Re: Sondra/ I am Legend Please don't go

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I have also heard that it is not a movie to see. The lady that I know that

saw it was freaked out.

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I have also heard that it is not a movie to see. The lady that I know that

saw it was freaked out.

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Ether for me did go and much was of too complex for me to grasp of what

was happening and had to keep asking of the husband and the creatures

yes very scary to me, but what caused more fear to me was the sudden

burst of loud sounds from the movie that to me was unexpected to me

because cant anticipate of what is of going to happen next where it

appears others do because of the sequence of things and being able to

read of the subtle cues that i to not be of able to read. this causes

me to impulsivly hit self in the face hard in my needs to cover my

ears. When feared not just to tune out sounds find self need to cover

the ears much quickily as a reaction to my fears. so over all because

did not comprehend much of the things it did not set in a fear to me in

complete except as I to shared those sudden impact of noises that were

of so loud to me and the creatures growling and such. If had

comprenhended of the movie and maybe more aware of things then it might

have triggered more fear to me.

I to felt of stong emotion to the dog though as felt bad it got biten

and dies of it. I to also not understand what happened to all the

peoples in NY. and then suddenly some human people came again. I to

also liked of the puppy in the begin and the little girl she was ever

so sweet a little girl. she loved of her daddy. but the lack of people

was of confusing to me, the creatures were of much scary and vicious

like wild animals caged or cornered. They were of not an understood to

me and my brain only seen of them as a animal of the wild. I to be

could not tell if they were to be of vampires or warewolves or what

creature they were to be of. I to be of greatly fearful of vampires.

Anyways the husband wanted of to see of that movie and I to like of

will smith so felt it would be of good to go for him and such since he

likes of this sort of movies, he hates of to always have to see of my

sorts of movies so I to be to compromised to go to one for him. not

always a good outcome but do try to learn not to be of so fearful of

things.

Sondra

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Ether for me did go and much was of too complex for me to grasp of what

was happening and had to keep asking of the husband and the creatures

yes very scary to me, but what caused more fear to me was the sudden

burst of loud sounds from the movie that to me was unexpected to me

because cant anticipate of what is of going to happen next where it

appears others do because of the sequence of things and being able to

read of the subtle cues that i to not be of able to read. this causes

me to impulsivly hit self in the face hard in my needs to cover my

ears. When feared not just to tune out sounds find self need to cover

the ears much quickily as a reaction to my fears. so over all because

did not comprehend much of the things it did not set in a fear to me in

complete except as I to shared those sudden impact of noises that were

of so loud to me and the creatures growling and such. If had

comprenhended of the movie and maybe more aware of things then it might

have triggered more fear to me.

I to felt of stong emotion to the dog though as felt bad it got biten

and dies of it. I to also not understand what happened to all the

peoples in NY. and then suddenly some human people came again. I to

also liked of the puppy in the begin and the little girl she was ever

so sweet a little girl. she loved of her daddy. but the lack of people

was of confusing to me, the creatures were of much scary and vicious

like wild animals caged or cornered. They were of not an understood to

me and my brain only seen of them as a animal of the wild. I to be

could not tell if they were to be of vampires or warewolves or what

creature they were to be of. I to be of greatly fearful of vampires.

Anyways the husband wanted of to see of that movie and I to like of

will smith so felt it would be of good to go for him and such since he

likes of this sort of movies, he hates of to always have to see of my

sorts of movies so I to be to compromised to go to one for him. not

always a good outcome but do try to learn not to be of so fearful of

things.

Sondra

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Jeez, hopefully it wasn't too torturous for you to sit thru all that sensory

overload. I would hope your husband could go see those types of movies with

a friend who enjoys those kinds of movies.

I refuse to go see horror movies with anyone b/c I can't stand them. I

don't like being startled with sudden scenes. I'll scream out loud, hit my

husband's arms or squeeze so darn tight, I probably cut off his

circulation. He knows I hate them, so even at home, when he watches them,

he'll do it after I go to bed or is out of the house.

It's good to try to compromise, but it's also OK to say I can't stand that

kind of movie. I like Will too, but maybe not in this movie. Maybe

I'll let my daughter go see it first & she can tell me if it's worth going

to, or she can go with her Dad b/c he'll probably like it. Not that he

watches that many horror movies; there are other movies we both like to see,

like action movies.

