Re: hubby left OT Cassy

[Guest guest]

Hi Cassy:

You say that his mom won, but, truthfully, I think

that you did, as his negativity and the extra stress

he causes you is gone from the house. My prayers are

with you, my friend.

Kathe in CA

--- cnberte <bertelson@...> wrote:

> Hi all, thank you all for your support. I think

> that my husband just

> left me. He took all of his clothes and left. It

> all started with

> discussing my son's migraines. I had taken him to

> the dr on thurs

> (my hubby was told in advance what time and where

> but of course was

> too busy to attend) and he was finally put on a

> preventative med, and

> a migraine arrester. I am very glad as he has

> suffered for a long

> time. I was reluctant to discuss with my husband

> because he doesn't

> really listen to what I say and goes off without

> all of the info. He

> has already decided that he doesn't want this

> anymore, I was just the

> last to know. I have been trying to work this out

> right up until an

> hour ago. He was going on and on about me thinking

> everything has to

> be fixed with medication. blah, blah, blah. I kinda

> saw that one

> coming but Cam is he son as well, so I have to give

> him the info. I

> feel like I am talking to a big knothead. Then the

> call came from a

> credit card that I am behind on. I make the

> payments each month but

> because I was late before it is always over the

> limit and I get the

> fees. I am on the only one paying bills so I am

> doing the best I

> can. I don't understand how he can get on me all the

> time and keep

> all of his money in his pocket! I don't get it, I

> really don't. I

> feel such a relief, reallly sad but relief, truely

> relieved. His mom

> has won, yea!! Cassy

>

>

>

>

Kathe in CA

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[Guest guest]

Good-morning to ALL! This is a safe place for me. Once again, I woke up

in a truck spot and in so much pain. Thank God I am not in jail. It was

a first and it was hell. Cassey, I am praying for you as I know you

will have your moments as I am having. There is fear and lonliness. It

is soooo hard. I feel like rob won and I lost my daughter. I can't make

sense of it. My daughter and I were so close. How can this be

happening???? I am alone. In this state I have no one. I only had my

daughter. Thank you, all for your prayers. I have nothing. When I came

out of jail - the locks were changed and so at least I can come to the

public library and use the computer. I do not feel safe here. I do not

trust rob at all. That's my daughter's husband. God bless each and

everyone of you. I'll keep reading All the posts as you are my family.

At least I know you will never reject me. Thank you June and All! We

will survive one day at a time. Hang in there, Cassey. ANd Lynn and

each and everyone. I am open to any suggestions. With love,Marie

>

> Hi Cassy:

>

> You say that his mom won, but, truthfully, I think

> that you did, as his negativity and the extra stress

> he causes you is gone from the house. My prayers are

> with you, my friend.

>

> Kathe in CA

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thank you everyone, but he is back. He came back last night, but of

course without his clothes. I will pray for God to help me remain

positive and set a good example for the kids. For stength not to

lose my temper. He is a loose cannon emotionally right now. I want

to be here for him when he is ready to deal with but I have informed

him that as far as I am concerned our marriage is over and it will

be up to him to make the moves necessary to work on healing. Love

to all. You all save my life and sanity. I am not so sure my MIL

is as excited about the prospect as she once was, now that it is

squarely in her lap. LOL. Cassy

>

> > Hi all, thank you all for your support. I think

> > that my husband just

> > left me. He took all of his clothes and left. It

> > all started with

> > discussing my son's migraines. I had taken him to

> > the dr on thurs

> > (my hubby was told in advance what time and where

> > but of course was

> > too busy to attend) and he was finally put on a

> > preventative med, and

> > a migraine arrester. I am very glad as he has

> > suffered for a long

> > time. I was reluctant to discuss with my husband

> > because he doesn't

> > really listen to what I say and goes off without

> > all of the info. He

> > has already decided that he doesn't want this

> > anymore, I was just the

> > last to know. I have been trying to work this out

> > right up until an

> > hour ago. He was going on and on about me thinking

> > everything has to

> > be fixed with medication. blah, blah, blah. I kinda

> > saw that one

> > coming but Cam is he son as well, so I have to give

> > him the info. I

> > feel like I am talking to a big knothead. Then the

> > call came from a

> > credit card that I am behind on. I make the

> > payments each month but

> > because I was late before it is always over the

> > limit and I get the

> > fees. I am on the only one paying bills so I am

> > doing the best I

> > can. I don't understand how he can get on me all the

> > time and keep

> > all of his money in his pocket! I don't get it, I

> > really don't. I

> > feel such a relief, reallly sad but relief, truely

> > relieved. His mom

> > has won, yea!! Cassy

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

> Kathe in CA

>

>

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