Guest guest Posted January 18, 2007 Report Share Posted January 18, 2007 Bev in Iowa wrote: " " Here the person that really gets stuck is the surviving at-home spouse, usually a woman with no pension of her own except maybe Soc. Sec.(Many male at-home spouses have military or company pensions besides Soc. Sec.to live on) If her husband is in a nursing home on Medicaid, his Soc. Sec. and pensions go toward his care. She may have a house and car, but the typical spouse in that case has a very small Soc. Sec. check due to working in low wage jobs, opting out of the job market to care for children or family members. She's left destitute for living expenses and cannot get welfare unless she " spends down " her assets, ie. sells her house and car, proceeds of which would probably go to the state for her spouse's care, then apply for aid. " " My answer: There is a program that has been around for years called -Spousal Impoverishment-. It's not to put the spouse not in the nursing home in the poor house, but to allocate the money and property of the spouse in the nursing home to their spouse who is remaining at home. Unless the couple has a lot of income 2,000 plus a month or a lot of liquid assets(cash), more than $100,000 in the bank, all the money is allocated to the spouse who is living outside of the nursing home. If you are over any of the income/property limits, appeal the action, most Administrative Law Judges will put aside the limits. If you have questions again, ask your Social Services worker, your local Legal Aid Society or your state senators office. No one has had to sell their paid for house or car for years, in order to be eligible for aid. Now most states aren't going to make your payments for you, if you are on aid. People do lose their houses and cars, in that case it's easier to save face and blame the government. But for more than 20 years, the value of the home you live in, or the car you drive, has not been counted in the amount of property to determine eligibility. " " Also on welfare to unwed mothers, don't forget - it takes 2 to Tango. For every unwed mother, there's a man out there somewhere who has equal responsibility in caring for his child. Some men assume this responsibility as caring, supporting fathers. Most don't. " " My answer -- One of the things a parent applying for aid must do is assign Child Support Rights to the state. Depending on the state they can be very effective at finding the absent parent and collecting child support. This money is applied to the aid the family receives, and sometimes the child support collected is more that the aid the family receives. In that case, the state will continue to collect the child support for the custodial parent, and pass the money on to the custodial parent after their aid ends. Yes, this happens, surprising often. Also, women aren't the only ones who are custodial parents, so are fathers and many grandparents. Working in the system, you see everything, in ever possible permutation. " " In many states the incentive in welfare is to stay on it, not work to get off it, esp. if she is penalized for earning money. Not enough good paying jobs are available to her because of education, transportation and child care issues to mention a few. I worked with a university on a federal-state grant to get low income women into better paying jobs. The only way a woman could make it on that program was to have a child if she didn't have one, or have another if she already had one. It was so senseless and frustrating that I quit. " " My answer -- According to the TANF(welfare) regulations, the first 40% of earned income and half of the remaining income is deducted from the gross income of a person on TANF. For example, if a woman makes $1,000, 40% or $400 is deducted first and then half of what remains $600/2 or $300. So for earning $1,000, only $300 is applied against her aid money. So if her aid check is $600 a month, $300 will be deducted. So she gets $300 in aid and $1000 in earnings. Hmmm, $600 if she doesn't work and $1,300 in she does work. Oh, and TANF also pays for child care and transportation. It's been like this for the past ten years, the old AFDC (Aid to Families with Dependant Children) did not work this way. That is why I stress talking with a Social Service Worker, your local Legal Aid Society, or even the Welfare Rights Organization in your area. Also for the past ten years, having more children while on aid does not increase the amount of aid a parent receives. This was a big change. There are a lot of differences between now and even a few years ago. Change is a constant in Social Services. There are a lot of small programs to help minor mothers/parents, disabled clients, parents with disabled children, previous SSI recipients, people trying to get on SSI. Not all people who work in the system know all the programs and the requirements to be eligible for them. It is important to know how to get to that information. And remember, no one situation is a one size fits all. Always ask how Medicaid will effect you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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