Re: Re: having trouble dealing Cassy

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Hi Cassy:

I am so sorry to hear that you have both your husband

and your

in-laws giving you no support or understanding. It is

hard enough to deal with RA and everything else that

comes with it, and not have support at home to help

you deal with it. Have you taken your husband with

you to doctor's appointments so that he can hear for

himself what RA is and what is going on with you? I

know that with the unsupportive inlaws too, that it

will be a harder battle with their negative imput to

their son, but I hope that little by little, he will

begin to come around for you. My prayers are with

you, and (((((((hugs))))))) for you as well -

hang in there -

Kathe in CA

--- cnberte <bertelson@...> wrote:

> While I am not much help right now, feel free to

> whine here. We

> welcome it. I am feeling like a bawl bag right now

> so I am glad that

> we are all here to help each other. We can all pray

> for each other.

> Some days will be better than others. When I was

> first dx with RA.

> I went out in my truck one night (so the kids

> wouldn't hear me) and

> cried and cried, serious wailing and wahhing. I

> fell asleep there

> and woke and came in the house. My hubby just

> doesn't get it, as a

> matter of fact my marriage has all but disintegrated

> coupled with a

> far less than supportive in laws down the street. I

> am young but

> feel very old. I will be happy to be there for you

> in whatever way

> I can. Love to all, Cassy

>

Kathe in CA

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