Marie A. Mom to Kim

>

> Ether for me did go and much was of too complex for me to grasp of what

> was happening and had to keep asking of the husband and the creatures

> yes very scary to me, but what caused more fear to me was the sudden

> burst of loud sounds from the movie that to me was unexpected to me

> because cant anticipate of what is of going to happen next where it

> appears others do because of the sequence of things and being able to

> read of the subtle cues that i to not be of able to read. this causes

> me to impulsivly hit self in the face hard in my needs to cover my

> ears. When feared not just to tune out sounds find self need to cover

> the ears much quickily as a reaction to my fears. so over all because

> did not comprehend much of the things it did not set in a fear to me in

> complete except as I to shared those sudden impact of noises that were

> of so loud to me and the creatures growling and such. If had

> comprenhended of the movie and maybe more aware of things then it might

> have triggered more fear to me.

>

> I to felt of stong emotion to the dog though as felt bad it got biten

> and dies of it. I to also not understand what happened to all the

> peoples in NY. and then suddenly some human people came again. I to

> also liked of the puppy in the begin and the little girl she was ever

> so sweet a little girl. she loved of her daddy. but the lack of people

> was of confusing to me, the creatures were of much scary and vicious

> like wild animals caged or cornered. They were of not an understood to

> me and my brain only seen of them as a animal of the wild. I to be

> could not tell if they were to be of vampires or warewolves or what

> creature they were to be of. I to be of greatly fearful of vampires.

>

> Anyways the husband wanted of to see of that movie and I to like of

> will smith so felt it would be of good to go for him and such since he

> likes of this sort of movies, he hates of to always have to see of my

> sorts of movies so I to be to compromised to go to one for him. not

> always a good outcome but do try to learn not to be of so fearful of

> things.

> Sondra

>

>

>

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Jeez, hopefully it wasn't too torturous for you to sit thru all that sensory

overload. I would hope your husband could go see those types of movies with

a friend who enjoys those kinds of movies.

I refuse to go see horror movies with anyone b/c I can't stand them. I

don't like being startled with sudden scenes. I'll scream out loud, hit my

husband's arms or squeeze so darn tight, I probably cut off his

circulation. He knows I hate them, so even at home, when he watches them,

he'll do it after I go to bed or is out of the house.

It's good to try to compromise, but it's also OK to say I can't stand that

kind of movie. I like Will too, but maybe not in this movie. Maybe

I'll let my daughter go see it first & she can tell me if it's worth going

to, or she can go with her Dad b/c he'll probably like it. Not that he

watches that many horror movies; there are other movies we both like to see,

like action movies.

Marie A. Mom to Kim

>

> Ether for me did go and much was of too complex for me to grasp of what

> was happening and had to keep asking of the husband and the creatures

> yes very scary to me, but what caused more fear to me was the sudden

> burst of loud sounds from the movie that to me was unexpected to me

> because cant anticipate of what is of going to happen next where it

> appears others do because of the sequence of things and being able to

> read of the subtle cues that i to not be of able to read. this causes

> me to impulsivly hit self in the face hard in my needs to cover my

> ears. When feared not just to tune out sounds find self need to cover

> the ears much quickily as a reaction to my fears. so over all because

> did not comprehend much of the things it did not set in a fear to me in

> complete except as I to shared those sudden impact of noises that were

> of so loud to me and the creatures growling and such. If had

> comprenhended of the movie and maybe more aware of things then it might

> have triggered more fear to me.

>

> I to felt of stong emotion to the dog though as felt bad it got biten

> and dies of it. I to also not understand what happened to all the

> peoples in NY. and then suddenly some human people came again. I to

> also liked of the puppy in the begin and the little girl she was ever

> so sweet a little girl. she loved of her daddy. but the lack of people

> was of confusing to me, the creatures were of much scary and vicious

> like wild animals caged or cornered. They were of not an understood to

> me and my brain only seen of them as a animal of the wild. I to be

> could not tell if they were to be of vampires or warewolves or what

> creature they were to be of. I to be of greatly fearful of vampires.

>

> Anyways the husband wanted of to see of that movie and I to like of

> will smith so felt it would be of good to go for him and such since he

> likes of this sort of movies, he hates of to always have to see of my

> sorts of movies so I to be to compromised to go to one for him. not

> always a good outcome but do try to learn not to be of so fearful of

> things.

> Sondra

>

>

>

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it is a movie that could seem posible. about a virus getting out of hand

and making people crazy. at lest from what ive read. some may enjoy it but if

things that could actuly happen freak you out dont watch.

