Re: Re: the sameness(Sondra)

[Guest guest]

Thanks Sondra...you made me feel so better.... I know that must have been way

more difficult...I only have one on the spectrum and it's hard, but only

imagining you and your 4 kids all on the spectrum...I sometimes take Xanax for

my anxiety,and maybe I should take more in situations like this...I only take it

when driving or riding in the car because i have really bad anxiety in that

situation, but I almost feel trapped and like I am being suffocated in this

situation when my daughter is out of control...I don't know...I am not being

negative just honest...and I get so stressed out about it...Thanks..

sondra wrote:

sorry you hads such a rough and challenging morning and yes as

had many of them when my childrens were of little and had of tears

too because of the expectations and the law says have to send of them

to school but how do a mom on spectrum get of 4 kids ready for school

that are of also on the spectrum and each having thier own issues. it

was like of a domino effect if one was upset it caused the rest to go

out of sync and by the time I to getted them all off to the school

buses and such I to locked ofmy doors and sat with my blankets and

just sat for a long time to recoup of the drained mental and

emotionals states of me. Sometimes I to worked it off by to clean and

clean and organize but mostly I to just say and rocked or watched of

my TV more for the noise than the actions of people but that was of

then. Now all of then can get of ready by of themselves with minimal

prompts and or cues and all are of in their teen years.

One day will just share of a one day of my life back then of the

kids. many will be of to read and relate to it all and some will be

to laugh and some will just wonder. but like jon and kate say this is

a crazy life but it of our life.

Sondra

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[Guest guest]

Thanks Sondra...you made me feel so better.... I know that must have been way

more difficult...I only have one on the spectrum and it's hard, but only

imagining you and your 4 kids all on the spectrum...I sometimes take Xanax for

my anxiety,and maybe I should take more in situations like this...I only take it

when driving or riding in the car because i have really bad anxiety in that

situation, but I almost feel trapped and like I am being suffocated in this

situation when my daughter is out of control...I don't know...I am not being

negative just honest...and I get so stressed out about it...Thanks..

sondra wrote:

sorry you hads such a rough and challenging morning and yes as

had many of them when my childrens were of little and had of tears

too because of the expectations and the law says have to send of them

to school but how do a mom on spectrum get of 4 kids ready for school

that are of also on the spectrum and each having thier own issues. it

was like of a domino effect if one was upset it caused the rest to go

out of sync and by the time I to getted them all off to the school

buses and such I to locked ofmy doors and sat with my blankets and

just sat for a long time to recoup of the drained mental and

emotionals states of me. Sometimes I to worked it off by to clean and

clean and organize but mostly I to just say and rocked or watched of

my TV more for the noise than the actions of people but that was of

then. Now all of then can get of ready by of themselves with minimal

prompts and or cues and all are of in their teen years.

One day will just share of a one day of my life back then of the

kids. many will be of to read and relate to it all and some will be

to laugh and some will just wonder. but like jon and kate say this is

a crazy life but it of our life.

Sondra

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[Guest guest]

I never heard of that story before...but it brings a good point...thank you...

sondra wrote:

I to hope you feel safe to vent and being honest is of being

human in emotions. it isof okay to cry of tears as many autism or not

have of a bad day. When I tothink of my won issues i to remind of self

life could been of more intense in challenges and remind self of the

loving caring family of the little girl who is maybe age of 7 by now of

the show a girl without a face and she had of themost severest form of

that disorder ever recorded and survived and while she does not have a

face to look into from parents perspective they look farther and are of

able to see their daughters soul and this is of how they have always

seen of her from day one. Do they do all they can to recreate of her a

face..... yes but she will never have a typical face but a more

funcitonal one in the senes of being able to use her eyes, mouth and

such for her own dignity in this life. it is not for htem that they

seek a face to look into but a face to help her be all she can be in

this life and providing of her the tools, treatments, therapy to assure

she is of a successful in this life.

Sondra

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