Guest guest Posted January 9, 2006 Report Share Posted January 9, 2006 LOL, I was finally able to get thru by phone- I reached soc sec by phone (Finally) the lady who answered said there is no new law....then she went and asked all the other people in the soc sec office and they all said nope, we can deposit the checks into OUR account, she said yeesh where else would you put it and why? she said yeesh who is the check written out to, anyway? I said hubby she said well he is allowed to put his check where ever he wants - altho yes you can be made accountable - later.LOL. She then said wow, you get paper checks. I said well um yeah.she said do you WANT direct deposit, I said no and she said OK. She said to tell the bank to call them if it happens again...and she gave me her name. - In , " dreamer_plus " <dreamer_plus@w...> wrote: > > I am not positive, partly becuz with my web tv I am unable to access a pdf but... > I think this is NOT supporting what the bank was trying to say. We ARE the representative payees for our children.(altho this section is discussing disabled childrens funds, not dependant childrens monies of kids whose checks are becuz of the parent(s) being disabled) This does say we would be exempt from needing a dedicated account, tho- I am pretty sure- specifically beucz we are the representative payee and also the parents. > Our bank refused to deposit the checks into our account saying we had to put them in accounts for the kids. (nevermind we have been doing so for 16 years already) > So, no, I do not think this explains it at all.....this seems more to defend what " I " said. Not the bank. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2006 Report Share Posted January 9, 2006 I am glad you got that straight. I thought it sounded odd to begin with. Sometimes you get some yaahoo at the bank that thinks they know it all and just want to make you life misrable like someone died and left then to police what you do with your money. I am in the process of helping my daughter appeal her case. Wish me luck she is 18 yo and so they will not talk to me at all. Too bad you could not get the SSA lady to put that in writing for you. Toni --- In , " dreamer_plus " <dreamer_plus@w...> wrote: > > LOL, I was finally able to get thru by phone- > I reached soc sec by phone (Finally) > the lady who answered said there is no new law....then she went and asked all the other people in the soc sec office and they all said nope, we can deposit the checks into OUR account, she said yeesh where else would you put it and why? she said yeesh who is the check written out to, anyway? I said hubby she said well he is allowed to put his check where ever he wants - altho yes you can be made accountable - later.LOL. > She then said wow, you get paper checks. I said well um yeah.she said do you WANT direct deposit, I said no and she said OK. She said to tell the bank to call them if it happens again...and she gave me her name. > > > > > > - In , " dreamer_plus " <dreamer_plus@w...> wrote: > > > > I am not positive, partly becuz with my web tv I am unable to access a pdf but... > > I think this is NOT supporting what the bank was trying to say. We ARE the representative payees for our children.(altho this section is discussing disabled childrens funds, not dependant childrens monies of kids whose checks are becuz of the parent(s) being disabled) This does say we would be exempt from needing a dedicated account, tho- I am pretty sure- specifically beucz we are the representative payee and also the parents. > > Our bank refused to deposit the checks into our account saying we had to put them in accounts for the kids. (nevermind we have been doing so for 16 years already) > > So, no, I do not think this explains it at all.....this seems more to defend what " I " said. Not the bank. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2006 Report Share Posted January 9, 2006 ss lady could not put it in writing cuz she could not figure out just what the bank was trying to say, LOL. so she told me if the bnk pulls that again next month to ask for the bank supervisor and then have them call the soc sec office to try to explain and then soc sec would set them straight. Yeah my oldest is disabled and she does not currently get SSI becuz her SSI would be less than what she gets right now as a dependant of our ssda.....but soc sec told me to come in when she is 17.5 to begin the process for her to get ssi in her nme for her disability. and that way, she should also still be able to keep the champva medical, too. (which is FAR more useful than Medicaide or Medicare here in IL) I have been told if she will give me POA I will be better able to help with the processes. or if I get gguardianship. I have also been told this regarding my husbands affairs. Something to take into consideration. Lots of the disabled vetrans wives here at our VA wives group have done that. - In , " Ms radar " <aclavern33@a...> wrote: > > I am glad you got that straight. I thought it sounded odd to begin > with. Sometimes you get some yaahoo at the bank that thinks they > know it all and just want to make you life misrable like someone died > and left then to police what you do with your money. > > I am in the process of helping my daughter appeal her case. Wish me > luck she is 18 yo and so they will not talk to me at all. > > Too bad you could not get the SSA lady to put that in writing for > you. > > Toni > > > > > > > > > I am not positive, partly becuz with my web tv I am unable to > access a pdf but... > > > I think this is NOT supporting what the bank was trying to say. > We ARE the representative payees for our children.