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it is a movie that could seem posible. about a virus getting out of hand

and making people crazy. at lest from what ive read. some may enjoy it but if

things that could actuly happen freak you out dont watch.

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Sondra --

I used to be afraid of vampires too. Then it dawned on me that in the

movies they are generally very good looking and seductive. I figured

since I was going to die anyway someday, being seduced by a good looking

man wouldn't be a bad way to go! (This is a joke. I was afraid, but

not so much any more. But I still don't watch scary movies! I get

nightmares too easy.)

-- Cassie

sondra wrote:

> Ether for me did go and much was of too complex for me to grasp of what

> was happening and had to keep asking of the husband and the creatures

> yes very scary to me, but what caused more fear to me was the sudden

> burst of loud sounds from the movie that to me was unexpected to me

> because cant anticipate of what is of going to happen next where it

> appears others do because of the sequence of things and being able to

> read of the subtle cues that i to not be of able to read. this causes

> me to impulsivly hit self in the face hard in my needs to cover my

> ears. When feared not just to tune out sounds find self need to cover

> the ears much quickily as a reaction to my fears. so over all because

> did not comprehend much of the things it did not set in a fear to me in

> complete except as I to shared those sudden impact of noises that were

> of so loud to me and the creatures growling and such. If had

> comprenhended of the movie and maybe more aware of things then it might

> have triggered more fear to me.

>

> I to felt of stong emotion to the dog though as felt bad it got biten

> and dies of it. I to also not understand what happened to all the

> peoples in NY. and then suddenly some human people came again. I to

> also liked of the puppy in the begin and the little girl she was ever

> so sweet a little girl. she loved of her daddy. but the lack of people

> was of confusing to me, the creatures were of much scary and vicious

> like wild animals caged or cornered. They were of not an understood to

> me and my brain only seen of them as a animal of the wild. I to be

> could not tell if they were to be of vampires or warewolves or what

> creature they were to be of. I to be of greatly fearful of vampires.

>

> Anyways the husband wanted of to see of that movie and I to like of

> will smith so felt it would be of good to go for him and such since he

> likes of this sort of movies, he hates of to always have to see of my

> sorts of movies so I to be to compromised to go to one for him. not

> always a good outcome but do try to learn not to be of so fearful of

> things.

> Sondra

>

>

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Sorry to comment so late on this. I think it went into my spam catcher for

some reason.

Anyway, Sondra I just hate scary movies. Sometimes all the sound and

violence and images make me so upset I feel dizzy and sick. Once I went to

Jurassic Park by mistake. For some reason I didn't realize it was a horror

movie.

I had a very bad reaction to that one. I think that you are so very brave to

go on purpose just to please your hubby. I am lucky, because my dh doesn't

like scary movies either so no one wants me to go to them. Thank goodness!

My good friend Dawn has suffered from the terrible volume they use in movie

theaters these days. She stopped going to movies for a long time because she

was not able to stop the sounds when they were too much for her to

experience. Now she has started going to the movies again, but she takes soft

foam

ear plugs that she buys at the drugstore. She puts them in when the movie

starts, so that she doesn't experience the sound so intensely. Have you ever

tried ear plugs to make the movie less intense? I know not everyone can wear

them.

Sandi

In a message dated 1/16/2008 8:13:40 P.M. Central Standard Time,

czupke@... writes:

Sondra --

I used to be afraid of vampires too. Then it dawned on me that in the

movies they are generally very good looking and seductive. I figured

since I was going to die anyway someday, being seduced by a good looking

man wouldn't be a bad way to go! (This is a joke. I was afraid, but

not so much any more. But I still don't watch scary movies! I get

nightmares too easy.)

-- Cassie

sondra wrote:

> Ether for me did go and much was of too complex for me to grasp of what

> was happening and had to keep asking of the husband and the creatures

> yes very scary to me, but what caused more fear to me was the sudden

> burst of loud sounds from the movie that to me was unexpected to me

> because cant anticipate of what is of going to happen next where it

> appears others do because of the sequence of things and being able to

> read of the subtle cues that i to not be of able to read. this causes

> me to impulsivly hit self in the face hard in my needs to cover my

> ears. When feared not just to tune out sounds find self need to cover

> the ears much quickily as a reaction to my fears. so over all because

> did not comprehend much of the things it did not set in a fear to me in

> complete except as I to shared those sudden impact of noises that were

> of so loud to me and the creatures growling and such. If had

> comprenhended of the movie and maybe more aware of things then it might

> have triggered more fear to me.

