Update

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Hi Everyone,

I have been super busy but have been keeping up as much as possible with the

posts. First of all as a refresher I am 's Mom and she is the one that has

the p10 mutation and autism etc. She had her thyroid removed a few weeks ago and

thank god doesn't have cancer! YEAH!!!! She did really well with the surgery and

actually loved " resting " in the hospital for a few days. Hey no brothers and

movies on demand can't be bad right? I loved the post from , it was just

beautiful.

I think with all of these different opinions out there we just have to realize

there is a happy medium. Hearing from Sondra about her 4 kids on the spectrum

and herself and Amy and all of us in between I think the one thing we have in

common is that we love our children and want what is best for them and everyone

has to do it in their own way. I feel guilty a lot that maybe I am not doing all

I could be for my daughter and her 4 brothers (one with autism one with

tourettes). I realized a lot after reading all of these different posts and

especially from the ones of you with older girls. Yes we want our daughters to

be free of pain as much as we can help it and help them in whatever ways we can

but loving them for who they are is probably the best way to have a meaningful

relationship with them. I am rambling and maybe not making any sense and mainly

I wanted to let everyone know that 's tumor was benign. Thanks!