(altho this section > is discussing disabled childrens funds, not dependant childrens > monies of kids whose checks are becuz of the parent(s) being > disabled) This does say we would be exempt from needing a dedicated > account, tho- I am pretty sure- specifically beucz we are the > representative payee and also the parents. > > > Our bank refused to deposit the checks into our account saying we > had to put them in accounts for the kids. (nevermind we have been > doing so for 16 years already) > > > So, no, I do not think this explains it at all.....this seems > more to defend what " I " said. Not the bank. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2006 Report Share Posted January 9, 2006 Even medicaid here is so hard to find a doc to see you...I was calling around and was told everytime they do not accept patients with medicaid alone. But if I had medicaid as a secondary that would be fine. My daughter turned 18 last year and it has been very difficult getting though the SSA system. Even though you would think Sickle cell anemia would be a slam duck approval. I guess they want to se how bad we she really wants the SSI. Ihoe you have better luck with the CHAMP/VA cause here in texas just here recently with the tricare for life and regular tricare almost all the docs stopped taking it all at the same time!! It was a real mess. The program is administered by Humana here and they were not paying the bills on time...they were taking up to a year to pay a bill...then they would pay like $20 of a $1000 bill...so the docs all anded together and when it was time to renew contracts the dropped accepting tricare patients. This has really created a mess. Its turned down right ugly and people have gotten hateful. I was in the docs office and a lady went off on me because they will not see her anymore unless she pays cash and waits for reimbursement. She was pissed as she said her hubby and she were promised care for life... I reminded her that I didn't do it...and please do not take it out on me. My husband is a veteran and we decided to continue working because commercial insurance was better accessible benefits than tricare. She then went off on the poor girl at the counter who promptly called sercurity and booted her butt out the clinic for creating such a scene. Apparently she went off on everyone within her range. I feel for her...but what can you do...we are a money driven society. I have no clue where it will all end....but I do know something needs to change soon...or we are all going to SOL! Toni > > > > > > > > I am not positive, partly becuz with my web tv I am unable to > > access a pdf but... > > > > I think this is NOT supporting what the bank was trying to say. > > We ARE the representative payees for our children.(altho this section > > is discussing disabled childrens funds, not dependant childrens > > monies of kids whose checks are becuz of the parent(s) being > > disabled) This does say we would be exempt from needing a dedicated > > account, tho- I am pretty sure- specifically beucz we are the > > representative payee and also the parents. > > > > Our bank refused to deposit the checks into our account saying we > > had to put them in accounts for the kids. (nevermind we have been > > doing so for 16 years already) > > > > So, no, I do not think this explains it at all.....this seems > > more to defend what " I " said. Not the bank. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2006 Report Share Posted January 9, 2006 Well, lets see our ped of our kids wholelives refused to accept the Medicaide when we got that....and so did veery other pediatrician in town. Wound up having to go out of town toget pediatric services when we had Medicaide. Even when middle child got hurt in a school basketball game, they took her by ambulance, broken arm and broekn tooth, stitches in her mouth- they refused to set her arm saying an ortho had to do it..10 mins later another kid from her school came by ambulance, also with a broekn arm...the ER did not know we knew those people- LOL- we were talking in the hall with them. ER had told us they were not allowd to call the ortho to come to the ER-well my oldest had broekn her arm the week before and they had told me the same thing then and when I tried to call the ortho ortho said he did not take Medicaide, and neither did any other ortho in the phone book.so this time I said NO you have to treat her she is here, I am not taking another child with a broken arm home this week without it getting set. they kept telling me they could not do it..but then...next thing they did call ortho in for my dtrs team mate- so---I went out in the coridor and grabbed him and said LOOK you would not set my other childs arm last week cuz we have Medicaide- so her arm is not set- cuz ER would not call you in.well they would not call you in for US today for this dtr either, yet they called you in for my dtrs teammate- this is Medicaide discrimination and we ARE in the community hospital ER----set my childs arm and set it NOW. My husband has Medicare, he was brought there to ER by ambulance after a