Re: Re: hubby left OT Cassy

[Guest guest]

My prayers are with you Anne-Marie

I hope you find somewhere save to sleep other than a Truck shop.

Have you try the women shelters are calling social service agencies in

your community, or going to the Hospital if the pain gets bad, at least

there you can spend the night on a bed.

What State are you in.

My Bio

I'm 46 years old I just join this group on Saturday and am so glad to

have find it, I was at my wits end thinking there was something wrong with

me it nice to know am not alone, and that there is others who understand what

am going through. I live in Ontario Canada married with 3 children oldest is

22 and the youngest is 14 I use to work full time but now am working part-time

because the full time job was just to hard on my system.

I take Humira and methotrexate, to try and control my RA

and I have never been complete pain free am still waiting for that day

does it every come.

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MArie-

IS your son-in law abusive to your daughter? If so, prhaps an anonymous call

to Adult Protective Services is in order. Have you thought about Social

Services? In most places they have provisions for emergency housing, especially

if you are disabled. Perhaps you can get help from the state in that way. Even a

hotel is better than your car. Its warmer, anyway...I don't know what else might

help right now, because I dont know your story, but that might be a start,

Jane

snowespi <snowespi@...> wrote:

Good-morning to ALL! This is a safe place for me. Once again, I woke up

in a truck spot and in so much pain. Thank God I am not in jail. It was

a first and it was hell. Cassey, I am praying for you as I know you

will have your moments as I am having. There is fear and lonliness. It

is soooo hard. I feel like rob won and I lost my daughter. I can't make

sense of it. My daughter and I were so close. How can this be

happening???? I am alone. In this state I have no one. I only had my

daughter. Thank you, all for your prayers. I have nothing. When I came

out of jail - the locks were changed and so at least I can come to the

public library and use the computer. I do not feel safe here. I do not

trust rob at all. That's my daughter's husband. God bless each and

everyone of you. I'll keep reading All the posts as you are my family.

At least I know you will never reject me. Thank you June and All! We

will survive one day at a time. Hang in there, Cassey. ANd Lynn and

each and everyone. I am open to any suggestions. With love,Marie

>

> Hi Cassy:

>

> You say that his mom won, but, truthfully, I think

> that you did, as his negativity and the extra stress

> he causes you is gone from the house. My prayers are

> with you, my friend.

>

> Kathe in CA

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

What about approaching red cross, or salvation any for help, also may church run

programs for people in need,. I am sure the library carries the local paper,

some of the church programs might be listed there.

Bargeman <mtbargeman30@...> wrote: MArie-

IS your son-in law abusive to your daughter? If so, prhaps an anonymous call

to Adult Protective Services is in order. Have you thought about Social

Services? In most places they have provisions for emergency housing, especially

if you are disabled. Perhaps you can get help from the state in that way. Even a

hotel is better than your car. Its warmer, anyway...I don't know what else might

help right now, because I dont know your story, but that might be a start,

Jane

snowespi <snowespi@...> wrote:

Good-morning to ALL! This is a safe place for me. Once again, I woke up

in a truck spot and in so much pain. Thank God I am not in jail. It was

a first and it was hell. Cassey, I am praying for you as I know you

will have your moments as I am having. There is fear and lonliness. It

is soooo hard. I feel like rob won and I lost my daughter. I can't make

sense of it. My daughter and I were so close. How can this be

happening???? I am alone. In this state I have no one. I only had my

daughter. Thank you, all for your prayers. I have nothing. When I came

out of jail - the locks were changed and so at least I can come to the

public library and use the computer. I do not feel safe here. I do not

trust rob at all. That's my daughter's husband. God bless each and

everyone of you. I'll keep reading All the posts as you are my family.

At least I know you will never reject me. Thank you June and All! We

will survive one day at a time. Hang in there, Cassey. ANd Lynn and

each and everyone. I am open to any suggestions. With love,Marie

>

> Hi Cassy:

>

> You say that his mom won, but, truthfully, I think

> that you did, as his negativity and the extra stress

> he causes you is gone from the house. My prayers are

> with you, my friend.

