

with and then takes it away and grabs his hands to make him do " more "

sign; also blows bubbles at him and repeatedly says bubbles over and

over and then takes them from him. She also basically chokes him with

one of the z-vibes. I don't see him getting anything out of therapy,

except anger and tears.

Tasha

>

> What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child

is

> apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

> states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But,

refuses

> to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

> apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

> get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do.

He

> has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

> needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

>

> Tasha

>

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Go through the steps needed to get on the waiting list. And then

call them once a month or twice a month to confirm where he is on the

list and " thank them for their time " . Why? Squeaky wheel. And

remember.... a 6 to 8 month waiting list in reality is often a 4

month waiting list. Especially if you are the kind sweet lady who

calls to check every now and then.

You've got to take this one step at a time. So... step one is

getting that referral. And in your case, that may mean a new

pediatrician.

Tell me this....are you on an HMO? if so, this is maybe why the

pediatrician isn't referring. Any services he permits affects his

bottom line. You may need to go in with an armload of articles, ASHA

statements etc and demand (politely of course) your referral. Try

this and see what happens. Informed parents who know their child's

diagnosis, come prepared with credible evidence and know exactly what

is needed tend to get a bit farther. Afterall.... if you're that

well informed he will instantly realize that it may be a liability to

not give you a referral.

The other method you can try is just to tell him you can't sleep and

you need to calm your worries and have him seen. If you're on an HMO

however and his motive is money, this won't work.

Good luck

Kris

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On Aug 3, 2007, at 10:37 PM, bradensmom14 wrote:

> I have contacted the dev ped office at Cincinnati Childrens and it

> looks like a 6-8mth waiting list and they require a referrel prior to

> getting on the waiting list. To transfer his speech and OT is at least

> a 3-8 mth waiting list. His speech therapist told me today that she

> believes he is apraxic and NOW she says she can diagnose. However, she

> won't because she states hes too young. That she will continue to

> watch

> him over the next 6mths. I am trying to transfer care to somewhere

> closer, so not sure if I will be there in 6 mths. She said that it

> wouldn't matter if she diagnosed him anyway, because it wouldn't

> change

> his care or how she teaches him. She basically gives him toys to play

> with and then takes it away and grabs his hands to make him do " more "

> sign; also blows bubbles at him and repeatedly says bubbles over and

> over and then takes them from him. She also basically chokes him with

> one of the z-vibes. I don't see him getting anything out of therapy,

> except anger and tears.

> Tasha

>

>

> >

> > What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child

> is

> > apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

> > states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But,

> refuses

> > to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they

> have an

> > apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped,

> can't

> > get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do.

> He

> > has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

> > needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

> >

> > Tasha

> >

>

>

>

>

>

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I would get on the waiting lists and bug them weekly to get in earlier.

I would get a dr., any dr. to get you the help you need. In order to

know what that help is I would read all I could, including the late

talker. I would also consider NACD, even if the evaluation is done by

video due to distance and $. In some ways, your therapist is

right...label or no label, the right therapy helps. The problem is it

does not sound like that is what he is getting and that too young

nonsense is nuts.

Best Wishes!

Liz

P.S. Lastly, Tina did an excellent job of learning all she could about

apraxia and once she knew that was her son's deal she brought her info.

and gently led the medical horses to water. She wrote a post about it

and would be a great resource in this regard.

bradensmom14 wrote:

>I have contacted the dev ped office at Cincinnati Childrens and it

>looks like a 6-8mth waiting list and they require a referrel prior to

>getting on the waiting list. To transfer his speech and OT is at least

>a 3-8 mth waiting list. His speech therapist told me today that she

>believes he is apraxic and NOW she says she can diagnose. However, she

>won't because she states hes too young. That she will continue to watch

>him over the next 6mths. I am trying to transfer care to somewhere

>closer, so not sure if I will be there in 6 mths. She said that it

>wouldn't matter if she diagnosed him anyway, because it wouldn't change

>his care or how she teaches him. She basically gives him toys to play

>with and then takes it away and grabs his hands to make him do " more "

>sign; also blows bubbles at him and repeatedly says bubbles over and

>over and then takes them from him. She also basically chokes him with

>one of the z-vibes. I don't see him getting anything out of therapy,

>except anger and tears.

>Tasha

>

>

>

>

>>What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your child

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>>apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The ped

>>states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But,

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>refuses

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>>to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they have an

>>apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped, can't

>>get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to do.

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>>

>He

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>>has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I know he

>>needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

>>

>>Tasha

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> > What do you do if your speech therapists says she thinks your

child

> is

> > apraxic, but states she cannot diagnose, only a doctor can. The

ped

> > states he would need to see develop peds to be diagnosed. But,

> refuses

> > to refer us there. I also found in cincinnati childrens, they

have an

> > apraxia clinic. However, they too need a referrel from his ped,

can't

> > get one from her. I'm kind of stuck here. Not sure what else to

do.

> He

> > has been in speech since jan and has shown no improvement. I

know he

> > needs more aggressive therapy, but how do I get it?

> >

> > Tasha

> >

>

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