>

> I to felt of stong emotion to the dog though as felt bad it got biten

> and dies of it. I to also not understand what happened to all the

> peoples in NY. and then suddenly some human people came again. I to

> also liked of the puppy in the begin and the little girl she was ever

> so sweet a little girl. she loved of her daddy. but the lack of people

> was of confusing to me, the creatures were of much scary and vicious

> like wild animals caged or cornered. They were of not an understood to

> me and my brain only seen of them as a animal of the wild. I to be

> could not tell if they were to be of vampires or warewolves or what

> creature they were to be of. I to be of greatly fearful of vampires.

>

> Anyways the husband wanted of to see of that movie and I to like of

> will smith so felt it would be of good to go for him and such since he

> likes of this sort of movies, he hates of to always have to see of my

> sorts of movies so I to be to compromised to go to one for him. not

> always a good outcome but do try to learn not to be of so fearful of

> things.

> Sondra

>

>

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Sandy I to not be of able to use the foam ear plugs much as they

cause of me pains after a short time and too much pressure tends to

build up in the ear causing me ear pains and bad headaches. But I to

have of a sound cancelation system and use of that when going but

that day forgot of them so went to the bathroom and got of some

toilet paper damp and squeezed out all the liquid and then used of

them as a plug like things and I to use of cotton balls too in the

same fashions. The sound cancellation system has a weak wire and so

shorts out now off and on so they need of replaced for me.

they are of a costly things but do plan with some of my speak money

in march to buy of me a new set as I to really do need of them for

many reasons.

I too did not be to know the movie was of scary until after i to went

of it already and it was of scary to me but only the creature parts

because it was of too loud and fast for me to process, and because of

saying to self not real not real over and over. I to also close of

the shirt over my face when feared and chews on my inner shirt collar

things for a time to rid self of the imagages to cause of me fears.

But over all because lacked comprehension of the movie it was not as

fearful as some movies are for me because did not comprehend of the

implied meanings or intent and had no ability to keep up and much of

the movie was of non verbal and this causes me a loss and because

cant read that also cant interpret it to cause of me fears or an

ability to know what is of expected to happen next.

My Aimee is of much into vampires. she loves to read all the books on

them and see of all the movies about them.

Sondra

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Sondra your sound cancellation system sounds nice. It would help if movies

weren't so loud these days. I can hardly bear the sound level at most

movies, so I don't know how people who have sensitivity to sound stand it at

all.

When you described closing your shirt over your face, I had a memory flash

of my scary movie. By the end of Jurassic Park, I had been hiding my face

against my hubby's shoulder and hanging on tightly to his arm for a long time.

When the movie was over, his arm was totally numb. I think it took a long

while before the feeling came back in his arm,LOL. Sometimes, when you find

yourself stuck in a movie you didn't know was going to be scary, hiding your

face and blocking out the sounds is the best thing you can do. I think I might

have asked dh to leave the movie, he doesn't like scary either, but we had

gone with another couple so we were stuck there.

Sandi

In a message dated 1/18/2008 2:06:53 P.M. Central Standard Time,

hfa2@... writes:

Sandy I to not be of able to use the foam ear plugs much as they

cause of me pains after a short time and too much pressure tends to

build up in the ear causing me ear pains and bad headaches. But I to

have of a sound cancelation system and use of that when going but

that day forgot of them so went to the bathroom and got of some

toilet paper damp and squeezed out all the liquid and then used of

them as a plug like things and I to use of cotton balls too in the

same fashions. The sound cancellation system has a weak wire and so

shorts out now off and on so they need of replaced for me.

they are of a costly things but do plan with some of my speak money

in march to buy of me a new set as I to really do need of them for

many reasons.

I too did not be to know the movie was of scary until after i to went

of it already and it was of scary to me but only the creature parts

because it was of too loud and fast for me to process, and because of

saying to self not real not real over and over. I to also close of

the shirt over my face when feared and chews on my inner shirt collar

things for a time to rid self of the imagages to cause of me fears.

But over all because lacked comprehension of the movie it was not as

fearful as some movies are for me because did not comprehend of the

implied meanings or intent and had no ability to keep up and much of

the movie was of non verbal and this causes me a loss and because

cant read that also cant interpret it to cause of me fears or an

ability to know what is of expected to happen next.

My Aimee is of much into vampires. she loves to read all the books on

them and see of all the movies about them.

Sondra

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