Re: having trouble dealing Debbie

[Guest guest]

Debbie:

Sweetie, you are not whining, you are in pain, and

truly have had so much happen to you, that you deserve

this vent. I am so very sorry that it looks like more

surgery for you. My prayers are with you, my friend,

as well as big (((((((((((hugs)))))))))). Hang in

there - best of luck - remember, we are always here

for you -

Kathe in CA

--- debbie <hair2cut00@...> wrote:

> hello again.. I hope someone can talk to me.. i hate

> whining also but

> having trouble coping. after all the surgeries over

> the yrs i was

> hoping for many without, but it just keeps going and

> im getting to

> tired mentally and physically to deal with

> everything. i told ya last

> week im scheduled for arm surgery the end of the

> month, now i cant

> even hardly eat. i know part of my med. problems

> included with the

> mixed connective disease is degenerative

> arthritis.10 yrs ago when i

> was 33 i was told my bone in my jaw had been wearing

> away and that i

> would prob be a candidate for jaw replacement?? well

> my jaw went with

> this major whole body flare ive been going thru for

> a month. got the

> bad news that there is nothing else they can do for

> me but some kind

> of surgery. It hurts so bad but here im having to go

> for my other

> surgery. As everyone tells me its just another page

> in the book of

> debbie, but they all think i get through it but

> sometimes i just want

> to give up cause now i know there is more ahead.i

> may show tough on

> the outside but im scared on the inside. i think

> this is the first

> time i actually really sat and cried.My daughter is

> in college and my

> other one doesnt live at home.. im seperated 5 yrs

> now. i do date but

> find when i start getting close to someone i back

> off cause of all my

> problems. havnt found one to even discuss it with.

> This seems to be

> the only place i can talk about it. I only work part

> time and its for

> a place that does know my limits in a way. I just

> want a big hug..

> love and hugs to ya all... debbie

>

>

>

>

>

>

Kathe in CA

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[Guest guest]

I agree Debbie, this is the one place where we all have been where you are in

the disease, so go ahead and vent. ((((((((((Hugs for Debbie))))))))))).

Hugs

June

----- Original Message -----

From: Kathe Sabetzadeh

Debbie:

Sweetie, you are not whining, you are in pain, and

truly have had so much happen to you, that you deserve

this vent. I am so very sorry that it looks like more

surgery for you. My prayers are with you, my friend,

as well as big (((((((((((hugs)))))))))). Hang in

there - best of luck - remember, we are always here

for you -

Kathe in CA

--- debbie <hair2cut00@...> wrote:

> hello again.. I hope someone can talk to me.. i hate

> whining also but

> having trouble coping. after all the surgeries over

> the yrs i was

> hoping for many without, but it just keeps going and

> im getting to

> tired mentally and physically to deal with

> everything. i told ya last

> week im scheduled for arm surgery the end of the

> month, now i cant

> even hardly eat. i know part of my med. problems

> included with the

> mixed connective disease is degenerative

> arthritis.10 yrs ago when i

> was 33 i was told my bone in my jaw had been wearing

> away and that i

> would prob be a candidate for jaw replacement?? well

> my jaw went with

> this major whole body flare ive been going thru for

> a month. got the

> bad news that there is nothing else they can do for

> me but some kind

> of surgery. It hurts so bad but here im having to go

> for my other

> surgery. As everyone tells me its just another page

> in the book of

> debbie, but they all think i get through it but

> sometimes i just want

> to give up cause now i know there is more ahead.i

> may show tough on

> the outside but im scared on the inside. i think

> this is the first

> time i actually really sat and cried.My daughter is

> in college and my

> other one doesnt live at home.. im seperated 5 yrs

> now. i do date but

> find when i start getting close to someone i back

> off cause of all my

> problems. havnt found one to even discuss it with.

> This seems to be

> the only place i can talk about it. I only work part

> time and its for

> a place that does know my limits in a way. I just

> want a big hug..

> love and hugs to ya all... debbie

>

>

>

>

>

>

Kathe in CA

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