Guest guest Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 That judge really gave you a raw deal, and it takes a lot of money to fight something like that (I know because my brother-in-law's ex tried to pull something like that, but he was willing to spend his last nickel to fight her, she ran out of money before he did - and the kids are the ones that have paid dearly for both their stubborness!). If you had a court order saying he would pay the bills, then you should be able to take action against him. Anyway, I'm so sorry to hear how you've been treated, no wonder you're feeling a bit blue. You're not alone, the people here are great, always willing to lend a shoulder to cry on, and most of the time give you the info you need. Try not to just sit alone, get out, even for a few minutes, whenever you can. And use the internet to stay in contact with people. I particpate not only in this group, but in several other groups, too, mostly photography and art based. There's a group out there for almost any interest. Where are you? Maybe someone from here is close to you. Feel free to email me, for conversations about just about anything, contact of any sort should make you feel less alone. Good luck with your next Rheumy visit, hope getting back on the meds will help you. On 8/14/06, angelbeth0106 <amk0501angel@...> wrote: > > Hi all, My name is ,, i have recently run accross these group > things on . I have been DX with Sjogrens syndrom, RA, Lupus- > SLE, connective tissue diease, pulrasey, fatigue, etc. This has been > a 6 year issue starting with pancrease issues to point of havign to > get a feeding tube to be able o eat anything! No one understanding > exactly why pancrease acting this way! I continued to get very sick > till finally I was sent to a Rehummy doc and she did tons of test and > found out what was going on! All while my hubby left and went thru > divorce for custody, them playing up me getting sicker. DX came > towards end of trial,, and judge of very very small country town > decided due to taking morphine daily, I should not have custody of > teenagers! They would be to active for me to handle! Even over 3 > doctors letters stating that I was able to care for my children! I > have not figured out how to deal with all the stress so you guessed > it the lupus and sjogrens are getting worse daily! The ex quit paying > our bills unbeknown to me, until they knocked on my door to take the > house we were suppose to be selling and slpitting the profit. So > rushed to find place to live, alone, in now area, I have 1 amazing > great friend, no family, and trying to figure out how to deal with > all this! I was approved for Social security disability first time > thru applying for it! I have been told that is unheard of and it has > been the only reason I have been able to get a place to live! I > totally don't know what to do next, sitting here in house every day, > day after day, alone and not one person really to talk to or share > with. hoping to learn so much more and understand things better thru > talking on the internet! WOW i have went on , I'm very sorry,,hope > not to boring or whiny. I'm lost and scared , and alone, dr appt on > sept first in 6 months,, had to wait for medicare to start before > could see docs again! Judge also stopped his medical insurance > before medicare could kick in, so had to stop taking most meds, > except plaqinil, and pain meds! Thanks for you time and > understanding I do hope all have a great day! > > > -- South Pasadena, CA Polymyalgia Rheumatica, Fibromyalgia, Sjogrens, OA, and steroid-induced diabetes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 , Welcome to our group. I'm sorry that you've had all of this to deal with, and then to have to also deal with a jerk of a husband on top of all that. I do hope that you have visitation rights with your kids and are able to see them often. Some of the drug companies will provide medications free for those with no insurance. Anyway, with all that you have to put up with, you need this group. Here you will get support, understanding, and empathy. Our moderators, a and , keep us educated about all of these autoimmune diseases by sending us articles. They're super! Sue On Monday, August 14, 2006, at 04:26 PM, angelbeth0106 wrote: > Hi all, My name is ,, i have recently run accross these group > things on . I have been DX with Sjogrens syndrom, RA, Lupus- > SLE, connective tissue diease, pulrasey, fatigue, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 > Hello , you will have many friends here everyone is great, but I know all about being alone, My hubby works 10 hrs aday and when he gets home he is tired and most times falls asleep soon after supper and their I sit again not talking to anyone, again, so I hear how you are feeling. My name is Janet and I live in northern IL. have 6 grandkids that I dont see much and on grandchild on the way, I too have RA OA and fribo along with other thing. so again welcome and if you every need to talk their is alway someone on here day or night, Janet IN IL > Hi all, My name is ,, i have recently run accross these group > things on . and pain meds! Thanks for you time and > understanding I do hope all have a great day! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 Hi : Welcome to the group! The people here are wonderful,very caring and supportive, and there is lots of great information. Reading the posts can give you some great advice and info. I am sorry for you multiple diagnoses - that must be very difficult and very painful for you. Then, on top of all of that, going through a messy divorce, having your husband take custody of your children and then leave you with all of the bills, unbelieveable. You are a strong lady to have survived all of this. You are not whiny or boring - don't think of yourself that way - you are in chronic pain, and we all need to vent now and again - we completely understand. I hope that your doctor visit goes well and you are able to get back on some medications to help you and ease your pain. I am sure that you will get a lot out of being in this group, and will make friends too. Take care - Kathe in CA > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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