motorcycle accident...his head was bleeding, he had road rash on his face, shoulder, arm, chest, stomach and leg and complained of being unable to move his shoulder. Our ER discharged him without even doing a single XRay- he was going 55 MPH when he wiped out....Not only did they not XRay him, they also did not clean or bandage any single one of his injuries---I put him in the car drove him to a VA hospital, and he was ipatient in intensive care for over a month. and in PT for over a year. People can try to tell me there is no discrimination against Medicare and Medicaide- but I ain't buying it. People can tell me it is illegal but when you are in a medical emergency what are you going to do to enforce anything? The ChampVA my son just had a $50,000 eye surgery repair, (he poked out his eyeball and split his eyeball in half end of Oct) I just got the thing today and it says ChampVA paid the hosp like 10,000 and told hospital that is all they are going to be allowed to get from us---well, sucks for them.....but I do wonder just what they coulda done in a surgery that did not even restore vision and is not even socially acceptable to see in public (his eye looks like a pizza) that could warrant a $50,000 bill and them saying he will need at least 2 more surgeries and might not get any vision anyway? and what are we to do? My husband served his 11 years in Marines and 9 in Nam and gave up his health totally, has been unable to work since 1991...has not been able to hold a conversation or babysit his own kids and has not been able to walk now for a few years....and since this kid is also disabled- he is uninsurable- so what are we to do about his medical? something has to give. LOL when my docs office was unsure about whether they would accept champVA or not, the champVA co called my docs office and embarrassed them into taking it. told them flat out my husband gave everything to our country someone needs to see about helping take care of us. Earlier I saw someone post about how they heard some docs give cash discounts to people without insurance. Sadly the reverse is also sometimes true and sometimes people who pay cash and have no insurance get charged MORE. I waited tables before I married and found out I always got charged more when I did not have insurance. and there are some docs and hospitals who will not see you at all unless you have an insurance card in hand when you get there. - In , " Ms radar " <aclavern33@a...> wrote: > > Even medicaid here is so hard to find a doc to see you...I was > calling around and was told everytime they do not accept patients > with medicaid alone. But if I had medicaid as a secondary that would > be fine. > > My daughter turned 18 last year and it has been very difficult > getting though the SSA system. Even though you would think Sickle > cell anemia would be a slam duck approval. I guess they want to se > how bad we she really wants the SSI. > > Ihoe you have better luck with the CHAMP/VA cause here in texas just > here recently with the tricare for life and regular tricare almost > all the docs stopped taking it all at the same time!! It was a real > mess. The program is administered by Humana here and they were not > paying the bills on time...they were taking up to a year to pay a > bill...then they would pay like $20 of a $1000 bill...so the docs all > anded together and when it was time to renew contracts the dropped > accepting tricare patients. > > This has really created a mess. Its turned down right ugly and > people have gotten hateful. I was in the docs office and a lady went > off on me because they will not see her anymore unless she pays cash > and waits for reimbursement. She was pissed as she said her hubby > and she were promised care for life... > > I reminded her that I didn't do it...and please do not take it out on > me. My husband is a veteran and we decided to continue working > because commercial insurance was better accessible benefits than > tricare. She then went off on the poor girl at the counter who > promptly called sercurity and booted her butt out the clinic for > creating such a scene. Apparently she went off on everyone within > her range. > > I feel for her...but what can you do...we are a money driven > society. I have no clue where it will all end....but I do know > something needs to change soon...or we are all going to SOL! > > Toni > > > > > > > > > > > > > I am not positive, partly becuz with my web tv I am unable to > > > access a pdf but... > > > > > I think this is NOT supporting what the bank was trying to > say. > > > We ARE the representative payees for our children.(altho this > section > > > is discussing disabled childrens funds, not dependant childrens > > > monies of kids whose checks are becuz of the parent(s) being > > > disabled) This does say we would be exempt from needing a > dedicated > > > account, tho- I am pretty sure- specifically beucz we are the > > > representative payee and also the parents. > > > > > Our bank refused to deposit the checks into our account > saying we > > > had to put them in accounts for the kids. (nevermind we have > been > > > doing so for 16 years already) > > > > > So, no, I do not think this explains it at all.....this seems > > > more to defend what " I " said. Not the bank. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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