>

> Kathe in CA

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Sending prayers winging their way to you, Cassy, that

all will go smoothly with his return. Do you think he

would go for counseling? Best of luck -

Kathe

--- cnberte <bertelson@...> wrote:

> Thank you everyone, but he is back. He came back

> last night, but of

> course without his clothes. I will pray for God to

> help me remain

> positive and set a good example for the kids. For

> stength not to

> lose my temper. He is a loose cannon emotionally

> right now. I want

> to be here for him when he is ready to deal with but

> I have informed

> him that as far as I am concerned our marriage is

> over and it will

> be up to him to make the moves necessary to work on

> healing. Love

> to all. You all save my life and sanity. I am not

> so sure my MIL

> is as excited about the prospect as she once was,

> now that it is

> squarely in her lap. LOL. Cassy

>

>

>

> >

> > > Hi all, thank you all for your support. I think

> > > that my husband just

> > > left me. He took all of his clothes and left.

> It

> > > all started with

> > > discussing my son's migraines. I had taken him

> to

> > > the dr on thurs

> > > (my hubby was told in advance what time and

> where

> > > but of course was

> > > too busy to attend) and he was finally put on a

> > > preventative med, and

> > > a migraine arrester. I am very glad as he has

> > > suffered for a long

> > > time. I was reluctant to discuss with my

> husband

> > > because he doesn't

> > > really listen to what I say and goes off

> without

> > > all of the info. He

> > > has already decided that he doesn't want this

> > > anymore, I was just the

> > > last to know. I have been trying to work this

> out

> > > right up until an

> > > hour ago. He was going on and on about me

> thinking

> > > everything has to

> > > be fixed with medication. blah, blah, blah. I

> kinda

> > > saw that one

> > > coming but Cam is he son as well, so I have to

> give

> > > him the info. I

> > > feel like I am talking to a big knothead. Then

> the

> > > call came from a

> > > credit card that I am behind on. I make the

> > > payments each month but

> > > because I was late before it is always over the

> > > limit and I get the

> > > fees. I am on the only one paying bills so I am

> > > doing the best I

> > > can. I don't understand how he can get on me all

> the

> > > time and keep

> > > all of his money in his pocket! I don't get it,

> I

> > > really don't. I

> > > feel such a relief, reallly sad but relief,

> truely

> > > relieved. His mom

> > > has won, yea!! Cassy

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> > Kathe in CA

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >

[Guest guest]

That's a good plan BUT- RC makes people PAY BACK the money. Also, Salvation Army

is not often very much help, except maybe with shelters-they don't really do

anything permanent. Churches are a good start. Also try Jewish Family Services

in your area, as well as Catholic Family Services. They dont care what " brand " of

human you are- you could be pagan, it won't matter. Also, ARC, United Way, even

sometimes at AA meetings (not that you need them-I dont know) you can find a

safe place to crash.

Good Luck,

Jane

susan smith <bizzare48@...> wrote:

What about approaching red cross, or salvation any for help, also may church

run programs for people in need,. I am sure the library carries the local paper,

some of the church programs might be listed there.

Bargeman <mtbargeman30@...> wrote: MArie-

IS your son-in law abusive to your daughter? If so, prhaps an anonymous call

to Adult Protective Services is in order. Have you thought about Social

Services? In most places they have provisions for emergency housing, especially

if you are disabled. Perhaps you can get help from the state in that way. Even a

hotel is better than your car. Its warmer, anyway...I don't know what else might

help right now, because I dont know your story, but that might be a start,

Jane

snowespi <snowespi@...> wrote:

Good-morning to ALL! This is a safe place for me. Once again, I woke up

in a truck spot and in so much pain. Thank God I am not in jail. It was

a first and it was hell. Cassey, I am praying for you as I know you

will have your moments as I am having. There is fear and lonliness. It

is soooo hard. I feel like rob won and I lost my daughter. I can't make

sense of it. My daughter and I were so close. How can this be

happening???? I am alone. In this state I have no one. I only had my

daughter. Thank you, all for your prayers. I have nothing. When I came

out of jail - the locks were changed and so at least I can come to the

public library and use the computer. I do not feel safe here. I do not

trust rob at all. That's my daughter's husband. God bless each and

everyone of you. I'll keep reading All the posts as you are my family.

At least I know you will never reject me. Thank you June and All! We

will survive one day at a time. Hang in there, Cassey. ANd Lynn and

each and everyone. I am open to any suggestions. With love,Marie

>

> Hi Cassy:

>

> You say that his mom won, but, truthfully, I think

> that you did, as his negativity and the extra stress

> he causes you is gone from the house. My prayers are

> with you, my friend.

>

> Kathe in CA

>

>

>